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The ETR 600 is a class of trains built by Alstom, and are used on the routes between Roma-Bolzano and Roma-Trieste. The train tilts, using Pendolino technology, allowing higher speeds to be maintained through corners without causing discomfort to passengers. The trains are operated by Trenitalia, originally under the Frecciargento (Silver Arrow) branding used for trains capable of travelling between 250 km/h and 285 km/h, In 2022 they were rebranded under Frecciarossa (Red Arrow) after the Frecciargento branding was retired.

The ETR 600 has also been adapted for use in China as the China Railway CRH5 Hexie. Initially 60 sets were ordered, of which nine were manufactured by Alstom and 51 by CNR Changchun Railway Vehicles. Since, another 80 sets have been created for a total of 140, operating across China's north from Beijing to Ürümqi.


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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (4 children)

Fuck it

sad
spoiler self harm and suicide Why am I even alive? This is all just pain, its been pain for so long, and I don't see that ever changing. There is so much pain from so many directions. sh'd earlier and it did nothing for me. So like really, how am I supposed to stop being in pain? This happens literally regardless of what I do. Do girl stuff, feel like shit. Self care? shit. smoke weed? A bit better tbh, best I ever feel, but still there. Obviously there's a lot of gender pain, but there's other stuff too. And I am just so sick of all of it.

Even posted about it makes me feel like shit. Like oh here I am just bitching when other people have it worse. Why even post about ending it when I don't have a method. Just stupid drama baiting shit tbh. Probably how everyone sees me. Can't even sh properly so how am I even going to go through with a plan anyway.

Anyway I'm just rambling, I want to escape this. fwiw I don't have a method so don't worry about my safety too much. ::: Edit: I'm going to head to bed now, hoping to feel better tomorrow. Goodnight mega.

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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

feeling like shit. some loud braggart tried to put me down and say his school is great... he also refuses to acknowledge my school (number one in the state)

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[–] thirtymilliondeadfish@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (2 children)

thinking about getting a salt lick and a scratching post and just becoming a goat

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (4 children)

I've been experimenting with low waisted jeans lately, and it's all good until you need to sit down.

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Ooh this skirt is nice for sleeping/nightwear

monkey paw curlsIt constricted my movements so I woke up in the middle of the night and could't go back to sleep. Worst of all, I didn't realize I could just take it off until the morning. Something like this happened once before, my brain just doesn't work sometimes.

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I ate too much sugar free things and now I'm paying the price.

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago (3 children)
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[–] Wake@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I just discovered that the hippie skirts I've been buying can also be used as a dress. They even have a little neck strap thing that I can tie into a cute bow. This is life changing information.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago (7 children)

I hate going back to video games I used to like and now I'm bad chat, I'm a noob, everyone just wrecks me oooaaaaaaauhhh

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago (8 children)

autism, agoraphobia, whining about trying to be social and normal and it not going wellCool relative is in town and wanted to go out and do stuff with me

Went out to dinner which I never do and everything was disappointing

Went to the batting cage, rolled my ankle and jammed my thumb

Went to a cat cafΓ© and you have to book appointments in advance to actually go in and play with the kitties so I just got a cute mug for my mom

Went to a barcade and it was really loud and overwhelming and the non alcoholic IPA was underwhelming and a little flat

Had a really bad headache and had to drive home in the dark and LED headlights made it worse

I think I'm just allergic to outside and fun

Shit like this makes me aware that I'm probably way more spectrum-y than I usually think

Every attempt to Make Myself Have Fun feels magnetically repulsed by me and just leaves me exhausted and sad about how bad I am at interacting with the outside world

I feel like I need a week in bed in low lights and recording booth sound panels on my walls now

I'm just not cut out for this shit

creature yes-honey-left

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[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@lemmy.today 14 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Happy US national coming out day.

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[–] Ambii@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (6 children)

in my feelings

Re-watched I saw the tv glow 2 weeks ago with my girlfriend and it fucking destroyed me the second time around. Really took me by surprise because I didn't even tear up the first watch.

Same week I started sobbing from the pain during my laser session, like I was a total mess. I absolutely could not stop it from happening and It's not something that ever happened to me pre transition.

Today I connected just a little too hard with a song and started crying on my drive home.

E has turned me into a crybaby and I fucking love it. I love crying. Why? No clue, maybe it's because it's a sign that my emotions are actually available to me now.


Ya girl also started stimulants last week and today I doubled my dosage from 5mg to 10mg and I feel so so so emotionally energized.

