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Toyosatomimi no Miko is a character in the Touhou Project series introduced in its 13th installment, Ten Desires.

Miko was once Prince Shoutoku, a Japanese leader in the 600s known for promoting Buddhism and streamlining the Japanese government. In the Touhou lore, she was visited by Taoist hermit Seiga Kaku, who had heard about Miko’s longing for immortality. Seiga introduced her to Taoism, but she rejected it as a religion unfit for placating an entire country. She was intrigued by its promise of immortality, however, and privately converted to it, advocating for Buddhism to keep Japan stable. After drinking an β€œimmortality elixir” (mercury sulfide), however, she was forced to let go of her body and become a supernatural hermit like Seiga, notably taking on the form of a woman, making her a canonically trans character (lets-fucking-go).

After convincing a hermit from a rival clan (Mononobe no Futo) to sleep without decaying, Miko followed in suit, waiting for a time where a Taoist Japan would revive her in search of guidance. However, Buddhist monks were able to keep her mausoleum sealed, and the legends surrounding her were slowly brushed off- which led to her transportation into Gensokyo, where the folklore of old is a reality of everyday life.

When she awoke in Gensokyo, it was right after Buddhist monk Byakuren Hijiri opened her own temple, however, leading to a surge of divine spirits across the realm, setting up the events of Ten Desires.

What look like headphones on her are canonically earmuffs- Shoutoku was allegedly able to discern between ten questions asked at once, an ability carried by Miko (although with her enhanced abilities, she can also analyze each person and determine their inner desires (thus the title of the game))- although it means her hearing is highly sensitive and has to be muffled to prevent pain.


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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago

Being at home with my parents and seeing the propaganda that passes as β€˜news’ in this country makes my blood boil. Pro Israel, pro cop, anti labor pull yourself up by your bootstraps nonsense. God bless our troops. freedom-and-democracy

[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I think new yorkers should just start doing the accent again. like you can just fake it until it becomes natural, you can just do that

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[–] LeylaLove@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)

CW: Alcoholism, dysphoria posting

I'm doing pretty fine on booze right now. I've let myself have a few guinnesses off the tap after work because they're not good for getting drunk off of. I'm not using it to hide from my feelings of dysphoria or a shitty life. To be more comfortable with the effects of aging, growing more facial hair and the like. If I hadn't used alcohol to cover up those feelings, I would have gone through the efforts to be on hormones years ago. I was a late bloomer physically, I still had time to stop a lot of first puberty. Luckily anti-psychotics have also slowed this process down, otherwise I'd be in much worse shape.

Now I'm sober and just beating myself up for not doing it sooner. I had other circumstances other than my alcoholism that made the medical decision harder (shitty ex, inconsistent income due to shitty ex, ect.) but alcohol kept me complacent in all of those and kept me from feeling the pressure I needed to get fix them. I'm excited to be starting DIY soon (something my ex never would have let me do) and I think it'll really improve my outlook on things

The cure to that dysphoria has been this. I've also recently met a transfemme friend who is pretty old. She didn't start transitioning until she was in her 40s and she looks fantastic. There's part of me that's scared that I'm starting estrogen too late and she's really proving to me that there is no such thing as too late. It made me realize how few old trans people I had met or even seen. She's a lib, but she's become a really great friend over the past month.

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (3 children)

sexI reject the dom/sub distinction. It is all sex. It is all good theory-gary

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (14 children)

bought a cute skirt and I'm excited for it to arrive

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[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago

Why do i feel terrible? Oh yeah, i ate 1/4 of a cake and fell asleep. Groggy. Need water. Feeling very president-parrot-naked

[–] GaveUp@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (1 children)

what the fuck I had a passable voice like just last month but I think since I don't practice anymore and mostly hanging out with close ppl I trust to speak with my lower more comfortable voice, I lost progress and my voice sounds so bad now fuckkkk

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (8 children)

ah fine, fuck it. if weight can't cycle down, then it's time to cycle it up. I can feel my tits crying out for something to build with and my ass could use more padding so fuck it. Had a big fuckin milkshake for lunch about it

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (29 children)

music monday! whatcha listening to? here's my collage btw (nsfw for titty in album cover)

edit: also here's a link to a 20x20 of my most listened albums of all time. make fun of me for it i guess

