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[โ€“] sisatici@hexbear.net 20 points 4 months ago (10 children)

Stop surpassing us news nerds wojak-nooo or I will call my mom

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[โ€“] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 20 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Wish me luck yaโ€™ll, got my first laser appt for bottom surgery tomorrow, and am both hype for results and emphatically not hype for the pain. basil-anxious-smile

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[โ€“] Thallo@hexbear.net 20 points 4 months ago (10 children)

I think they cranked up the power because that shit hurt this time agony

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[โ€“] thirtymilliondeadfish@hexbear.net 20 points 4 months ago (6 children)

getting bullied for making the same meal (and variations thereof) too often. There's variations! I'm mixing it up! Sometimes the ingredients change! Sometimes it's a sauce on rice, sometimes it's sauce in rice, sometimes it's rice in stew! I'm iterating, I'm innovating, I'm perfecting this shit but nooo I have a limited palate and a poverty mindset.

Gonna eat potatoes alone out of sheer spite rn

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[โ€“] outside_enjoyer@hexbear.net 20 points 4 months ago (4 children)

girlfriend of 3 years just broke up with me, this was my first relationship
tell me how to cope pls

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[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 20 points 4 months ago (2 children)

oh this is BULLSHIT. i just changed pharmacies and now this spiro doesn't smell as good as the last batch what the FUCK

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[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 20 points 4 months ago (4 children)

gotta give it to him, joe biden answering "at least three" when asked how many genders there are is pretty funny

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 19 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (9 children)

so I thought getting gendered correctly was the best feeling everbut its actually getting called your real name. That word had been rattling around in my brain for a while, and that's why. Because that's who I really am. And getting called it feels so good.

Another great day comfy I'm the happiest girl in the world right now. I am very excited for all my other firsts.

I know there's been a lot of emotion posting, I have a special interest post I have been meaning to make, I will try and actually write it out soon. You all better like nerdy >.<

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[โ€“] Ocommie63@lemmygrad.ml 19 points 4 months ago (3 children)

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[โ€“] khizuo@hexbear.net 19 points 4 months ago

I'm writing a blog post rn and honestly kind of having fun with it. Just on a Wordpress free plan for now, until I can get a job and actually get a domain and stuff. I yearn to outfitpost and I hate instagram -> thus, blog.

[โ€“] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 19 points 4 months ago (15 children)

thinking of awful things. what if the general mega rebranded as the Cis Megathread and started competing as well

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[โ€“] Tommasi@hexbear.net 19 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (4 children)

There's basically only one friend I haven't come out as trans to because we only talk on discord, and it's really starting to bother me that he doesn't know, but also I'm meeting him in person next month and I think it would be funny to tell him I just ate too much soy or something and that's why I look like this now idk.

He does treats me differently now so maybe he's already figured it out and is just waiting for me to say something anyway, I definitely act and sound pretty different than I used to.

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[โ€“] Thallo@hexbear.net 19 points 4 months ago (7 children)

I just keep staring at the pictures I took of myself with a dress, makeup, and fake boobs, and I just keep smiling.

Very normal cis behavior. I'm SO cis brandon

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[โ€“] khizuo@hexbear.net 19 points 4 months ago (11 children)

First time binding with trans tape, today.

not-so-quick initial review

  1. It doesn't get the chest down completely flat, which I was expecting; however I do wish I had managed to bind a little flatter? Right now it looks like I have either small A cups or very large pecs, and there's definitely still cleavage there. In the videos I watched it seemed that the people in them were able to get slightly flatter results. This may also be an issue of self-perception and things coming across differently on video, though.

  2. The good part is, when I put on a shirt, it does sell the illusion a lot better. From the front view the illusion works best, from the side view again, looks like small A cups to me but still not too bad. Definitely a lot better than the B/C cup boob silhouette that I was getting really tired of. (I don't know exactly what size bra I wear, the last time I wore a bra at all regularly I was a B cup but that was 5 years ago and I think my boobs have grown since then.)

  3. Definitely feel a lot more comfortable than a traditional binder, which was my main reason for getting it. I got my first binder when I was 18, and right after getting that binder I got COVID. Since then, binders have just... not been comfortable for me, and the last time I tried wearing one I had to take it off really quickly just because of how much difficulty breathing I was having. I could probably get slightly flatter results with a binder, but I don't think it's worth the health risk. I know people also use sports bras for the compression, but I hate bras. They are sensory hell to me and they always have been.

