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I didn't mean for this post to cause a bunch of arguing in the comments =(

I thought this was just some gallows humor (e.g. "Everything's lovely except that I have to fear for my safety all the time") type of shitpost that sounded similar to comments I've heard from women irl a lot.

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[–] Sniatch@feddit.org 31 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Reading the comments make me feel like I'm reading 4chan. How are people getting triggered by that post

[–] BedSharkPal@lemmy.ca 3 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (2 children)

You don't get it? I'm not upset by it, but it makes sense that others might.

What if instead of men it said Jewish people? Black men? Short Asian females? Brown folks? Makes it a little more obvious why it would be problematic no?

It's casting blame/shame on an incredibly large group for no particular reason (humor?). It's just a dumb joke, but again, I get why some might be offended a bit.

[–] Sniatch@feddit.org 4 points 6 hours ago

If a white dude would say this, the prople getting triggered right now wouldn't even care. The post wouldn't even get that many upvotes. Most people are getting triggered because it's a woman saying it.

[–] _lunar@lemmy.ml 1 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

the way you describe men as men but women as females says everything i need to know about you and where you stand

[–] BedSharkPal@lemmy.ca -1 points 2 hours ago

The irony of your.comment....

[–] ProgrammingSocks@pawb.social 11 points 1 day ago (2 children)

It's literally engagement bait gender wars bullshit. This conversation is fucking useless until you start asking WHY and none of them do, they just start throwing bullshit around about their own personal anecdotes or start screaming "NO THATS NOT TRUE" "YES IT IS"

It's a useless never ending "debate". Man vs. Bear should've taught us that. Mods should've locked the post or deleted it already IMO.

One of the mods posted this

[–] stevedice@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Enacting change is not the point of the post, it's just a woman making a joke about the way she experiences life to others who may experience life in the same way. Men just got their feelings hurt and now, instead of trying to prove they're not sexist, they're in full denial about the rampant oppression women live every day.

[–] ProgrammingSocks@pawb.social 2 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

Of course women experience oppression. I'm nonbinary and outwardly feminine and I get a fraction of that derision directed towards me as well. But because I won't paint that as some inherent failing of all people born with XY chromosomes and point to social issues instead, gender essentialists get mad, and gender essentialists really engage with these posts.

[–] stevedice@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm gonna bring this thread up the next time people throw a tantrum when I say Lemmy is sexist.

[–] Walk_blesseD@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 9 hours ago

The problem with that is that the ones throwing those tantrums (or is the plural tantra???) are the same ones making the problem comments here.

[–] marcie@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 day ago

Lemmy.world moment

[–] eugenevdebs@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 day ago

Reddit is 4chan with account, .world is trying to be reddit 2.0 by it's admins, not a shock.