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Toyosatomimi no Miko is a character in the Touhou Project series introduced in its 13th installment, Ten Desires.

Miko was once Prince Shoutoku, a Japanese leader in the 600s known for promoting Buddhism and streamlining the Japanese government. In the Touhou lore, she was visited by Taoist hermit Seiga Kaku, who had heard about Miko’s longing for immortality. Seiga introduced her to Taoism, but she rejected it as a religion unfit for placating an entire country. She was intrigued by its promise of immortality, however, and privately converted to it, advocating for Buddhism to keep Japan stable. After drinking an β€œimmortality elixir” (mercury sulfide), however, she was forced to let go of her body and become a supernatural hermit like Seiga, notably taking on the form of a woman, making her a canonically trans character (lets-fucking-go).

After convincing a hermit from a rival clan (Mononobe no Futo) to sleep without decaying, Miko followed in suit, waiting for a time where a Taoist Japan would revive her in search of guidance. However, Buddhist monks were able to keep her mausoleum sealed, and the legends surrounding her were slowly brushed off- which led to her transportation into Gensokyo, where the folklore of old is a reality of everyday life.

When she awoke in Gensokyo, it was right after Buddhist monk Byakuren Hijiri opened her own temple, however, leading to a surge of divine spirits across the realm, setting up the events of Ten Desires.

What look like headphones on her are canonically earmuffs- Shoutoku was allegedly able to discern between ten questions asked at once, an ability carried by Miko (although with her enhanced abilities, she can also analyze each person and determine their inner desires (thus the title of the game))- although it means her hearing is highly sensitive and has to be muffled to prevent pain.


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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 17 points 3 months ago

mentions of sexSo for as long as I can remember I was extremely averse to people touching my chest. During intimacy I felt like I had to grit my teeth and power through it because it would be weird to say anything, but I always hated it. Now that I have boobs I don't feel like that any more, in fact I would want a partner to touch them during sex, and I'm starting to wonder if it was a symptom of deeply repressed dysphoria since way before I knew I was trans, especially since it's one of the areas I've been (and still is to a lesser extent) very dysphoric about.

[–] Yor@hexbear.net 17 points 3 months ago (2 children)
[–] Yor@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (4 children)

feel free to refer back to this comment and use it if you're ever feeling doubts

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[–] yewler@hexbear.net 17 points 3 months ago

Currently dreading having to teach tomorrow not gonna lie. I had a whole table get up and leave half way through class last week with no explanation. Basically my entire class failed the quiz last week because of their downright refusal to do anything I ask. I told them explicitly what I expect several times, and this really should have been a gimme quiz. I don't think I'm being unreasonable, but it feels like my entire class just hates everything about me and the class. Not sure how I'm to make it to the end of this semester with my sanity, especially since it's not even my class I'm teaching. I'm just doing what I'm told and getting so much shit for it. I've taught this class for 3 semesters now. This is the fourth. And I've never has this big an issue.

Also I get paid on a stipend that doesn't start until the end of September, so effectively I'm skipping a full month of being paid. Yippee

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 17 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Today was such a wonderful day y'all. Zero complaints. I'm feeling real good

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[–] Kiagz@hexbear.net 17 points 3 months ago (3 children)

sadToo many disappointments lately. Starting to feel hopeless again madeline-sadeline

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 17 points 3 months ago (1 children)

was feeling like shit all day, so I went for a walk after dinner, then I felt even shittier, but now I'm good again meow-tankie

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 17 points 3 months ago (1 children)
[–] WIIHAPPYFEW@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (13 children)
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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 17 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (10 children)

Ever since coming to school I've challenged myself to come up with a fun new outfit every day, and most of them have had corresponding make-up looks. I'm taking more pictures of myself than I ever have before. A lot of that is because I'm planning to start a personal fashion blog, and I'm building a backlog of looks to post; but also, it's the fact that looking at myself is no longer a constant exercise of dysphoria, when I'm inhabiting the form of gender expression that I feel most happy in (aka my weird goth-ish punk-ish maximalist look.)

