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sad, negativity, transphobia, dysphoria, complaining about autism and being pre hrt
I'm disgusting and repulsive. I don't see how anyone could genuinely love my body, ever. Maybe settle for it, or look at me as some fetish object. It's awful and manish. So many things from being a man. I literally do not see how I can transition and actually look okay. I don't buy it.
No one loves me and they probably never will. And I can't live my whole life like that. spoiler bad
I want to cut my left arm completely open. I can't, obviously. That doesn't keep my brain from wanting it.
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self harm
Wouldn't be a fucking eggnog sad post without bringing up self harm would it be.self hate
I genuinely feel nothing but loathing for everything about myself right now.edit again: the sucky thing about not eating is eventually you just start getting less hungry, now even 1000 calories is too many. :::
Try to strive for 1200 at least, that’s just 200 more I believe in you
eating
I'm not going to, I already shouldn't have eaten some of what I did.spoiler
Why tho? what is your rationale?spoiler
Well I had some chocolate, so that's kinda a waste of calories.Plus I feel like when I'm hungry I feel better.
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I mean if you’ve had chocolate and your still only at less than 1000 that’s even more reason to have something more nutritious.Why do you feel better when you are hungry?
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My nutrition is pretty bad already tbf, I'm sure cutting my calories down doesn't help.Couldn’t you just wear a rubber band on your arm and whip yourself with it?
self harm, eating, weight
I mean I guess, but that's also just self harming. Plus, if I let myself do that whenever I wanted, I'd just end up doing it constantly. Plus I did used to do it hard enough to leave marks, not great to have marks on my arms. And I don't really have a knife anyway.And not eating has the advantage of making me smaller. Already down some weight in the last few months but the amount I've been eating keeps declining. Need to lose more, some garbage med a while ago made me gain weight and I never lost all of it.
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The key is to build a healthy relationship with food and habits, otherwise you risk developing anorexia or gaining it all back.Plus it’s better for your health that way.
I can’t speak on the self-harm motivation, but in as far as you are doing it for weight loss reasons I would recommend not going overboard.