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[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (20 children)

I love having the desire to be sociable and meet tons of new people while simulatneously being freaked out and overwhelmed by meeting new people. I love the novelty and really do well in novel situations, but i have such little capacity for it; a week or two of that and I need 6-8 months of not talking to anyone cri

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[–] Kiagz@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I wanted to go to a local queer meetup today, but my social anxiety and low self esteem stopped me. Idk how I'm ever gonna make new friends madeline-sadeline

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[–] belligerentkitten@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (2 children)

i feel a little stronger today. managed to do more. been nearly a month since β€œrecovering” from covid. i seem to be improving but its v frustrating.

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (2 children)

The problem with buying clothes is it makes you want to buy even more clothes ohnoes

At least I have som cute jeans on the way, praying they fit well

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[–] Mousy@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (5 children)

I guess i really am just disposable kitty-cri-texas

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (6 children)

A major pet peeve I have in fiction is when super smart characters can just predict the future in detail, especially when it relies on correctly guessing complete stranger's irrational choices. Like, that's just not how human intellect works?

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (1 children)

imagine how different the world would be if people had likened elon musk to sheldon cooper instead of iron man

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (2 children)

"why do you want to join us? please say in your own words."

i'm applying to wash dishes, fuck off with this shit

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (4 children)

Unbothered. Moisturised. Happy. In my lane. Focused. Flourishing.

(Gorging myself on untold quantities of quality gay slop feral-hog )

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[–] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (4 children)

chat, i cut my own hair, i took off a LOT more than i thought i was going to, but it looks super cute now!!!!!! i think that this is the first time i've liked my hair in its naturally curly state and not tied back. i still have no idea what to do with the fringe though.

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I still think they should have cast Hayden Christensen as Shadow.

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I think the fact that I cannot play both Knight of Lodis and Gayhaven Chronicles at the same time is transphobia kel-sad

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago (3 children)

voice dysphoria thoughtsI heard a recording of myself last night and my voice isn't as deep or bad as it sounds internally? Still don't like it or anything but maybe its not as bad as I fear sometimes... still hard to talk though.

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[–] Moss@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I have had a much more positive body image the past few months, probably because over the past few years I've been killing all body shaming and judging in my head. I stopped thinking about cishetero-normative beauty standards as a good and natural thing and now I find interesting self-presentation way more attractive than adhering to social norms. And I guess that applies to me too

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[–] amberSuperMario@lemmygrad.ml 15 points 3 months ago

Anybody here want to play Super Smash Bros. Gaylee with me πŸ‘‰πŸ‘ˆ

[–] tamagotchicowboy@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago

Been feeling a lot better today, had a moment of weakness and made my favorite dish, kung pao mushrooms since I found half a pound of shrooms for like 1.39 and a can of baby corn/watercress for 79 cents and I had squash and celery ready to go. This is what I'll be eating for the week, not the healthiest thing, but so delicious and not too pricey.

[–] Yor@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago (5 children)

good news! I was approved for the time off I requested at work. worried about nothing as usual comfy

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago (1 children)
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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago (17 children)

>post about fruity lil twine game

>realise Famous Gayhaven Enjoyer is fr touching grass.

> desolate

NO COME BACK PLEASE asagiri who else will I be annoying at?!

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (5 children)

Walking around the campus reading theory in my elaborate outfits to advertise the fact that not all MLs are cis men with no style.

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago (5 children)

Jamming to some new wave rn, my makeup inspired me.

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago (2 children)

i could fix traffic in my shitty little town just by banning on-street parking, but the town council haven't responded to any of my 45 letters

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (4 children)

yes-honey-left I gotta... lift today... gainz.........

Update: I LIFTED

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago (3 children)

I'm not MtF I'm MtGG (male to goofy goober)

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[–] HelltakerHomosexual@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago

gn transgenders! imma try to break the stereotype and get good eepy

[–] sunshinesoul@hexbear.net 15 points 3 months ago (3 children)

i’ve sort of been realizing that i’m not exactly agender. i’ve been presenting as my AGAB and it feels a little miserable and like a performance and im starting to feel like id be much happier presenting with more of a masculine lean than feminine. thonk-trans

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