Unfortunately, I do find that make-up is kind of a key part of being able to enjoy the way my face looks in photos. I generally do very dramatic eye make-up; because I wear a mask whenever I'm out, I do not really do much related to my lips or cheeks. (I tried to do some lips the other day and immediately wiped it off, I hated it lol.) I feel like, weirdly enough, my eye make-up has the effect de-emphasizing the femininity of my face. Tbh I do not like this new shift in my relationship with make-up; I started using make-up in 2022 as a form of queer self-expression and I've always tried to consciously stay away from using it as a tool to make myself look "better".

I'm wondering (hoping) that once I start T I will feel more comfortable in my skin, and I will no longer need to get all dressed up to feel gender euphoria. Of course I think I will always love getting dressed in elaborate weird outfits, but it would be nice to also feel euphoric when I'm in my plain grey sweatpants and sleep shirt.

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 17 points 3 months ago

I know what I'm gonna do for my career after this year of kind of bumbling around in the literal first position I applied to and interviewed for. I'm definitely going to go for my Nurse Practitioner - likely focusing on family medicine/all ages rather than babies or adults only. I'm definitely planning on focusing on trans healthcare, probably more focus on trans youth but we'll see. Where I live, you generally need 4500 practice hours or 3 years of full-time clinical bedside experience before you can apply - year 1/1500 hours down. Also, it's kind of spooky that they let us prescribe with only 4500 hours of clinical practice and a handful of pathophys and pharma courses. There's another 1000+ advanced clinical hours just in the program, and you're supposed to have a supervising MD after graduating and wokring, but in terms of patient safety it's kinda... iffy. Just the reality of mid-levels, I guess, it does feel weird being handed that wide of a scope of practice to someone with that few of clinical hours.

There's an opening for an RN at an adult gender clinic in my organization but they want 1-4 years of adult mental health experience - I have 1 year of experience in pediatrics medsurg lol, there's been a number of kids with mental health admissions but that's maybe 5% of admissions. I think I have to change gears to adult mental health, which I LOATHE as an RN. You're expected to be nurse-cop in inpatient mental health it suuuucks, I hated telling people they weren't allowed out for a smoke, I hated feeling like I was manipulating people into taking their meds, for people with memory issues having to redirect them all the time "no you can't leave, come stay with me and we'll play cards" sucked because I was forever telling people they weren't free. The actual patients were fine, even the ones that had a history of violence or whatever, it was feeling like their jailer that sucked and in a lot of ways I fucking was. I identified way more with the patients than the staff, they called it "emotional transference" or something like that cause I yelled at the staff nurses when I was a student lol. Anyway, I really hate it, but if that's what I need...

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 17 points 3 months ago (3 children)

I feel like I do nothing but post every last micro-epiphany I have here, but I have another one lmao.

I've realized I don't think I'm aromantic at all. When I ask myself if I want to be someone's boyfriend I have suchhhh a hard time answering.

"I mean what even is a romantic relationship? Maybe I'm confusing platonic and romantic thoughts. I've only ever had 4 crushes in my entire life and every single one of them I'm pretty sure I just liked platonically? Then why did it feel so special???"

And then I ask myself if I want to be someone's girlfriend.

"God yes. Full stop."

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 17 points 3 months ago

i want to see my wife

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 17 points 3 months ago

I feel like my boobs are just stuck in an awkward middle place where they would be more aesthetically pleasing both if they were smaller and bigger.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 17 points 3 months ago

It's my little brothers wedding soon! So excited for him.

