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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 18 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (3 children)

voice stuffHaving a good voice would help me so much mentally, but voice training is the last thing in the world I want to do. It's all just so hard. I hated my voice changing during puberty, and I still hate it now.

I genuinely can't both speak and ask for she/her.

Sorry. Just struggle with it.

[–] Yor@hexbear.net 15 points 4 months ago (1 children)

the best time to start voice training is now, no matter how stressful it is and no matter how brief your practice is. doing a little bit at a time makes it all less overwhelming. future you will really appreciate the you of right now doing voice training

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 4 months ago

Thank you. I will try soon. I don't think I can now though. It gives me a lot of bad/sad thoughts.

Thank you again.

[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 9 points 4 months ago (1 children)

That sucks. I’m lucky to like my voice. Girl voices are pretty nice, but I don’t want to get a “gay voice.” It’s funny remembering how I grumbled “she/they” when asked for my pronouns recently, I think my clothes and stuff are androgynous enough to feel valid. Idk stuff’s weird.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 9 points 4 months ago

That is lucky!

This is probably just because of where I am right now but I don't even care if it's a gay voice, or doesn't pass, or whatever I just need it to not sound like a guy. Glad you used the right pronouns too!

[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 9 points 4 months ago

If you have car or quiet space available, I found belting along with artists who voices I love, very helpful on the difficult days, and you don’t hear yourself so much.