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struggle sesh discussion of 'gossip'
~~sorry im posting this here, the thread I was responding to has been locked but not removed, I am not here for a debate, fine for mods to delete if desired~~~~look at the root for gossip~~
~~>Old English godsibb "sponsor, godparent," from God + sibb "relative" (see sibling). The sense was extended in Middle English to "a familiar acquaintance, a friend, neighbor" (c. 1300), especially to women friends invited to attend a birth, later to "anyone engaging in familiar or idle talk" (1560s).~~
https://www.etymonline.com/word/gossip
~~because it can be used in an offensive and condescending way, does not make it so. Women talking to each other is an important part of how we keep communities safe. I have been attacked and driven out of spaces for 'gossip' wherein I was trying to remove a predator.~~
~~there are no positive connotations for the dunk tank, these arent equivalent.~~
~~If you think gossip is a misogynistic term then examine yourself~~.
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I have always heard gossip used with a misogynistic undertone. I don't know what to tell you if you don't have that experience.Tell me more about the positive connotations of the word, please.
I have and don't use it.
i think I agree with you, sorry, I was just mad at the locked vibes post
thanks for checking me I needed that
this isn't something i have a developed take on but i don't think posting the etymology of the word is persuasive at all. linguistic prescriptivism is pointless and unserious, obviously what matters is how it's used and its connotations in a modern context.
That could almost be an argument for keeping the tank comms
sorry I shouldn't have engaged with this, woke up from a night mare and lashed out
you're fine, i know how that goes
Did you mean to post this in the trans mega or the new admin post?
If here, probably should add a containment CW since it's a struggle sesh topic. Other mods might remove either way, idk.
Sorry you're right I spoilered it, ~~i didnt realise there was a new admin mega for it I'll crosspost it there and delete here~~ actually forget it, I'll leave it because our comrade corrected me
There's no hard-line rule on CWs for struggle sesh topics, but I think it's better to be safe than sorry, especially for comrades who may be mentally burnt out.