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[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 13 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

β€œI don’t have the social difficulty of an autistic person.”

cereal2 (everything applies)

For a long time I totally forgot small talk was a thing, and when I found out I was like β€œwow this is a social game changer. I can talk to people without having anything to say.”

The one thing is if I always can’t stop coming up with things to say, even if I don’t want to talk. Probably an ADHD thing.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 9 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Okay I wanna say fuck this screencap. "Feeling like people misunderstand your words" shoulder-grab NO COMRADE THEY LITERALLY DO FUCK YOU

[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 6 points 5 months ago (1 children)
[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 8 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Sorry I just really disagree with the "im sorry u feel that way" characterisation from whoever wrote that :3

[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 6 points 5 months ago (1 children)

The urge to apologize for being too concise that it caused you to feel the need to apologize.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 7 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Silly urge, how bout dw about it meow-petted also you seem at least pretty autistic to me, on the spectrum somewhere lol

[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 6 points 5 months ago

Compulsioning without actually doing the thing, idk. Neurodivergent overclarification is fun. I seems like I am like you fellow autists in many ways, so imma try not to unreasonably doubt it too much again, idk.

[–] magi@hexbear.net 8 points 5 months ago (1 children)

People musunderstand your words, believe whatever head canon they fabircate because you don't say things to their satisfaction. You get prejudged because you missed their subtle non articulated cues.. it's very real people not having good reading comprehension nor read the words you actually say and just apply whatever to your interaction to later blow up at random and throw their headcanon in your face. I'm always made to feel prejudged which is funny when barely anyone tries to get to know me.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 5 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

It's really frustrating that people are this way, because I find you very easy to understand.

[–] magi@hexbear.net 6 points 5 months ago

It is frustrating for sure, I'm glad you do c: