Gonna jump on to the bicycle recommendation.
Use it for all of your transportation needs (I bus or Lyft when biking is not feasible) and you'll save oodles of money that you can use to grab other items from this thread eventually.
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Gonna jump on to the bicycle recommendation.
Use it for all of your transportation needs (I bus or Lyft when biking is not feasible) and you'll save oodles of money that you can use to grab other items from this thread eventually.
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theyre like 20 bucks on amazon if u own a toilet highly recommend this is the shit i got (im sure theres more ethcial places to buy this shit idk)
https://www.amazon.com/SAMSICHI-Attachment-Retractable-Cleaning-Existing/dp/B0C56SCBM4
high key if you have hard water i had a problem where my water nozzle stopped automatically retracting after like 1.5 years bc of mineral buildup but it was 20 bucks so i cant be too disappointed so i guess not too lasting but idk maybe ill buy a more expensive one next time
A good pair of shoes, especially if you're on your feet a lot. Your body will thank you now and in the future for spending a couple hundred bucks on a pair of good quality shoes. It depends on what you're doing but I do most of my running around in ASICS and I can feel the difference if I wear almost anything else. There are good choices in Brooks, Saucony, New Balance, and Mizuno as well
Agreed. I usually wear On. I know a ton of people love Hoka (I think they're ugly). But my MIL has really bad hip/knee/ankle issues and she has to be on her feet for work all day. Hoka was a life saver when she found them
Depends entirely on what you have. I'd say a used eReader and a VPN is one of the absolute best bang for your buck entertainment methods, but you can get by with your phone for reading if you don't read much. An Aeropress is fantastic for those who like coffee and don't have anything for making it. A good pillow, socks, shoes, and underwear goes a very long way, as does a comfy hoodie and sweatpants for lounging. Most of these can be quite inexpensive. If you're vegan, a good quality blender is night and day for making sauces and creams, milks, etc, or even a gym membership or set of dumbells can be massive for your fitness goals if you have any, along with a scale for you and a scale for food if this is something you personally want to do. No personal responsibility bullshit.
Try to think of what's missing from your life, any habits you wish you had to supplement your life or any you think need improvement, and go from there! This answer varies from person to person.
solid knives and pots/pans for cooking. Good, big ones that will survive the fucking apocalypse.
a duffel or backpack that's tough as nails
How do you tell if kitchenware is good quality?
Costs money, doesn't have any type of coating, isn't being sold door-to-door.
Any of the 3+ ply stainless cookware from any brand these days is damn near indestructible. Same goes for cast iron if you're willing to take care of it.
Nonstick cookware is, functionally, disposable cookware. It's gonna last a few years with great care, but will need to be replaced after X number of uses.
Non-pan/knife kitchenware: stainless steel or glass, generally. Nylon or silicone for nonstick cookware.
Knives: people have opinions about knives. For an average chef/not-knife-nerd, most of those opinions aren't going to make enough difference to be relevant. Decent steel for knives isn't particularly hard to come by. If you know how to chop veg and such, and find a knife that feels like it fits your hand well, you'll probably be fine. Find somewhere to have it sharpened periodically, learn to use a honing rod. Restaurant brands like victorinox, mercer culinary, dexter russell will do just fine if you know how to use a honing rod, and are very cheap at restaurant supply stores. Mid-range consumer-focused brands like Zwilling/Henckels or any cookware brand are generally fine. Fancy-pants knives like global/wusthof/shun are $$$$ and worthy of actual research and thought and hands-on time before buying.
Nobody really needs a "knife set", at least not as seen on big box store shelves. Get a big honkin' chef's knife and a little paring knife and go from there.
Stay away from serrated blades except for bread and maybe tomatoes; you're not gonna be able to do your own maintenance on them or really get them properly sharpened anywhere so they're in the same category as nonstick cookware.
I like your takes. Regarding knives, best thing I ever did was take a knife skills class. Probably could have also watched a bunch of YouTube. But my cooking satisfaction went way up after learning to be competent with knives.
Also I'd add a Dutch oven to your equipment list. Beyond braising and stews, I use mine a lot for making bread.
We're stretching the budget now, but good sleeping bag too.
I'm gonna approach this question a different way and assume a situation where you're living out of a car or on someone's couch. A kind of basic kit for stuff that isn't a revolving good like food or hygiene products.
All this isn't completely necessary if you scrounge and scavenge a little more. You can leave out the mess kit and just take free silverware packs. Hotels usually have free note pads and pens. Churches and shelters may give out some grooming stuff and clothing.
A nice chair
Especially if you spend large amounts of time sitting at a desk. Nice chair helps soooo much
On the same kind of note, a mattress and good quality linens, or blackout blinds and a humidifier. Anything that improves your sleep is huge.
Silk pillowcases.
You could get a cheap pistol which could lead to several other lifestyle improvements if you used it well. Jokes aside I think for that ammount of money it depends on your local environment. I could say good cold weather gear but maybe you aren't in a place with cold weather. I could say a car tow hitch but you might not be in a place where people drive alot and you could save thousands by being able to tow friends cars. You could probably take a class in something and that be the thing I think. I dunno what things you are intrested in but that would be my vote.
A Phillips sonicare toothbrush and a bunch of the heads. Idk if any other "sonic" or electric toothbrushes are similarly effective but it's one of the few things I've bought in the last 10 years that I unequivocally recommend to everybody.
I always used to have one or two little problems when I would go to the dentist normally and ever since getting it I'm golden. When I have to go somewhere without it for a few days and take a regular toothbrush my mouth starts to feel disgusting.
I got one from a brand called Aquasonic a few years ago now and it's still going strong. It was about $30 and came with I think 12 extra brushes? Anyway, a great alternative to the more expensive brands imo.
electric toothbrushes are basically a duopoly between sonicare and oral-b, studies are equal for both. main difference between the two is that sonicare uses vibration and you brush normally with it, oral-b is more like a oscillating electric car buffer so you basically slide it over the teeth as it does the brushing motion. i prefer the oral-b after trying both only because the head is smaller and that helps me reach my back molars/wisdom teeth easier
only recommendation for buying one is that make sure it has a 4 quadrant timer and a pressure sensor that alerts you when you're brushing too hard, these are features usually in the 30-50 buck range, anything over that is giving you random phone app bullshit you dont need lmao
if you really, really wanna splurge on this shit i hear the new magnetic drive oral-b brushes are pretty good but they cost way too much for me to consider buying one
I love the sonicare vibration and I can't imagine anything being better but your other contribution to this thread is my other unequivocal recommendation so you might be on to something.
Products I own that I have gotten way more value out of than I expected:
Philips Norelco electric shaver- paid about $40 for it over 10 years ago and use it daily. Works just as well as new with annual razor changes (about $20).
Oral B electric toothbrush- the Sonicare toothbrush was previously mentioned in the replies and this is just the alternative I use. Again, over 10 years of daily use.
Inzer lever lifting belt- bought it for about $100 20(!!) years ago and I thought it was a pricy purchase for the time. Now I see it as an absolute bargain. I've been using this thing 3x a week for the past 20 years through thousands of squat sets and not one stitch on the leather is loose.
Instant Pot- I can't believe how much a simple pressure cooker has changed my life for the better but the time and money this saves me can not be understated. I've been using this nearly daily for the past 5 years and now consider it essential to my daily routine.
Foam roller- any dense foam roller will do. Mine was 20 bucks and will last a lifetime. Everyone can benefit from daily rolling.
echoing others:
i got a bidet seat from costco because i found a $150 gift card in my wallet when I was finally cleaning it out after many years.. i have no idea where the card came from or how i got it.. my partner doesn't know either. We decided a bidet might be cool to try and now I don't think we can go back to not having one.
yeah, it's like of like trying dual monitors, except for b-hole hygiene.
If you have pets I highly recommend a robot vacuum. I have a Roomba brand one but other brands have decent ones too. Having a freshly vacuumed floor every day is sooo nice.
They do like 90% as good a job vacuuming as a person does but if you’re like me vacuuming more than twice a week feels like a lot, so 90% every day on a set schedule is better overall.
How well do those work around household clutter though?
I think I might be a pretty un-neat person...
Depends on the clutter. Cables are the thing it really hates. Definitely helps to pick up the floor before you run it though, even if that’s just throwing stuff onto the nearest surface.
Personally I found it just makes me less bad about leaving shit on the floor, something I used to be really bad about.
Gotta take 5 mins to clear the floor before running it, yeah
Yeah I got one several months ago and can't live without it now. Not sure about any other brands, but the roborock maps your house and let's you set up schedules so it can do things like cleaning up around the litter box once an hour. It cleans the whole house before I wake up and stepping out onto freshly swept carpet every morning is amazing. Have a routine for after meals where it cleans the kitchen and around the dining table. But mostly yeah never stepping on litter again is amazing if you have a cat.
A good knife, and you wouldn't need 590£.
Shoes or boots, as others have said.
A good solid power drill if you're like me.
Whatever you use every day, most of the day, get a real solid version of that. Shoes, bedding, office chair, anti fatigue mats, knives, tools.
Dental work, too, though idk how much 500$ will get you.
Good to see we both went for the joke of a sword being a good small business invesment
If you don’t have one grab a cheap blender. Moderately healthy fruit smoothies for pennies on the dollar compared to a smoothie shop.
I don't think I saw it mentioned but here goes: A double edged safety razor.
Better shave, better for the environment, and cheaper in the long run. Just make sure you also get a razor blade disposal case and make sure those blades are safely recycled.
The bottom of the razor blade case usually has a place to dispose the blades.
To add to this, once you are good with a double edged safety razor it’s better for your skin as well. Took me 4-5 shaves to get used to it and then I had zero cuts or redness post shave.
Also get a nice synthetic shaving brush and a block of vegan shaving soap and you’ll save a fortune, good shaving soap lasts a long time.
Finally get a alum block for post-shave skincare and if climate appropriate one for using as an anti-perspirant too.
And then congrats! You have a zero-waste daily skincare / hygiene routine.
Clothes. When I was basically down to three pairs of pants that were going threadbare, a friend paid generously for a show I put on with my banjo. For $200 I managed to minimize the amount of trips to the laundry room and really feel good about how I looked.
Other things are kitchen appliances on the fritz and a good stock of convenience food should your burnout kick in too early.
For $200 I managed to minimize the amount of trips to the laundry room and really feel good about how I looked.
I'm just going to glom on to your comment to pass on some of the best advice I ever got: if you can afford it, buy enough socks and underwear that you only need to do laundry every 3-4 weeks. For the other stuff you can get away with wearing it multiple times, spot cleaning etc. Socks and underwear are the real limiting factor.
(This is especially for people who don't have in-home laundry and therefor must waste time to travel somewhere to do laundry and pay per load. And obviously YMMV depending on job, lifestyle, body, geography etc for the other clothes.)
It might sound crazy to spend $500 on underwear alone but consider the following that lets you get away with 3 weeks between laundries:
Utility Underwear $5-10/ea x 20 = $100 - $200
Utility Socks $5-10/ea x 20 = $100 - $200
Nice Socks $30/ea x 2-4 = $60 - $120
Nice Underwear $30/ea x 2-4 = $60 - $120
TOTAL Range ------------------------ = $360 - $640
This doesn't even account for bras, which for some people could spend $500 on alone. But if you have spare you can always get undershirts, long johns, stockings, jocks or whatever. And on top of that there are more specialized items some people need/want due to health or gender reasons.
If you have a stable housing/storage situation, and a moreorless stable ass size, you'll never regret having extra socks/underwear, or having extra good quality of either.
If you cook and don't have a good knife, get a Victorinox Fibrox chef knife, preferably 7"ish, and an inexpensive whetstone. I use the back of a coarse leveling whetstone and a 1000/3000 grit combo whetstone. Neither should be above $20ish on Amazon. Use the knife especially to prepare vegetables and mince garlic and ginger.
A standard chef's knife is 8" and I think the fibrox only comes in 8" and 10"
Good shoes or good weather tolerant outdoor clothes like a rain jacket. When I had very little money, these I struggled to afford and often put aside the longest because I could not quite justify them to myself. But walking around in wet clothes and shoes is such misery.
Same with other basic stuff like a really good useful backpack, a good frying pan, something genuinely helpful for their home.
I suppose what matters is the type of person this is for. I for example got myself a secondhand home gym setup at the start of covid and it is in use still, has been a huge quality if life increase for a neurospicy introvert. Many say a robot vacuum is a really big help. My adult kid would love a dish washer if he could afford one.
Bonus: a body pillow, the best thing ever just for pure comfort.
Best $500 I ever spent was a portable air conditioner for the summers. Depends where you live of course, because almost nobody has AC here where I live. Residential units simply do not come with it.
One more thing came to mind. A good spacious enough freezer if you don't have one.
It saves so much money and time in the long run. You can buy fresh stuff in bulk and patch freeze it and just cook from the freezer. Or meal prep and freeze ready meals for spoonless days. Or freeze leftovers so you don't waste food. And eat berries and other good stuff all year round.
As for others recommending a good knife/knives. I would totally recommend that you also get a knife sharpener, or more specifically a whetstone. An afternoon of toil can leave you with a bunch of knives that are better than new, rather than throwing out perfectly good stuff!
Dehumidifier is a life saver for properties prone to damp and mould. We spent about £100 on ours and it keeps mildew from forming on stuff left under the bed/in wardrobes and also lets us dry clothes indoors all year round, saving us on running the tumble dryer.
A ~50$ handheld steam cleaner goes a long way.
If doing dry herb, a ball vape.
Headlamp.
Massage gun can be great, anecdotes aside, worth considering.