after three months my insurance finally gets back to me to say "we're not paying for your therapist lmao" i am going to scream
this post was submitted on 11 Nov 2024
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Xenia, the fox girl mascot of Linux, was first designed in 1996 by Alan Mackey. She was meant to be an alternative to Tux, the official mascot.
She had fallen into obscurity, but was noticed by a Twitter user in 2019 and was redrawn as a fox girl. But as it turned out, Xenia was originally meant to be male! The original creator, Alan, was cool with this, saying "It matches the transition of a lot of the smartest, nerdiest Linux users I know" and "And sure, you made her trans!".
So now we have a trans Linux mascot. And I think that's neat.
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Insurance is so fucking useless.
Literal fucking death panels
I misread the "Linux" on her shirt as "Ligma" multiple times. Deadass. I keep having to double check.
She's running Ligma on that laptop. Sorry, meant to say Ligma. Oh my gosh, I meant to say Ligma 
injections
they gave me the wrong needles at the pharmacy so now i'm just stabbing my gay butt with them to keep doing subcutaneous lol
Another midnighter due to my excessive course-workload, AND Asahi's decided to start having visible glitches in the File Manager. Both are my fault, because I took on more work than I could reasonably handle, and I tried to get fancy with a security patch on Asahi that's causing the visual bugs even after I removed the patch from my system.
I'm really breaking the "I post better when I'm tired" rule, I feel like I've just reached a point where I've lapped my maximum spoon count in negative spoons 
Fun fact, t4t doesn't just mean "trans for trans", it has "normal" definitions too. (Traning for trainers, etc.)
Team 4tress two
I "defeated" 60 land leeches. Mao would be proud
dysphoria posting
it's 8 pm, time to be super wistful about feeling like not being a cis girl has lead me to lose out on several life experiences that i'll never be able to have! 
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But you traded that for the experiences of a trans girl commie, which is pretty cool 
of course, but the grass i've been told to touch is always greener on the other side, you know? 
Does being nonbinary automatically make me trans?
not necessarily,,, plenty of enbies who dont consider themselves trans. cis or trans is just another binary and the whole point of being enby is to well,, not be in a binary, so its kinda based to not identify as either :3 (tho technically binary and non-binary is inherently a binary :3c)
Trans is usually defined as having a gender identity that's different from your sex, so yeah. But words are just words, you don't gotta go along with some definition.
I would say so, at least in terms of not being cis. In other words, I would say that anybody who isn't cisgender is transgender. Therefore, as nonbinary people don't identify with their AGAB, they are trans! 
There are also plenty of non-binary comrades (including myself from time to time) who post in this mega!
it's been like 5 years since i've wanted a tattoo and I still can't decide on what to get 
i'm thinking something on my leg...
still nomany to webfishing with :c
I have webfishing too, it's really fun 
You better believe I would be willing to play with you when I get the time! :catgirl-heart:
I'll buy it right away!
Bureaucrat posting has been a wholesome ending to site drama
yeah, fr
Wanna know what the most gender thing is?
Getting lost on campus. Legit spent 40 minutes walking around the city trying to find out where the hell the building I needed to be was 
I have gone days laughing at the absurdity of thinking. More often the thoughts fight themselves. Today was the latter but I was reminded of the exercise to ask who is perceiving what I think I perceive. โWho thinks this, who thinks that,โ makes it sound like my mind is treating me like a dog and that is fun/ny. 
I've started saying "yippee" as a reaction a lot more since starting HRT 
Well I'm starting Naltrexone today. I really hope it's enough to keep me out of rehab
We are rooting for you!!!'
:))))) new calf boots came in and they fit like a dream. Surprisingly comfortable too. Snagged them on a hell of a sale and they fit my big ass t girl feet :))))
I need details, fellow bigfoot
13.5 W as it turns out is not a very popular shoe size!
I too am interested in larger shoes!
13 WW here lol
any leads? i refuse to use amazon and so far my local stores have nothing. I'm about to try random shoe sites I just ordered some croc stomps out of desperation ๐คฃ
Torrid is good for thicc feet. All the shoes I ordered fit quite comfortably. Onlymaker is tighter but better than typical fashion shoes (caveat: only have one pair with a square toe, so maybe the round/pointed ones are worse). Pleaser has "comfort width" that only goes up to size 11, but then has "pink label" that goes to 15 but it's all normal width 
. A size 14 Pleaser is much narrower and tighter than a Torrid 13. That's all I've tested right now. If you've got any recs let me know.
Torrid stops at 13 unfortunately ๐ญ i did just order some bras from them now that i hit my target weight though i'm pumped none of the local places have my weird bra size either.
I'm going to check out pleaser and onkymaker thank you for the recs!!
I just got them off Torrid. It sounds really obvious once I said it aloud but going to plus sized women's fashion lines also means they got shoes for girls with big feet. I'm a women's size 12.5, and all their shoes are for wide sizes, so they're a little roomy on my feet but nothing two pairs of socks can't fix
Yeah, Torrid's been a godsend for me. I just wish they had more styles and colors.
My sister got webfishing and is grinding XP. I think she's liking the game too.
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