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alright gang, we need another win over the news mega this week! keep those numbers up and keep being trans as hell cat-trans meow-knife-trans cat-trans

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[–] kristina@hexbear.net 17 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (7 children)

Alright folks, its time for the diceroll again. Please post in reply if you want to host the megathread next week. I'll do the dice roll on the 11th. You must be able to post it Monday 12th at 4pm GMT very-smart

Also, everyone please check out our public matrix chat! https://matrix.to/#/#tracha:chapo.chat https://hexbear.net/post/3088303 Its got quite a lot of people on it now posting every day!

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[–] SexUnderSocialism@hexbear.net 38 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Let me abuse my mod powers to present you with some nice statistics:

The Trans Mega went from 190 comments on average in March, 372 in May, to 2508 in July. That's over a tenfold increase in 4 months. This means we're well on our way to take over the internet. Carry on. leslie-shining

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 23 points 4 months ago (1 children)

every atom in the universe will be arranged into transgender posting by 2030

[–] SexUnderSocialism@hexbear.net 21 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children)

While China works towards its "Global China 2049 Initiative" with the goal of building a modern socialist state, we work towards an initiative of our own by releasing trans posting into the atmosphere, ensuring complete global saturation. sicko-power

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 35 points 4 months ago (7 children)
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[–] SexUnderSocialism@hexbear.net 33 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (6 children)

Socialism is when trans people exist. And it's more socialism if more trans people exist. And if a lot of trans people exist, it's communism. trans-hammer-sickle

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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 30 points 4 months ago (1 children)

i was so envious of the women in my previous jobs when they left and changed into their normal outfits and looked fine aubrey-sad

but today I am that woman and it feels so fucking GOOD aubrey-happy

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[–] Lenins_Cat_Reincarnated@hexbear.net 29 points 4 months ago (11 children)

I love slowly finding out what I like regarding gender expression. Removing the boundary of looking like a girl creates so much freedom. Also shaping my body by training muscles will also be awesome when I get on T.

I’ve always loved the look of somewhat masculine (twunk) men with very feminine clothing, and knowing I can look like that somewhere in the future is awesome.

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 29 points 4 months ago (45 children)

shout out to t4t dating

it's good and based and when I see trans people on reddit be dismissive of dating other trans people I just get sad lol

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[–] Moss@hexbear.net 28 points 4 months ago (9 children)

i like how half of the posts in the trans megathread arent even about being trans or gender or anything, its just the place for trans people to post. and it has more activity than the normal mega all the time. hexbear is a very trans site lol

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 21 points 4 months ago

everything i do is trans-related

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 28 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Wearing fake breasts has irrevocably shattered my egg. There's no going back. I have tits on the brain. Thinking about boobs more than I ever did as a guy. Do NOT let me near the boob shop, I will buy their entire stock. Booby seller, I would like to purchase your strongest breasts.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 21 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Yeah boobs are kinda rad tbh, I keep mine on me at all times :^)

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[–] TheKanzler@hexbear.net 27 points 4 months ago (13 children)

Coming out to my mom in a handful of minutes. My heart is racing

madeline-scared

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[–] nemmybun@hexbear.net 27 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Good news: My insurance approved electrolysis

Bad news: The only place taking my insurance is over an hour away by car. And I don't have a car agony-turbo

How's the public transportation route look? Oh over 6 hours (if every single bus is on time) with half an hour of walking in extreme summer heat. Love that US infrastructure amerikkka-clap

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[–] Starlet@hexbear.net 27 points 4 months ago (7 children)

Trump on Walz: "He's very heavily into transgender. Anything transgender, he thinks is great."

who here is heavily into transgender

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 26 points 4 months ago (1 children)

go on trans reddit

Noncredibledefense posting

close trans reddit

guys please never ban me from here i hate trans reddit so goddamn much

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 26 points 4 months ago (11 children)


Does anyone want to see my totally not a Sonic OC that I made and haven't done anything with?

