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On this mega I shall take the opportunity to rant about one of my favorite things: the Webnovel UNJUST DEPTHS!

Do you love transgenders?

Do you love communism?

Do you love queer romance?

Do you love killing fascists in a giant fucking mech?

Would a plotline with all of these things happening in a underwater retro-futuristic gundam setting intrigue you?

Especially if its actually really well written with good characters, rich worldbuilding, and a marxist leninist transfem author?

All of the answers should be: YES I DO ~~or else I WILL BAN YOU~~

Since you obviously love all of those things then Unjust Depths is perfect for YOU yes YOU! It is DESTINY

The Imbrian Ocean is at a time of severe instability. The monarch of the vast Empire that spans its unjust depths (:3) is sick and nearing death, every territory of the ocean now vying to carve their own Destiny out of the chaos. From the Volk fascists pigmask-off , Zionists hamas-base (they literally will not die why are they still here oh my god), The 'Anarchists' (social chauvanists) lenin-dont-laugh in Bosporus, and the monarchs gui-trans of each vast noble domain, each vies for power and prestige no matter who they crush underfoot, but it would be a pretty depressing story without a bright light in the dark.

On the edge of the Empire sits the glorious Union! The (Soviet) Union soviet-chad is a socialist federation of three states (and one anarchist mountain left-unity-4 )that were formerly slave colonies under the Imbrian Empire until they broke away in a fierce liberation war. They have spent the last 20 years since then building themselves up. Whether they be Human bridget-disco , Shimmi kbity-how (Catgirls who usually follow a religion closely related to modern Islam), and Kattaran transshork-happy (a hybrid humanoid species with characteristics of sea life ranging from sharks to cuttlefish)building socialism side by side.

First lead under the revolutionary leader Dashka Kansal, then the Idealist Ahwalia who lead the country to near ruin in pursuit of building a utopia on pillars of sand, then under the scientific socialist three-heads-thinking leadership of the Grand Marshall of the Union, Bhavani Jayanskar (I love Jayanskar so much shes basically as if Stalin, Lenin, and Zhukov were rolled into the same person but was a black lesbian badass who wore the uniform REALLY WELL)(she aint the main character at all tho shes only in very few scenes i just love her so much). Under Jayanskar, the Union has been growing their economy to both eliminate hunger and give everyone a home chad-stalin , but also growing their military capabilities for the inevitable return of the Empire. The Union is alone, but with the people by its side nothing, not even Destiny, can snuff out true freedoms light. specter

As war wages between the Empire and Republic (basically underwater USA) once more over the lands between them, the facade begins to finally crack...

And a border conflict between the Empire and Union escalate, and the dreaded reconquest begins.

Amidst this turmoil, lives our main characters (yes there are multiple and all of them are lovely). Each of whom I personally love dearly, and are very well characterized. Many are soldiers of the Union, some are scientists, some are divers (mech pilots), some are lost strands finding new meaning after joining this band of Brigands

All are Communists steban

All serve the Union USSR

All would gladly give their lives to defending socialism comrade-stoic

but even they would have little inkling of the adventure set in store for them as the lands beneath the waves erupt in fire, fury, and revolt

Can these transgender badasses kick fascist ass?

Can they kiss? (oh my god please kiss ISTG THERE IS SO MUCH SHIPPING AHHHH ITS GLORIOUS)

FIND OUT HERE: https://unjustdepths.com/

please do or else I will pout incessantly

just try it pleeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaase i need to talk to someone about it after Cromalin went AFK

(I miss her, she was a real one)

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 19 points 3 months ago (4 children)

Was out at a public thing today, and my wife saw some of our coworkers and flagged them down and did the "omg haaaai nia-peace " thing, so now coworkers have seen me in full queer mode.

Now, the rumors begin lea-tired

Babe, whyyyyyyy 😭

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 19 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Update β€” I don't think my HRT consultation tomorrow is happening. I think it's most likely going to be pushed back again. Ugh.

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 19 points 3 months ago (5 children)

hello hexbear

today i am going to be transgender

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[–] heartheartbreak@hexbear.net 19 points 3 months ago (4 children)

Started seeing a transmasc w huge knockers that he likes.

I dont know if im gay or a lesbian or bi or straight or what at this point. Can t4t be straight?

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[–] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 19 points 3 months ago (3 children)

Why is androgyny so attractive tho 🧐

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 19 points 3 months ago (7 children)

Is it cute or pathetic that I make my gf text me when she arrives at work and gets home?

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 17 points 3 months ago

Cute and I love that for you two.

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[–] Hestia@hexbear.net 19 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)

I have become such a happy person. Transitioning was my greatest decision in life. And that happiness has become a positive feedback loop where I'm actually optimistic about a relationship with this girl I like. And we're gonna hang out all day soon and get drunk with a bunch of queer people in the evening aubrey-happy even if romance doesn't pan out I feel like my social circle is really starting to branch out

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 19 points 3 months ago (2 children)

pro tip for all dps players: make sure to move around as much as possible to make it a challenge for the healers to restore your health, even when you're not under attack. put a wall in between if you can

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 18 points 3 months ago (4 children)

started some self-learning in another field so i can eventually get out of the food industry and maybe not be poor one day

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[–] Shinhoshi@lemmygrad.ml 18 points 3 months ago (3 children)

We need a nonbinary character that when presented with gendered bathrooms, goes into a quantum superposition entering both of them

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[–] magi@hexbear.net 18 points 3 months ago (11 children)

I've drank 3 litres of water, I'm hoping my comrades are staying hydrated too! comrade-raccoon

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 18 points 3 months ago (6 children)

Something in the air today, getting interesting comments.