But none of the dresses I bought early in hrt fit anymore πŸ˜• boobs too big. I liked them... they were cute... all I have is a slightly short floral dress and something pretty gothy, I'm gonna see what my mom's opinion on them are

[–] naom3@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (3 children)

Sometimes I’ll be like β€œdo I even like women? I don’t think so lea-think” and then I’ll see a futch girl and I’ll be like β€œoh yeah crush”

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (2 children)

"why do you want to join us? please say in your own words."

i'm applying to wash dishes, fuck off with this shit

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 17 points 3 months ago

"ever since I was a child, I was drawn to the bright sheen of a clean dish"

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[–] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (4 children)

Is it normal to have people forget that you came out to them?

I always thought that coming out would yield more openness, like, "I want you to know about me, and I want to know about you".

I have no people I talk to regularly, the only former classmates have pretty much stopped reaching out after I came out to them. I'm scared to text anybody first but would happily respond if someone messaged me, like, damn. Like, how would I pick someone and what would I say to them? I need to plan what to say

I'm having fun reading about Lost Child Syndrome and realizing I'm completely fffffucked and may never have friends. Like, I don't think people think about friends the way that I do. You have to be stressed and work to make your friends like you. Anything easier than that is literal magic. It's not fun. Who said having friends is fun?

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[–] dismal@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (3 children)

I’ve resorted to presenting feminine again and I’m not really a fan of it but at the same time what else can I do I’ve been off testosterone for a minute and my fat has started to redistribute itself again Need to get back on it real soon

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[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (6 children)

Not to bring down the mega, but you guys ever wake up with the feeling that you never want to be seen or heard again?

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[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Something has shifted today. I’m going to make it.

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[–] TheDoctor@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I felt butterflies for the first time in over a decade today

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[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I think new yorkers should just start doing the accent again. like you can just fake it until it becomes natural, you can just do that

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (2 children)

The problem with buying clothes is it makes you want to buy even more clothes ohnoes

At least I have som cute jeans on the way, praying they fit well

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[–] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Thinking about shaving my arms. I wonder if they'd be smooth 🫒

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[–] belligerentkitten@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (2 children)

i feel a little stronger today. managed to do more. been nearly a month since β€œrecovering” from covid. i seem to be improving but its v frustrating.

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (10 children)

🚨⚠️BREAKING⚠️🚨

Democratic Kittens Republic of My House receives diplomatic delegation from Raccoon Federation, renews ties in cooperative development in hole digging

comrade-raccoonsolidaritychairman-meow

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[–] Mousy@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (5 children)

I guess i really am just disposable kitty-cri-texas

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

egghead I am swiftly moving toward a solution which pleases nobody!

[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (6 children)

I'm glad we started getting little paragraphs for the trans mega text like the other megas get. I like when people share their passions. never really gotten into Touhou but, WIIHAPPYFEW, thank you for that little character bio :)

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[–] Edie@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I have achieved an hourglass figure without hormones.

spoilerTo be fair I have an bmi of like 15, but you gotta look at the good side of things.

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[–] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (4 children)

chat, i cut my own hair, i took off a LOT more than i thought i was going to, but it looks super cute now!!!!!! i think that this is the first time i've liked my hair in its naturally curly state and not tied back. i still have no idea what to do with the fringe though.

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[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Labor Day but the posters still have to work.

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[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Haters said it couldn't be done

Haters said it would never happen

Checkmate, hatersMy dick got smaller

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (29 children)

music monday! whatcha listening to? here's my collage btw (nsfw for titty in album cover)

edit: also here's a link to a 20x20 of my most listened albums of all time. make fun of me for it i guess

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (14 children)

bought a cute skirt and I'm excited for it to arrive

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)

I look so fucking good today. I'm really proud of my make-up β€” I tried a new-wave-ish style of dramatic eye makeup using red eyeshadow. I'm also wearing an outfit that I've had planned out in my head for the past week β€” it's a frilly white shirt with bright red pants. First day of classes and I'm a bit nervous but also excited!

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago (6 children)

It's time to take the nail polish off :cri: it was a good vibe, but now we gotta be a girl with plain nails.

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