  4. I was not wearing a binder regularly because of how uncomfortable I found it. I think I may try to bind more regularly now with the tape, because yeah, always having to dissociate a bit from my chest area got to be tiring after idk two years of doing it. Hopefully I'll get top surgery sooner rather than later, but I think that's probably still at least a few years off, unfortunately.

  5. Since this is my first time applying it, my application was pretty sloppy and I had to redo one side. I think I'll get better at that as time goes on.

  6. Not having saggy tits is such a boost to my mental health. I know there are probably some people in this thread who want saggy tits, and all I can say is: take my saggy tit energy spirit-bomb

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[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 19 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Is this the normal bi-cycle or am I straight cause if I'm straight I swear to god I'm gonna be pissed

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[โ€“] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 19 points 4 months ago (3 children)

I am once again asking if there's any dating apps that aren't completely awful for transbians

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[โ€“] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 19 points 4 months ago (4 children)

Oh my god I got ass eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

~~I mean I already had a nice one even pre-E but now it's gotten noticeable even in boy pants~~

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[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 19 points 4 months ago

thighs are getting pretty squishy hyperflush

[โ€“] Mousy@hexbear.net 19 points 4 months ago (1 children)

oh maybe i should become someone with 5 middle names nia-smug

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[โ€“] Thallo@hexbear.net 19 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Second laser appointment in one hour. Who's jealous? sicko-fem

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[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 19 points 4 months ago (16 children)

i genuinely feel like i would be so much further ahead in life if i didn't have adhd. i could have a job that doesn't pay absolute shit, a degree, an earlier transition, etc.

actually debilitating

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[โ€“] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 19 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (7 children)

Having a pretty lovely transiversary~ 4 years of being one of them gosh danged transes, it feels really nice.

Went out in my favourite casual outfit to go to a cafe with my brother who was visiting, and I even managed to push myself to go do groceries while still en femme. Proud of myself for that second bit. Plus honestly it's incredible how much better I feel from going out en femme after so long. And I got complimented when I got home by one of my roommate's friends! Still the cutest girl alive~

And apparently I slimmed a bit, since I can't wear my favourite skirt as a high waist quite as easily as I could before. I think my weight might be cycling considering I saw the increase of fat in my ass so that's nice. Sad I can't wear my favourite skirt now though, gonna have to tailor it smaller.

But now I'm back home and can take the rest of the day nice and easy and mess around building cute stuff on the minecraft server now that it's up. Feeling very, very good.

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[โ€“] EllenKelly@hexbear.net 18 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

TERFS FUCK OFF โ€ข TRANS LIBERATION NOW ๐Ÿฉท๐Ÿค๐Ÿฉต

Womens Action Group founder, Michelle Uriaru, and her fascist ilk are planning a transphobic rally.

Help our community drown out the hateful and regressive rhetoric!

FASCISTS OFF OUR STREETS!
DESTROY CARCERAL FEMINISM!
TRANS LIBERATION NOW!

Please join us to show your support for trans liberation:
โ€ข Saturday 17th
โ€ข 12pm
โ€ข Parliament House
โ€ข Bring noisemakers and everyone you know!

We must continue to oppose fascism militantly. See you there.

Share to your socials!\

https://www.instagram.com/p/C-TuSPIzalR/

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[โ€“] Yor@hexbear.net 18 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (3 children)

dysphoria, surgery talk, frustrationI want to only be excited for my consult and eventual surgery, but it's completely poisoned by my situation. I try to be very positive about this, but this will get me to maybe 50% of where my body used to be. sometimes it's hard to be excited for that, hard to be excited to have a big scar on my arm. I just want to be excited and happy, but instead I'm basically a shell of the optimistic person I once was (though I am trying very hard to get her back)

spoiler suicidal ideation I've already decided it's phallo or I'm done, I'm not letting my life be defined by a passive sadness and regret. I hope when I finish recovery and I reassess that I feel I got close enough to what I want, but that's not really for me to worry about now :::

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[โ€“] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 18 points 4 months ago (2 children)

ice cold sodie pop and a can of salt and vinegar crisps for breakfast big-cool yeah I'm a real grown up

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[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 18 points 4 months ago (6 children)

Someone threw a rock at my apartment?? I dunno if they aimed it at my place but it hit my balcony and made the bars ring. It's kind of a nice skipping stone style rock... weird. I'm 3 stories up, that's quite the throw

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[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 18 points 4 months ago (2 children)

My first apartment ever, I paid $700 a month for a 3 bedroom apartment. Can you imagine??? Now I pay $1000 for 1 bedroom and even then that's the cheap end in a rougher neighbourhood.

