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this post was submitted on 19 Aug 2024
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sad, negativity, transphobia, dysphoria, complaining about autism and being pre hrt
I'm disgusting and repulsive. I don't see how anyone could genuinely love my body, ever. Maybe settle for it, or look at me as some fetish object. It's awful and manish. So many things from being a man. I literally do not see how I can transition and actually look okay. I don't buy it.
No one loves me and they probably never will. And I can't live my whole life like that.
self harm
Wouldn't be a fucking eggnog sad post without bringing up self harm would it be.spoiler
If your conversational skills are "awful" mine must be abysmal. You're one of the only people I talk to with any frequency and I've never once thought you were boring or anything of the sort. I like your snakes, nerd.Many such cases, many such transfems asking how their partners can really love them, that sort of thing. Just because you can't see how anyone could love you or your physical form doesn't mean nobody else can. You're gonna be fine.
Try to remember the advice Genderisopsec gave you...
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You are much better at conversation then me. Glad you like the snakes though.I don't have a red marker or anything. I've already settled on what I'm going to do tbh. Thank you for the reminder though. Always like seeing your comments in my inbox.
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LMAO WHAT THE FUCKI see, yw. Wish I could advise more, but I'm always happy to see your comments in mine too β¨
I canβt remember ever seeing a problem with your conversational skills. Iβm probably worse in spite of my incredible interestingness, because I keep pissing off people accidentally and you like never do that from what I can tell.
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Pfffffffft I'm sorry what. Look I love Ash, I love talking to Ash, and I mean this in the best way possible, no she fucking isn't lmao. Eggy you're fine at conversation.I'm sorry π I love talking to you too, and you're great fun to talk to. And you're not terrible at conversation you're just not better than Egg
Wow great stuff, thanks so much. Absolutely splendid really appreciate the fucking accolades.
You're right, I'm sorry, that was a shitty fucking thing to say, and the reply made it a lot worse.
this is a mean thing to say even if you believe it
This is a shitty thing to say.
Deleted, I don't want to hurt anyone in here, I care about you all too deeply and I worry my original reply could have been misinterpreted.
Look being as frank as I can be you have a ton to learn in regards to being empathetic with people and helpful but outside of those contexts you're a decent listener and the few times you do talk about your interests it's nice. But really being a good listener is the most important thing for conversation, the rest can come later. And sometimes just listening is enough to help people empathically, there's a reason I just had a quick little vent in your DMs those few times
self hate
I genuinely feel nothing but loathing for everything about myself right now.edit again: the sucky thing about not eating is eventually you just start getting less hungry, now even 1000 calories is too many. :::
Try to strive for 1200 at least, thatβs just 200 more I believe in you
eating
I'm not going to, I already shouldn't have eaten some of what I did.spoiler
Why tho? what is your rationale?spoiler
Well I had some chocolate, so that's kinda a waste of calories.Plus I feel like when I'm hungry I feel better.
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I mean if youβve had chocolate and your still only at less than 1000 thatβs even more reason to have something more nutritious.Why do you feel better when you are hungry?
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My nutrition is pretty bad already tbf, I'm sure cutting my calories down doesn't help.Couldnβt you just wear a rubber band on your arm and whip yourself with it?
self harm, eating, weight
I mean I guess, but that's also just self harming. Plus, if I let myself do that whenever I wanted, I'd just end up doing it constantly. Plus I did used to do it hard enough to leave marks, not great to have marks on my arms. And I don't really have a knife anyway.And not eating has the advantage of making me smaller. Already down some weight in the last few months but the amount I've been eating keeps declining. Need to lose more, some garbage med a while ago made me gain weight and I never lost all of it.
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The key is to build a healthy relationship with food and habits, otherwise you risk developing anorexia or gaining it all back.Plus itβs better for your health that way.
I canβt speak on the self-harm motivation, but in as far as you are doing it for weight loss reasons I would recommend not going overboard.