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Final Fantasy XI

Final Fantasy XI is the eleventh numbered installment in the… Okay, you know what it is, I’m just going to tell you about one of the storylines!

During the Wings of the Goddess expansion, adventurers will be sent back in time to experience the events of the Crystal War, a cataclysmic event that is the foundation for conflicts of the modern-day timeline. Should an adventurer choose to serve the Kingdom of San d’Oria, they will be immersed in the story of the Young Griffons—a group of children who would see themselves knights, many of whom grow into prominent characters later in life.

Among the Young Griffons, the player will find Bistillot, a shy boy who doesn’t like to be seen. With his penchant for engineering, shy demeanor, and lack of combat potential, Bistillot prefers to spend his time inside of an orcish war machine that he was able to repair to working condition.

He is often seen before he is heard, with his signature phrase, “HAAAALLOOOOOOOOO” being used to hail the adventurer. Through the course of the story, Bistillot finds his way, even contributing to the war effort with his engineering skills.

However, when another member of the Young Griffons is kidnapped and taken to the present day, the adventurer must return to the present day and reunite with the Young Griffons’ present selves! The adventurer’s first contact in the present day is Bistillot. When the adventurer hears the signature “HAAAALLOOOOOOO,” Bistillot approaches the player, but what the player sees is… a woman?? She introduces herself as Bostilette, a “friend of Bistillot.”

After the rescue mission, Bostilette comes clean. She is, of course, the very same Bistillot who was a little boy twenty years earlier. She explains that she was very sick as a baby, so her parents gave her a boy’s name so that she would be stronger and survive the illness. Once she overcame the illness, she was comfortable to reclaim her name and gender. Well, that closes the book on that story, except… I’ve decided that’s bullshit!

I have unilaterally decided that Bostilette is trans, the sickness she had was dysphoria, she stayed in the orcish war machine because she was an egg, and I hope you all agree!

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[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

why do we bother

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (6 children)
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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (3 children)

There is so little going on in gender (for me) kitty-cri-potato Kinda feels like I'm never going to actually make the jump to doing gender irl.

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[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

I just got Fallout NV for a pc for the first time

lea-finger-guns

What are some mods I should get?

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

✈️ weee

feel like I mess up a lot and could stand to be nicer to myself. things I suppose I'll think about while I'm stuck in the air for a while

[–] bubbalu@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (2 children)

[venting, advice wanted] For the last two months, I been putting up an old friend from a punk house since I moved into my house and couldn't leave out my lease. This friend has a lot of energy and motivation issues, and generally needs a lot of support. Beyond putting him up, I helped him leave out the punk house we used to live in that was getting evicted, got him a storage unit, and have helped out with about an errand a week. I was the first person he saw when he woke up from top surgery. I thought we were tight.

I asked him if he would help me clean out the apartment since I had been putting him up and he basically shrugged me off. On top of that, now he's trying to change the timeline for getting out, but I need to do it this weekend when I am off work otherwise it will never get done. He knows this and we discussed it weeks ago.

Thankfully, some friends have agreed to put him up for a week as an 'off ramp' but it still feels like I am evicting him sort of.

I feel shitty because he don't have a real place to go in the city. At the same time, I have done as much as I can with the energy and time I have available. It also feels shitty that we would probably be better friends right now if I had just left him on the street.

Some help sensemaking is appreciated right now.

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (5 children)

spoilerWake up, immediately dysphoric, scared, crying.

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[–] kristina@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)
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[–] Edie@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

Is there some word for music you listen to while.. down

Thomas Bergersen is quickly becoming that for me

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago (2 children)

grossHitting the backrooms so hard I noclip 😩

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

Picked up sparking zero, but it didn't hook me, and I just refunded it. Been waiting for it for like a year.

I feel like I can't even touch the enemies. I played the tutorial, but I don't know how to do half the things the enemies do. Just feels really clunky to me. Also, the story mode seems incredibly bare bones and soulless.

Really depressing. I must have had hundreds of hours on Budokai Tenkaichi 3, and now I can't even clear the first few levels of this one. Ugh, I suck.

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago (13 children)

Kittenposting 💕 🐈‍⬛ 🐈‍⬛ 🐈‍⬛ 🐈‍⬛ 💕

Today's cativities mostly including napping and watching birds and squirrels out the window

@rtstragedy@hexbear.net

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Finished Gender Outlaws now I be thinking of buckets of gender, I don't think I can finish another book before my birthday tomorrowkitty-birthday-sad but glad I got through this one at least. Need to mind chew on some things for a bit will probably give it another listen later on since I also found the play part pretty entertaining Kate Bornstein's narration is pretty goated

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 11 points 1 month ago (3 children)

yapping, body hairThere's a passage in Any Other City by Hazel Jane Plante that gives me pause, which is cool because the book is kind of boring and underwritten otherwise:

We were spooning. She was small spoon, even though she had a few inches on me. I kept glancing down at the stray hair spilling out of her armpit. It reminded me of the cover for Patti Smith’s Easter, where she’s raising one of her arms to reveal a small nest of hair in her armpit. In retrospect, that’s the one spot where I regret getting laser, because a thatch of armpit hair on a woman is actually really hot. It offsets the softness.

Based, by the way, if u even care, but I wish I had this cool and based view. I don't shave mine but I don't really have any sort of view on body hair, it's just kinda there. "Offsets the softness"?

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