2024 Pt.2 is looking up for me.

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago

walked around and existed in public, used words with strangers, and got boba at the end. pretty good friday night

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago (3 children)

the biggest mystery in stranger things is why joyce doesn't have a line of suitors outside her door at all times

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[–] OpheliaAzure@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (5 children)

So excited to do a couple of spooky roleplaying with people!

https://hexbear.net/post/3667072

Already have a couple Tuesdays lined up for some Delta Green / SCP-style scares with mostly trans hexbears

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago (2 children)

whiningHaving the first dysphoria day in months. Trying my best to pull myself out of the hole. Washed and styled my ratty hair. Tried on 2 outfits, hated them, found a third. Even if I'm miserable, I will be queer in public. I will spite the cis.

So anyway, when I was a guy, my wife used to describe me with a lot of different adjectives ranging strong to sexy and everything in between. Things related to my personality or values.

Since starting transition, she only describes me as some form of pretty (I know I'm lucky to have someone to describe me as pretty, but I'm emotional and whining rn). I brought up that it was kind of fucked up months ago because, while I enjoy being pretty and beautiful, it's not the ONLY thing I am as a fem. I know she doesn't always want to be described in those terms either. She didn't really take it seriously.

This morning, when I finally got my outfit settled, she said I looked like "the smartest woman in the room" and I legit got dewy eyed (that's where I am emotionally today). So I brought up my issue again, and I think it will stick this time.

I think it's good advice generally to open up the narrow confines of "cute" and "pretty" when trying to achieve femininity. Would recommend.

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago (2 children)

it's been too long since EstraDoll's talked about her tits, hasn't it?i got a planned parenthood appointment in about two weeks where i'm going to try asking for prog and honestly i think they might just take one look at my chest and say "girl you got enough". 5 months in and these girls are pushing a B cup good lord

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[–] Anvil_Lavigne@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago (2 children)

drugs but uh more relevant this time

so i'm AuDHD, but historically speaking, amphetamines have had a p drastic effect on me. like, i'd actually be wanting to leave the house & loved just talking w/ ppl about anything & everything, all through the night. i'd be getting chores done like it's nothing. now tho? i'd rather stay. quietly in bed & use my newfound focus to shove things into my brain. it's balancing my emotions & in fact, making it easier for me to rest in the clutches of insomnia.

there's been quite a lot going on over the last year or so & i often can't be sure what's what, but i gotta wonder, does anyone feel like hrt has changed the way they react to certain chemicals?


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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago (1 children)

T levels are still looking so low i think i'm just going to quit taking spiro, even after lowering by E dose by 25% mario-thumbs-up

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago (6 children)

I want something sweet, but I don’t want to go to the store to get it.

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[–] SexUnderSocialism@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Me earlier today while I was jumping and singing along to music while taking a shower: susie-dance kirby-jammin susie-dance

Me after browsing social media for 2 minutes: stalin-gun-1agony-shivering

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[–] Kiagz@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Thinking I should just get a hair transplant done as soon as I can afford it. I know that it's best to get it together with FFS, but that's several years away and I don't want to go that long with this awful hairline.

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I had a dream about getting to the top of the list of bottom surgery and going to the clini to get it on!! I was mostly excited - although they did keep asking me to do weirder tasks also

sexI was bummed I hadn't made a copy of my current fock for after, but I didn't let that be a concern.

The tasks were like, nursing skill/knowledge quizzes but at some point the testing people left without a word and apparently I "passed" the final test by finding them

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[–] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago

Wish Winter would come already i want to wear leggings and thigh highs but its still fucking summer Temperature in fall

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago (6 children)

Using :3 unironically a bunch has been great.

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Having insane boob itch today, but the itch is underneath the skin so scratching it doesn't even help aubrey-rage-cry

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[–] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

meant to post about this last week but I'm delighted with my dye job. I'm naturally a dirty blonde/light brunette depending on the season, with some slight red undertones (stealing valor there tbh, sadly didn't fully inherit that from my mother). I went for like a super deep cherry red, and I'm absolutely loving the result. my hair is easily my favourite physical feature so I'm preening over it even more than usual. washed and conditioned tonight and my curls look great. I was also pleased that I got it done right in time for [personal special occasion] last week where I got to hang out with some of my buds and felt I looked great, even put a full face on which ive also been getting more confident with! I've been pretty freaking depressed lately but I thought I'd push myself to make a positive post hehe. love all my trans comrades!

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