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[–] Paulie@hexbear.net 26 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I went to a lesbian bar also first time dressing femme and wearing my hair long and I just felt alienated. Maybe my dysphoria but like shit I was just alone for the whole time. I struck up a conversation with someone then asked if they wanted to smoke to which they said yeah and then after a short nothing conversation they left and so did I

But it honestly did feel so natural wearing my hair long in my crop top not giving a fuck

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[–] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 26 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children)

i'm in a work meeting right now and people are admitting that they make fake fan accounts in fan community discords/reddit/etc. to seed discussions and drive sales. i mean, i know it's happening and have been for a while, but i think i will probably tell as many people as possible how common this business practice is

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[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 24 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (3 children)

what if you wanted to refresh the transgender hex bear dot net (formerly chapo dot chat) mega thread, but the browser said '504 Gateway Time-out'

walter-breakdown many such cases unfortunately

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 24 points 4 months ago (7 children)

Broke what has been a pretty major mental barrier for me and went outside in a skirt today hexbear-trans

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 24 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (5 children)

381 evil dating app questions? Fuck this stupid Q&A. My ratings are all really boring and don't deviate from the middle of the % bar by more than like, a fifth. Maybe I answered too many?

Fuck the dating part though, that fucking quiz gave me so much psychic damage. Bunch of weird fucking liberal fucking imperial core fucking western "democracy" bootlicking ass shit.

It also asks me freak transphobe questions about trans people when I fuckin specified in the gender section. God there must be such bad brainworms on here, seriously fuck this thing. I am legit mad now. Do not.

madeline-deadpan The only good personality quiz is the one at the start of Pokemon Mystery Dungeon Red/Blue Rescue Team.

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[–] SnowySkyes@hexbear.net 24 points 4 months ago (15 children)

I think I'm in a good enough mental space to come back here, or at least attempt to. The depression seems to have finally lifted thankfully, maybe. Just replaced with some stress. Either way, I hope everyone's doing well.

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 24 points 4 months ago (4 children)
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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 23 points 4 months ago

Saw a pretty girl, back to being bi again

[–] ComradePlatypus@hexbear.net 23 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

At work today, female boomer was talking about someone from another site that I've never met and probably won't as I'm leaving soon. She finishes by saying "That person has pronouns". I'm busy, tired and post-viral. It's only 10min later I realise that was probably transphobia. At the time I'm just like "cool okay" because you know everyone has pronouns and my brain isn't working today.

[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 23 points 4 months ago

Feeling quite excited to play minecraft with the trans people in my 'puter~ lea-happy

[–] TheDoctor@hexbear.net 23 points 4 months ago

Just popped 2 tires

Both passenger side, which means we’re probably gonna have to drop $1000 that we literally don’t have and I have no idea how we’re gonna do that. Fuuuuuuuuuuuck

blob-on-fire

[–] Shinhoshi@lemmygrad.ml 23 points 4 months ago (1 children)

This is your daily reminder to try a new gender today. You should change your pronouns at least once per year for good opsec

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 22 points 4 months ago (4 children)

I was talking with my grandfather (who i'm not out to) earlier today and he called me a completely wrong, mostly femme name by complete accident and actually? I kind of like it now? I think I'm going to have to try out a new name now? I can't post it publicly here but wow I already have a second name for myself?

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 22 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children)

parental transphobia, forced outingI sometimes wonder if I come across on here as having all this gender stuff all worked out... in reality, I'm just a huge fucking mess lol. I have no advice for coming out to parents because I got forcibly outed when I was a teenager, I'm just lucky that the worst that happened were a couple of really horrible transphobic conversations but no complete disowning. I'm not on T and I'm four years into all this, thanks to a combination of ADHD and living with my parents (who have no idea that I want to physically transition β€” my mom didn't even like the idea of me going on birth control.) I'm socially out for the most part but I girlmoded throughout all my time at my past job and I'm considering doing that again for my next. I haven't even legally changed my name yet. I still feel like I'm not great at this whole "being trans" thing and I don't know how to do half the stuff that's associated with it, like all the health insurance stuff is hell for my ADHD brain. Since I currently live with my parents I exist in this sort of half-closeted limbo state with them, like they know I'm not cis but because of my past bad experiences I just haven't pushed on it further.

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[–] Kiagz@hexbear.net 22 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (6 children)

Well fuck. I have to come out as trans to my conservative brother today. lea-breakdown

transphobia and homophobiaI've gone almost 3 years now without telling him, because he's a transphobic techbro dipshit. He tolerates gay people, but thinks trans people are all mentally ill and just need conversion therapy or something. I really don't want to do this, but I can't delay it any longer. It's obvious that I've become much more feminine over the past few years, and lately he's been questioning my parents about what's up with me and if I'm gay or something. If I don't say anything he'll just force an answer out of my parents. Currently he's in another country, and won't be returning for probably another few months, but I'm still really scared of how he'll react.