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[โ€“] khizuo@hexbear.net 18 points 4 months ago

Went thrifting today, first time clothes shopping in I think over a year so I kind of went all out and bought a lot of stuff, most of it in black because I can never have enough black pieces in my wardrobe. I'm most excited about the blazers I got, definitely looking forward to DIYing a punk blazer. I honestly feel like my wardrobe is missing some good basics; I really need a few good black dresses for example, and I didn't find any today that I loved.

[โ€“] Starlet@hexbear.net 18 points 4 months ago (4 children)
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[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 18 points 4 months ago (12 children)

I don't usually post dreams cuz they're stupid, but last night I dreamt I was talking to seryph and tomboymoder abt various things whilst buying my wife a DSi. As if the matrix was a real place or something.

basil-anxious-smile

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[โ€“] Yor@hexbear.net 18 points 4 months ago (1 children)

after a week of the traaa matrix chat taking comments away from the mega, it seems like things are finally balancing out

the psyop is over (for now)

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[โ€“] Thallo@hexbear.net 18 points 4 months ago (3 children)

I saw some girls saying the day after laser that your hair is actually darker because it's burnt, and I think I'm seeing that. I've got some mean stubble going. However, I'm choosing not to let that get me down, and this chick is THRIVING today

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[โ€“] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 18 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (22 children)

Genderfluid in the sense that inside of me there are two wolves and one of them has been having an existential crisis for most of the past 10 days and doesn't really care about gender that much right now as a result and the other really wants to be more feminine and gets most of the joy and dysphoria from that... and also there's like two dead wolves over on the side don't worry about that sunny-breakdown <-- me right now

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[โ€“] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 18 points 4 months ago (15 children)

Think Iโ€™m gonna get into Jazz obama-spike
Iโ€™mma make it an annoying part of my personality until I inevitably drop it and move on to something else.

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[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 18 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Everyday we get a little closer to making femboy hooters a reality

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[โ€“] Moss@hexbear.net 18 points 4 months ago (2 children)

sometimes i genuinely forget that people are invested in cishet norms. like i forget people are straight and think gender is normal and good. it just seems obvious to me that gender isnt real and then people come along and are very invested in biologism or something

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[โ€“] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 18 points 4 months ago (5 children)

bought 4 kilos of sunflower seeds and I'm gonna go to the river and feed the geese and ducks and pigeons. I fucking LOVE the god damn birds and I WILL give them kilos of yummy nutritious seeds

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[โ€“] Tommasi@hexbear.net 18 points 4 months ago (4 children)

nsfw kindaokay fuck the people who promised my sex drive would inevitably be lower on hrt. Like the moron I am I believed them, and I thought it was a bit sad, but was pretty okay with it since I don't have a partner anyway, so why did I get the literal opposite problem where I feel just unbearably horny half the time? Eveything cis people tell me about transitioning always turns out to be completely wrong.

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[โ€“] throw3352away@hexbear.net 18 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Well, I put everything in the vial and sealed it. If it dissolves properly by Monday, I'll sterilize it in a pressure cooker because I'm too lazy to do it properly.

I've never taken any medicine by injection before, let alone something I've made myself. And I honestly have no idea what happens if it goes wrong.

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 18 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (5 children)

voice stuffHaving a good voice would help me so much mentally, but voice training is the last thing in the world I want to do. It's all just so hard. I hated my voice changing during puberty, and I still hate it now.

I genuinely can't both speak and ask for she/her.

Sorry. Just struggle with it.

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[โ€“] Yor@hexbear.net 18 points 4 months ago (5 children)

home from work and back to playing titanfall 2 comfy-cool

(also have vegan pizza in the oven)

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[โ€“] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 18 points 4 months ago (6 children)

still mad as fuck at the IOC over pulling the olympic licence for mario and sonic. and what did they give us? some shitty mobile game with fucking NFTs. was the mario and sonic at the olympic games series just a shitty minigame collection? sure, but I liked the shitty mini game collection god damn it, that was a fun party game

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[โ€“] ashinadash@hexbear.net 18 points 4 months ago (2 children)

nsfwbdsmtest is too cisgender. discuss

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