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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 11 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (17 children)

sadJust this low hanging fog over life today. I feel like an observer. Lots of dysphoria and envy. I just wish I looked different, had different clothes. It's a haze right now.
spoiler medical system bad/coming out I had a good talk with my therapist for the most part. He knows coming out is going to be hard and I'm going to have to explain a lot to my family (he thinks this is good). Not up for that right now though.

The bad part is he keeps misgendering me. Need to tell him to stop. Just wasn't feeling it today. Too sad to bother.

Oh also he seems to think "extremes" are bad, example being just immediately and uncritically accepting someone is trans. Fucking hell. Apparently questioning someone about it is good, actually. His example was asking if someone was being brainwashed. Idk he's just a fucker sometimes.

self harmTried to self harm the other day, knife is too dull and useless to do anything. Pisses me off I don't even have the option if I need it. So with that coping mechanism gone idk what to do if I start feeling worse.
In good news I guess I shaved my legs last night and they look/feel a lot better.

EDIT: I am now feeling better

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 8 points 5 months ago (7 children)

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spoiler self harm urges Okay its getting worse. Want to self harm, literally can't though. There's nothing I can do. I want to cut why can't I. This is bullshit. Looks like I'm just in for some suffering. Many urges, deep sadness. :::

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