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Final Fantasy XI

Final Fantasy XI is the eleventh numbered installment in the… Okay, you know what it is, I’m just going to tell you about one of the storylines!

During the Wings of the Goddess expansion, adventurers will be sent back in time to experience the events of the Crystal War, a cataclysmic event that is the foundation for conflicts of the modern-day timeline. Should an adventurer choose to serve the Kingdom of San d’Oria, they will be immersed in the story of the Young Griffons—a group of children who would see themselves knights, many of whom grow into prominent characters later in life.

Among the Young Griffons, the player will find Bistillot, a shy boy who doesn’t like to be seen. With his penchant for engineering, shy demeanor, and lack of combat potential, Bistillot prefers to spend his time inside of an orcish war machine that he was able to repair to working condition.

He is often seen before he is heard, with his signature phrase, “HAAAALLOOOOOOOOO” being used to hail the adventurer. Through the course of the story, Bistillot finds his way, even contributing to the war effort with his engineering skills.

However, when another member of the Young Griffons is kidnapped and taken to the present day, the adventurer must return to the present day and reunite with the Young Griffons’ present selves! The adventurer’s first contact in the present day is Bistillot. When the adventurer hears the signature “HAAAALLOOOOOOO,” Bistillot approaches the player, but what the player sees is… a woman?? She introduces herself as Bostilette, a “friend of Bistillot.”

After the rescue mission, Bostilette comes clean. She is, of course, the very same Bistillot who was a little boy twenty years earlier. She explains that she was very sick as a baby, so her parents gave her a boy’s name so that she would be stronger and survive the illness. Once she overcame the illness, she was comfortable to reclaim her name and gender. Well, that closes the book on that story, except… I’ve decided that’s bullshit!

I have unilaterally decided that Bostilette is trans, the sickness she had was dysphoria, she stayed in the orcish war machine because she was an egg, and I hope you all agree!

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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago

kicking my feet up and enjoying not getting notifications anymore :)

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 13 points 1 month ago (3 children)

shitpostdril getting hoisted by the back of my belt and chucked out of the herpetological society meeting for referring to cloaca as "lizardussy"

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[–] Edie@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

New mega thread!

Up with trans

Down with cis

Everyone have a great day

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[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)
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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I have been practicing/learning the minecraft 1.16.1 speedrun recently. I've mostly been practicing my bastions, but I also did a bit of one cycling practice today.
(video might take time to load, I wasn't sure where else I could upload)

First success, only five beds too! Still a bit off from doing full game runs, but I was pretty happy with this.

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[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

why do we bother

[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 12 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Just got back from getting bloodwork, now to wait for results and hopefully I can get my E upped a little.

cw: BloodSeeing my blood in the vial, I'm always struck by how it's such a lovely shade of red. This happens to me often with particular shades of colours, and I guess my own blood is one of those now. The dark red is such a deep and beautiful shade, and even the bright stains on white cloth are utterly delightful, such a... almost happy shade of red. This is probably weird to think about though.

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[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

waking up with no power, and then discovering the fucking fuse for the oven is the thing tripping the breaker. I had to test so many god damn things to narrow that down meow-tableflip

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[–] bubbalu@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (2 children)

[venting, advice wanted] For the last two months, I been putting up an old friend from a punk house since I moved into my house and couldn't leave out my lease. This friend has a lot of energy and motivation issues, and generally needs a lot of support. Beyond putting him up, I helped him leave out the punk house we used to live in that was getting evicted, got him a storage unit, and have helped out with about an errand a week. I was the first person he saw when he woke up from top surgery. I thought we were tight.

I asked him if he would help me clean out the apartment since I had been putting him up and he basically shrugged me off. On top of that, now he's trying to change the timeline for getting out, but I need to do it this weekend when I am off work otherwise it will never get done. He knows this and we discussed it weeks ago.

Thankfully, some friends have agreed to put him up for a week as an 'off ramp' but it still feels like I am evicting him sort of.

I feel shitty because he don't have a real place to go in the city. At the same time, I have done as much as I can with the energy and time I have available. It also feels shitty that we would probably be better friends right now if I had just left him on the street.

Some help sensemaking is appreciated right now.

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (6 children)
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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

✈️ weee

feel like I mess up a lot and could stand to be nicer to myself. things I suppose I'll think about while I'm stuck in the air for a while

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (5 children)

spoilerWake up, immediately dysphoric, scared, crying.

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

Saw a really cute hockey player crush

thirsty shitpost(To the tune of St. Vincent's "Sugarboy")

🎶 Hockey twinkkkkk 🎶

🎶Tickled pink🎶

🎶Give me two minutes of roughing🎶

🎶Outside the rink🎶

🎶 Hockey twinkkkkk 🎶

🎶You artic fox🎶

🎶High stick me please🎶

🎶Get in my box🎶

🏒panting

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (3 children)

There is so little going on in gender (for me) kitty-cri-potato Kinda feels like I'm never going to actually make the jump to doing gender irl.

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

Doing my best Elvira, Mistress of The Dark for a Halloween party tonight and look so fucking hot. sicko-power

[–] starkillerfish@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (8 children)

I've been seeing TMA and TME in bios on tumblr lately, and Jules Gill-Peterson talk about it a little. I know what they mean broadly, but was wondering what's the story behind them? What's the reasoning behind using them? Kinda afraid to ask, but online searches haven't been very helpful.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (4 children)

Jules Gill-Peterson

We have Canadian kkkanada historians specialising in transgender history?

TMA and TME though, many people seemed to use transmisogyny exempt and affected to recreate a binary, again. Shouts to the transfemme person who screamed at me to Read Whipping Girl when I asserted that maybe not every single trans man is a misogynist, (paraphrasing, been a while) lol.

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[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (12 children)

Apparently altered time perception is a symptom of dissociation. I can still feel my senses for the most part, but I’m definitely dissociating. Wonder when the last time I wasn’t was.

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago

Now that I have 2 names, I find genuine enjoyment in having them chat with each other in my head, like a simulation.

What if everything is just a simulation and we're in the matrix or something?

[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Love when all dopamine, energy, social battery, and sensory tolerance has been used up and my only option seems to be staying on my phone. With one last ounce of discipline I will attempt to say good night and log off. Gn!

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[–] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (2 children)

What is the difference between the 5 stripe and the seven stripe lesbian flags?

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[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)

CW: Dysphoria, mental health, questions about medicationAfter spending the last couple of days in a depressive/dysphoric hole, I have decided to go ahead and try SSRIs, and to get an HRT consult scheduled sooner rather than later. Obviously, dysphoria and depression are two different things, but I wanted to know if there were any issues with beginning the two around the same time, and if it'd be better to start one before the other.

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Holy shit there was a group of people in American revolutionary uniforms banging on a drum while waving Trump flags next to a commuter route.

I retract my statement about liberals being just as passionate/energetic as conservatives, this takes the cake. These people also set up a giant (largest I've ever seen) sign at the end of the road accusing democrats of stealing freedom. I was shocked at first, but by the time I was turning off of the road I was laughing my ass off.

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[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 12 points 1 month ago

I have multiple mid granolas in my cupboard. I just discovered the one good one says it has fucking dairy derivatives in it. Should’a taken note of the “protein” label. angery

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