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this post was submitted on 19 Aug 2024
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You* probably know how to perform a recognizable gender better too.
*A given transgender individual
That's where you're fuckin' wrong
Being woefully socially inept and pretty oblivious, I have no idea what performing a gender looks like. Is it checking my nails by bending my fingers rather than fanning them out? Is it waiting for people to open doors? Is it un-wedgie-ing myself when my butt eats my undies for the thousandth time? Is it injecting estrogen at a sit-down restaurant just to be confrontational? Making cat noises, probably...
Also Idk how you would perform a gender like Non Binary Lesbian honestly. I am not consciously performing anything, so Idk.
Okay now one of you needs to tell me which is the fem way to do it, for gender euphoria purposes.
Either is fine Idk if dudes check their nails. I was told this by a 4channel gender phrenologist nut so y'know.
They're built different on that image board, like a deranged cross between a "girls' etiquette" school and a catholic school!
When I was a small boy child, I was teased by being asked to check my nails. I did it the femme way - now it gives me more euphoria lol
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It is ridiculous the things people will make fun of people for, glad you get euphoria from it now.
It's too dependent on area. If you were in the 90s in rural Alberta Canada, then fanning your fingers out with the back of your hand was considered "the girl way"
Ok it might be more applicable to allistics, but, I mean, you pick up social patterns from at least online queer girls. I mean the hormones do work more and more - idk about a different between year 9 and 10, but yeah.
The social patterns, like uh speech structures and stuff, tend to apply more online than irl, usually. Also I do not have irl friends :3
Yeah, yeah :(
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