BountifulEggnog

joined 2 years ago
[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

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you begin to treat your body like it's just something to be appraised or exchanged and care more about its value than you yourself

This concept really hit hard for me, for a lot of reasons. I need to think about all the ways I do stuff like this and learn how to stop. I have been doing a lot of things for approval for a long time. Thank you.

And yea the definitely do.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 11 points 5 months ago (1 children)

spoilerMaybe its just me, but I grew up sheltered and had it built up a lot. Just as good as I was hoping though, hope she enjoys it.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 6 points 5 months ago

spoilerI could have sworn people talked about how T makes you get a bigger ribcage, and that effecting how boobs grow in? Otherwise its whatever, its just knowing mine is big (like most of me, bigger then most men's) and thinking that will effect how I look when I start presenting fem.

I don't have either of those issues, but that's interesting.

I'm not actually too upset by it right now, but thank you for replying, I always appreciate it a lot.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (3 children)

spoilerI hope curves help, I think they will. Also hoping they come soon (but somehow also not in an obvious way)

ohnoes I explained it wrong, like my rib cage being big and that effecting my chest I guess. Maybe not technically dysphoria, just a fear of how I do/will look (that feels grounded in something right now)? I feel like I can't really have dysphoria over tits because I don't have them? But I do worry/don't like the way my rib cage makes things look I guess. Too big. I didn't really go into it because its still somewhat unknown how bad it'll really be. Maybe I'll be lucky and everything will grow in perfectly.

Like, you're so skinny you can see them?

kitty-birthday-sad Definitely not.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 9 points 5 months ago

That's amazing! bridget-vibe

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 5 months ago

Critical support

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I simply do not, and cannot, understand the cis or NTs, and I need to give up before it drives me crazy.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 5 months ago (1 children)

ohnoes I want to, money hard. It is a good cause though.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 5 months ago (3 children)

meow-hug I know how running out of battery is, hope Fallow is good for you.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 9 points 5 months ago (3 children)

sad, please don't take this wrongI know what changes will happen to my skeleton. An inch off my height or one shoe size down is symbolic, it changes very little for me. And it sounds like my chest is what it is.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 9 points 5 months ago (5 children)

spoilerI know fat redistribution will happen, I try to focus on it. But it won't fix everything. Thank you cat-trans

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