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[–] naom3@hexbear.net 12 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (6 children)

Help me figure it out: is it ‘transfem’ or ‘transfemme’? I kinda like ’transfemme’ more but I wonder if people think I’m speaking fr*nch

Edit: it looks like I’ve been infected with the fr*nch brainworms ohnoes

[–] buh@hexbear.net 12 points 5 months ago

it's transfemme if you're from the œstrogène region of france

[–] queermunist@lemmy.ml 9 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)
[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 4 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Someone needs to write a novel or an ao3 fic with this title.

[–] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 8 points 5 months ago

"trans femme" i personally find the most validating.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 8 points 5 months ago

I use transfem because that's how I say it, i-think-that extra letters are bad and words should be spelled how they sound.

[–] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 5 points 5 months ago

This is the first time i've seen transfemme instead of transfem. Would make me think you're talking about a trans woman who is also a femme lesbian, because that's where i usually see femme used in queer contexts.

[–] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 5 points 5 months ago

Femme is a type of lesbian. Not personally sure what trans femme would be. Transfem is short for transfeminine and could be an adjective while trans femme should probably not be used as one. Transfemme seems a little bit weird to me personally because it's like saying transwoman, but you do you.