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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago (5 children)

pepe-silvia

Watching the credits roll on Fallow and BETA TESTERS: Remy Boydell.

lea-breakdown ALL TRANS WOMEN WHO MAKE THINGS ONLINE KNOW EACHOTHER ITS ALL CONNECTED

This must be where 920LONDON the song being based on 920LONDON the graphic novel came from, I guess. Uh what the fuck. Also that ending raised even more questions than it answered.

badeline-anxious If you know anything about any of this shit I am begging you to talk to me about it. This feels like I opened up a big rabbit hole, I am not gonna shut up about this for days at least

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago (5 children)

New pfp same me, look out nerds comfy-cool

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[–] Mousy@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago (1 children)
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[–] buh@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago (10 children)

horny gay postingAm I really attracted to guys if the only guys I've ever been sexually attracted to are ones who are feminine to the point where some of them might just be closeted trans women?

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago (9 children)

God I wish I was wearing a skirt right now.

I need to start moving towards it so bad.

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago (5 children)

it's gonna be cooling down again soon. gonna try to get out hiking again

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago (2 children)

The way I can tell that supply & demand is fake, and that all other econ101 concepts are fake, is this: if that shit was real, someone would be making fuckin bank off of a shoe store whose smallest size is like 10 women's and goes up through like, 16 wide, 18, just decent large-size women's shoes. Economics is fake, though, and such a store does not exist afaik.

power-genius

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[–] magi@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago (8 children)

When you turn round to talk to your wife and notice her skirt has rode up over her thighs to reveal her stockings crush

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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago (1 children)

clueless today i will not get gender envy from a video game character

aware fuck

spoilershe's from Northgard and she can break me over her knee any day crush

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago (5 children)

Saw a picture of myself from a year ago compared to one from today, and I looked significantly worse than I do now. Like, I knew I was looking better after I went vegan soon after, but that only affected certain things. The magic that is being on E for almost 3 months, shaving, and having longer hair has done absolute wonders for how I see myself niko-dance

I also just look happier to be honest, even though I was struggling to portray those emotions in the photos both times, I can just see something about this new one idk.

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago (8 children)

I wanted to make brownies from mix but this motherfucker needs an egg! What's a vegan alternative for egg in a baking mix? I should've read it before I went home, at least it only needs oil and water instead of milk

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[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago (5 children)

The internet says autistics either barely talk or won’t shut up and don’t change much per context. What if I’m always one or the other given the context?

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago

Dysphoria, sadposting vent

spoilerGot sir'd by a cashier madeline-sadeline

Got a headache from bright ass LED headlights in oncoming traffic

One of the hinges on the trunk of my shitty ass car broke and now it doesn't hold open (at least it still latches shut right but fuck)

The check engine light randomly comes on and I think the sensor is busted and the right brake light wiring keeps shorting out

World is a fuck, today sucked ass and I'm exhausted by everything and so goddamn tired of this shit

screm aaaaaaaa

[–] Luna@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago (3 children)

I don't know how much time I'll have tommorow, but that's when I start my new job. Wish me luck! 😁

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[–] KrupskayaPraxis@lemmygrad.ml 17 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Just saw a truck with 'it's transpossible!' written on it.

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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago (4 children)

i feel like i have better balance now thanks to me becoming more bottom heavy lea-happy

i've been so clumsy my entire life after puberty, I once almost broke my ankle while literally standing still. lea-why

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[–] Hestia@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago

Thank you random guest for heaping praise on me in front of the girl I like and inviting me to your restaurant for free food!

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Somehow managed to hurt my back in my sleep

meemaw yes-honey-left

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[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@lemmy.today 17 points 4 months ago

Texas being Texas (ie: fascist)https://dallasvoice.com/breaking-news-dps-enacts-policy-refusing-court-ordered-gender-marker-changes-will-create-database-of-marker-change-requests/

According to a Texas Department of Public Safety internal email, a copy of which was sent to Dallas Voice through a local attorney, DPS has β€” unilaterally and without any public notice β€” decided to stop amending gender markers on Texas driver licenses and state ID cards.

The email also indicates that the DPS will create a database of all individuals who request to have the gender marker on their license or ID changed.