I fucking hate this shit so much. I can't handle conflict, yet I have no choice here. And it has to happen now, when I'm pretty much at my lowest point in terms of confidence and self-worth. Why can't I just exist? Why does this have to be such a big fucking thing that I have to announce to others? Why can't other people just mind their own fucking business and let me come out at my own pace?

He's also taller than me and way stronger, so that's fun. I'm not comfortable with the fact that he could beat the shit out of me if he felt like it, even if it seems unlikely that he'll do such a thing.

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 22 points 4 months ago (11 children)

Came out to another friend today. First one in like months, I think

Gearing up for the post coming out doubts anarchista-chad

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 21 points 4 months ago (2 children)

They call ya Mommy once and it activates some hidden subroutine

Correct, yes, I am Mommy

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 21 points 4 months ago (6 children)

It always amazes me how much better everything tastes/sounds/looks when I'm feeling good vs not. This was a great night hexbear, I love you all very much comfy The people on this funny bear website help me a lot. I hope I can come out, be accepted, and start my physical/social transition soon. Anyway I'm just feeling happy and emotional. Goodnight.

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 21 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (8 children)

Going to logout and touch-grass for the next two weeks or so. Going on a backpacking trip. Keep up the down with cis posting in my absence as the spirit strikes thee. meow-knife-trans

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 21 points 4 months ago (2 children)

just remembered the time i was at a club and a cis girl rudely pushed me aside and told me to get out of the way so she could see the drag performers. like sorry the queer is taking up space??

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[–] magic_smoke@links.hackliberty.org 21 points 4 months ago (3 children)

The fact that being attracted to other women is now gay for me is pretty great. Though I'm terrified of the reality I now live in where being attracted to men is now.... STRAIGHT shudders

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 21 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

trying to stop myself from drinking by saying that i need to lose weight if I want to weight cycle so I can get girl curves

de-electrochemistry Oh yeah, chug that entire bottle of Sake girl, it'll be great

de-encyclopedia That's at least 800 empty alcohol based calories and you're already struggling to get down below 200, let alone your goal of 185. Don't do it

[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 21 points 4 months ago (5 children)

big nazi rallies and pgoroms were planned all over today, one near my area. and honestly none of them even showed up. every day people, not just blac bloc antifa types, were jumping at the bit to kick the shit out of them lmao, but none of them even showed up

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 21 points 4 months ago (9 children)

I kinda like extreme heights. I'm not fussed on whatever height a partner is, generally I can appreciate anything, but if you are really tall or really short I think that's great. I guess because I am a median kinda height, but I either want you to put your chin on my head or let me use you as an armrest. Because cute crush

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 21 points 4 months ago (3 children)

I don't want big tits, but I want big tits energy, ya feel me?

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[–] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 21 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (5 children)

Did you all see this fake headline making the rounds yet?

To be honest at the current rate of things I wouldn't be surprised if the transvestigators try to do this in two years. thinking-about-it

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[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 21 points 4 months ago (4 children)

I was born in the Saint Judes Incredibly Gay Children's Hospital for Profoundly Homosexual Children

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 21 points 4 months ago (2 children)

The ADHD really is ADHD-ing today.

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[–] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 21 points 4 months ago (6 children)

Can I create another girl inside of me to forcefem me cause this part of transition sucks ngl

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[–] thirtymilliondeadfish@hexbear.net 20 points 4 months ago (6 children)

getting bullied for making the same meal (and variations thereof) too often. There's variations! I'm mixing it up! Sometimes the ingredients change! Sometimes it's a sauce on rice, sometimes it's sauce in rice, sometimes it's rice in stew! I'm iterating, I'm innovating, I'm perfecting this shit but nooo I have a limited palate and a poverty mindset.

Gonna eat potatoes alone out of sheer spite rn

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 20 points 4 months ago (12 children)

Idk if anyone can relate to this, but on the topic of they/them pronouns for the longest time I used them alongside she/her, but I kind of realized I was only doing so because I couldn’t accept myself as a woman and as a way to endure the third-gendering cis people often inflict on binary trans people.

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 20 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Wish me luck ya’ll, got my first laser appt for bottom surgery tomorrow, and am both hype for results and emphatically not hype for the pain. basil-anxious-smile

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