Wife called me her wusband. Someone said I look like I'm from Xinjiang, someone said I look like Batman, someone said I'm very fashionable and handsome.

I guess none of these things are contradictory?

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[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 18 points 3 months ago (4 children)

My first skirt came in. Like with everything else I've been doing (shaving face/body hair, painting nails), it's a mix of euphoria and dysphoria to wear. Still, cannot wait for the rest of the outfit to come in.

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[–] belligerentkitten@hexbear.net 18 points 3 months ago

took my friend's car to be fixed today because she doesn't have her license yet. car is a mess. we stopped at the gas station about 1km from the car place and the car stalls 5m away from the pump and won't start again. my friend is moments away from having to call a tow truck when i realise that its entirely downhill. she pushed me back onto the road and i rolled down. and then we had to walk an hour and a half home. picked some blackberries and figs on the way back, that was nice. but fuck i'm tired.

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 18 points 3 months ago

Finally home, time to crawl into bed and be depressed. lea-finger-guns

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 18 points 3 months ago (3 children)

Had a friend call me she today. First person outside of my wife to do it. It was pretty cool. I've told my friends I'm NB, but haven't said my pronouns.

After he said it, he then realized and asked what my pronouns are.

Pretty neat to have supportive friends. Nobody has been weird about it, and things are going as they always have. Frankly, I wish they would make a bigger deal out of it and ask more questions lol.

But I'll take this. Treating it like it's totally normal is probably the healthiest reaction.

I had one friend who was a little too excited when I said I might be a trans woman. Later, when I told him I settled on NB, he was significantly less enthused. Don't know what to do with that, just gonna file it away somewhere emilie-shrug

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[–] Zvyozdochka@hexbear.net 18 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Hello people in my puter xinternet , I hope you're doing well

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[–] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 18 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (3 children)

so it turns out i somehow bought multiple pairs of knee-high socks with flowers printed on them. current pair? black and white stripes with beautiful pink roses on it. i'm not sure what subtype of goth these are, but i dig it

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 18 points 3 months ago (4 children)

Girl on TV said she would never date a republican and both my parent's were like "this is what is wrong with America"
badeline-bruh I think there are worse, guys.

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 18 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

"Yeah, I'd say I'm more of a butch lesbian" I say as I'm currently rocking a 60% success rate at applying command hooks to my wall to hang my pride flags

UPDATE: we're currently rocking a sub 50% average, i lost count

[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 18 points 3 months ago (3 children)

HRT consultation tomorrow, it was supposed to be last week but somehow the timing got messed up. Nervous but excited.

Also I have been on a streak of fantastic outfits lately, feels good lea-blush

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[–] Des@hexbear.net 18 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (3 children)

still trying to process some stuff i overheard a co-worker say today.

from past convos she comes across as ideologically incoherant conspiracy pilled right winger. very second-hand though, pretty sure she has a brother she's close to who feeds her stuff he gets from e-l-o-n

so i hear her talking at a customer she's cornered about usual chemicals in food, gut biome, and of course soy "estrogen". then i think i start picking up on some transphobic shit

i was working so didn't catch it all but i swear she was actually crafting some convuluted spiritual explanation for being trans. something about masc and feminine energy. almost jordon peterson stuff and then starts basically saying it's ok for boys to be into feminine stuff and girls to be into masculine stuff

all of this couched in more woo language then i've heard her use before. "spiritual energy" stuff. sorry this is so vague

really wish i could have overheard this all. maybe she has a trans kid or family member and it's breaking her brain so she comes across as making up weird excuses but still accepting of it??

or she's trying to say everyone is genderfluid in this weird pop-esoteric way.

still fuck that shit americans are weird the internet is breaking our brains

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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 18 points 3 months ago (20 children)

They're doing weird foreplay in this book. observe:

She smirked. "You're cute when you're giving me sass."
I tossed my hair back over one shoulder. "And that's supposed to convince me to stop giving you sass?"
She raised her eyebrow again, and I got the feeling she knew what that did to me, too. "Quite the contrary. Finish that salad, Avery."

giving me tremors and ideas sicko-lea

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[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 18 points 3 months ago (4 children)

my eyes hurt too much to sit watching youtube all day the past day, so I had to listen to youtube videos. you ever watch that slop content that's like "I SURVIVED 1000 DAYS IN HARDCORE MINECRAFT'S HARDEST MODPACK" and they're like 7 hours long. absolutely such bland contet in the moment to moment gameplay, it's just a dude on his own who is not very good at minecraft, but when you drift off to sleep and wake up 40 minutes later and he has a whole melon farm set up now or some shit, it's nice nice to keep tabs on the progress. highly reccomended if you're dealing with a fever and sleeping on and off all day