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago (3 children)

imagine the money the british taxpayer would save if tv licensing didn't send you 14 letters every day

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Why are there thirty million dead fish thonk

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago (7 children)

Bit idea: just not doing whatever I need to. Call doctors? Nuh uh. Renew my health card? Nuh uh! Poke about surgery stuff? Believe it or not, also nuh uh.

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[–] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago (7 children)

Pro of estrogen: my thighs and ass are getting bigger

Con: I have to get bigger jeans

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago (3 children)

changing your name to Karen as a bit

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago

misogynyYes I'm here to complain about cooking again. Today I have to cook both lunch and dinner, and dinner is going to be dumplings because my brother wants dumplings which are a huge pain to make, they more than one hour. I just did lunch, that took almost an hour. Usually we don't cook lunch because we have leftovers but sadly that was not the case today, and I don't think my mom was very keen on my suggestion of eating rice and canned beans, so yeah that's the kind of response I get when I want to make something easier than a full-course Chinese meal. And also of course neither my brother nor my dad are going to help out very much, both of them are going out this afternoon (and my brother leaves for college literally tomorrow) and my mom asked if they would be back in time to help with the dumpling-making and both of them were like "lol probably not" (though maybe my mom got my brother to change his mind, so hopefully we see him come help? My dad though? gone.)

[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago (8 children)
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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago (8 children)

hi! i did a whole virtual tour of hexcraft and most of the stuff was built specifically by trans users! please check it out https://hexbear.net/post/3264620

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (5 children)

autism (a bit sad)I was thinking about stimming earlier, so I looked up some information on it. I didn't really understand the line between NT and ND stimming, but overall thought mine wasn't that bad or often. A few things I did were on the ND list and the ones on the NT list seemed really mild, but yea. Not bad. I just have this one particular thing I do a lot, that I need to quit. Hmmm, lets try not doing that for tonight and note what happens.

I started crying and doing all my other ones. I don't understand why I am able to not do it for a few hours/all day if I'm out but when I'm alone I need it. The idea of giving it up is deeply upsetting, but I have to for a few reasons. I have not discovered anything as good as this. I feel very emotionally immature. Like a child.

spoiler really sad now I feel like I'll never be as good as normal people because I have autism. Like I'm stunted. A child. :::

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago

spoilerYou can't just cold turkey a stim like that, there has to be more to it although Idk what. It's not emotionally immature to be reliant on a stim for comfort or stability though, I still pick my lip and such constantly, and get agitated if I can't.

spoiler maturity I know it can feel like that, but none of this is anything to do with your maturity level. NT society likes infantilising autistic people which is horrible, not fair. :::

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

A friend asked me if, now that I'm single, I'll be using tinder or apps or whatever

Hell no, they sucked as a dude. Can't imagine they're any better as a woman.

Also, I ain't dating anyone from my podunk rural ass shit town that doesn't even have the deceny to be a small town, fucking midsized

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[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 16 points 4 months ago (1 children)

my wife got a mini fridge from one of her companies offices that was being cleared out. and omfg it's such a game changer having a mini fridge right next to you at your PC. I just lean down and pull out an ice cold sodie pop any time I want

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 16 points 4 months ago (2 children)

I'm having a hard time separating what feelings I experience are gender euphoria/dysphoria and which ones are just me paying attention to my body and emotions more. Like, lately eating meat heavy meals makes me feel like shit both physically and mentally, but I'm not sure that has to do with transness.

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 16 points 4 months ago

One of the truly great crimes of Fucking Matrix is that deleting messages is impossible. "Oops, something went wrong..." Fuck you fix it idiot.

[–] hopelessbyanxiety@hexbear.net 16 points 4 months ago (5 children)

Questioning bc i like being misgendered. It just makes me happy i cant avoid smiling. Im usually perceived as feminine, but this one woman used masculine pronouns for meee. My family could never do that ._.

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 16 points 4 months ago (10 children)

The nerfarious, distrustworthy wife, putting my head on warm soft boobs to try to keep me comfy and sleeping! aubrey-embarassed

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 16 points 4 months ago

sicko-queer new mega, same me

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