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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 7 points 5 months ago (1 children)

spoilerIf your conversational skills are "awful" mine must be abysmal. You're one of the only people I talk to with any frequency and I've never once thought you were boring or anything of the sort. I like your snakes, nerd.

I don't see how anyone could genuinely love my body, ever.

Many such cases, many such transfems asking how their partners can really love them, that sort of thing. Just because you can't see how anyone could love you or your physical form doesn't mean nobody else can. You're gonna be fine.

Try to remember the advice Genderisopsec gave you...

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 8 points 5 months ago (3 children)

spoilerYou are much better at conversation then me. Glad you like the snakes though.

I don't have a red marker or anything. I've already settled on what I'm going to do tbh. Thank you for the reminder though. Always like seeing your comments in my inbox.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 8 points 5 months ago

spoilerLMAO WHAT THE FUCK susie-laugh Dear Eggy, you have all of my affection for this. I'm glad you think I'm good at talking at least. Scaly dogs :>

I see, yw. Wish I could advise more, but I'm always happy to see your comments in mine too ✨

[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 4 points 5 months ago

I can’t remember ever seeing a problem with your conversational skills. I’m probably worse in spite of my incredible interestingness, because I keep pissing off people accidentally and you like never do that from what I can tell.

[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (4 children)

spoilerPfffffffft I'm sorry what. Look I love Ash, I love talking to Ash, and I mean this in the best way possible, no she fucking isn't lmao. Eggy you're fine at conversation.

[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 7 points 5 months ago

this is a mean thing to say even if you believe it

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 7 points 5 months ago (1 children)
[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

I'm sorry πŸ˜” I love talking to you too, and you're great fun to talk to. And you're not terrible at conversation you're just not better than Egg

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 6 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Wow great stuff, thanks so much. Absolutely splendid really appreciate the fucking accolades.

[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 3 points 5 months ago

You're right, I'm sorry, that was a shitty fucking thing to say, and the reply made it a lot worse.

[–] magi@hexbear.net 5 points 5 months ago

This is a shitty thing to say.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 4 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

Deleted, I don't want to hurt anyone in here, I care about you all too deeply and I worry my original reply could have been misinterpreted.

[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 5 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Look being as frank as I can be you have a ton to learn in regards to being empathetic with people and helpful but outside of those contexts you're a decent listener and the few times you do talk about your interests it's nice. But really being a good listener is the most important thing for conversation, the rest can come later. And sometimes just listening is enough to help people empathically, there's a reason I just had a quick little vent in your DMs those few times

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 6 points 5 months ago

ohnoes I really try to be empathetic, or at least be quiet if I can't be. I'm glad you think I'm a good listener though, I really try.