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[–] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 18 points 3 months ago (1 children)

got lasered today meow-bounce i've literally had 4 sessions sitting in my account for like 6 months i've just been rotting with executive dysfunction too much to use them... proud of me:)

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[–] anonochronomus@hexbear.net 17 points 3 months ago (6 children)

I went to a Queer and Trans AA meeting last night! They abbreviate it QT, which I absolutely love. I found a sponsor, made it my home group, and picked up a commitment for next month. It was a really nice time. I used to hate going to meetings (NA), I was convinced it was some sort of weird cult, probably because the meetings I was going to were full of unbalanced nutcases. It's completely different this time around, hitting meetings has actually been the best part of my day lately. I'm sure there are a few reasons I feel different about it, primarily that I'm much more comfortable with who I am and my disease progressed to a point where I became literally unable to do anything other than drink. I feel like a completely new person in a lot of ways and it's great.

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[–] belligerentkitten@hexbear.net 17 points 3 months ago (2 children)

how to convince cat that chickens are friends not food?

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 17 points 3 months ago

how are girls all so fuckign soft??? love them

[–] nemmybun@hexbear.net 17 points 3 months ago (4 children)

My internet is finally fixed after being out for over a week. I missed you trans mega aubrey-cry-2

FFS and Electro talkExciting happenings over the last week: I had a FFS consult early this week and that's moving forward. I need to get face scan and after that and getting the surgery authorization I should be on my way for getting that done. The surgeon is kind of an asshole but he does good work and it's covered by insurance so shrug-outta-hecks

I also had my first electrolysis session. I guess thermolysis technically. Anyway the actual process didn't hurt as much as I expected it to even after the numbing cream wore off. A few hours later I have some swelling but otherwise I'm doing okay. Only a bajillion more sessions to go!

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The internet break was also good for my vn, I've got the entire base story lined out, ideas for multiple endings and some scenes, the characters are fleshed out, and I'm about 1/4 done with unique character story routes.

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 17 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (3 children)

Gonna see an old friend for the first time in 3 years soon! It’s so cute, chat. We both had not transitioned last time we saw each other in person. We used to date, it didn’t work out, and we stayed friends since.

Will be good to see this human, and they’re helping me recover from this surgery, and I will help them recover from top surgery next year. party-parrot

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[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 17 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)

Setup an appointment with the campus counseling services. They don't offer long-term care (or gender care), but I should at least be able to get a referral for insurance purposes (IDK how much it'll be with the shitty student health plan). I've never felt able to pursue treatment, due to a paranoia of being involuntarily institutionalized. I've always lied on intake questionnaires.

I also need to contact local LGBT+ groups to figure out what external providers have a good track-record with gender affirming care. I've seen plenty of horror stories (here and elsewhere) about therapists.

EDIT:

Talking about a dream. Transphobia in the dream.Also had an interesting dream last where I was openly femme-presenting and part of an international team of Russian mercenaries who performed operations for the liberation of oppressed peoples. My nickname/call sign was the F-slur, and there was misgendering at first but they did settle on she/her pronouns by the end. So it wasn't too bad. I think we invaded the Australian parliament and forced the government to cede land back to the Aboriginal people.

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 17 points 3 months ago

I found the pretty butterfly dress I fucking adored! It was the most expensive piece of clothing I got from a pricey department store that went out of business, $300 yeesh. But I loved it, did the spinny. Just needed repairs so I put it down for repairs - and forgot lol

[–] rainn@hexbear.net 17 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (4 children)

cishet being disgustingCishet guy casually speaking how he wants to be a pimp and traffick 'rural women' for onlyfans.

no words, what the fuck, i dont think a gulag is enough for some

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[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 17 points 3 months ago

Drinking coffee

[–] LeylaLove@hexbear.net 17 points 3 months ago (6 children)

CW: dysporia

You know, I'm actually not much of a makeup gal. I love feeling pretty in it, but struggle with sensory issues related to it. For this reason, I've never really felt hurt by make-up ads. But yesterday I was scrolling through Instagram and got the first ad I've ever seen targeted towards specifically trans women. It was for tucking underwear. Now I've never tried tucking underwear, but I've tried regular tucking and honestly my dick is too big for me to tuck it. But seeing the before and after on this ad made me feel really dysphoric, like I was "too much of a man" to be able to hide my genitals.

I posted about this in my trans AA chat because it's the first time I've really felt hurt by an advertisement. Someone in the chat bought me some tucking panties, and it really brightened my day

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 17 points 3 months ago (21 children)

I wonder what yall would be like as roommates

Am I gonna be secretly smoldering because you never do the dishes or your day for the cat litter boxes, am I gonna be secretly turning off the furnace so I don't get overheated (WHO TURNS THE HEAT ON IN A HEATWAVE, ITS 40Β° OUT), am I gonna get weirded out by you insisting that we all need to eat together every night, am I gonna have to ask you to please keep the fucking noises down I have to work a night shift please don't be so loud for once

Or, maybe, you would all be cool and it would be ME who was the problem 😱

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