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[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 16 points 4 months ago (3 children)

I absolutely am a 'cannot eat without youtube' baby. but part of it is I find chewing noises, even my own, EXTREMELY over stimulating. the other part of it absolutely is having baby brain where I need constant stimulation and entertainment tho, can't lie

[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 8 points 4 months ago (1 children)

made some beyond meat burgers for dinner. my wife always wants like an entire fistful of diced jalapeno on her burgers among other things, I am good with some pickes and some red onion

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 8 points 4 months ago (1 children)

compromise with pickled jalapenos?

[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 7 points 4 months ago

na that's what I mean, we have a big jar of pickled jalapenos, and she always wants like a heaped mount I have to glue together with burger sauce

[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 8 points 4 months ago

Eating and doing something else at the same time is overstimulating personally. There’s a pain in trying to pay attention to both. Eating gives me dopamine and that makes me want to never stop, but do I often want to continue? Stimulation is a dialectic and it sucks.

[–] magi@hexbear.net 7 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Asmr and stuff like people chewing triggers my misophonia, it's so bad I can't sit at a table with noisy eaters..

[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

oh I am full on death to noisy eaters pilled

[–] magi@hexbear.net 6 points 4 months ago

aubrey-bat People who smack their lips too

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

100% with you, absolutely can't put up with it unfortunately. Just have to leave sometimes.

[–] magi@hexbear.net 7 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

I just don't eat at a table (or with other people)

I couldn't get away growing up so I learned to eat my dinner in the fastest time possible.. I out speed anyone eating at this point, never found a faster eater because of it.

But like my misophonia is so sharp I can hear bubbles in a soda can across the room, literally can hear a pin drop lol but it's bad for certain triggers, I don't like when it goes off I get irrationally angry and can't stand it, it's like having nails down a chalk board or like a dentists drill for normal people. I have to leave that space or block out that sound. My hearing is in the upper range for humans too..

[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 4 points 4 months ago

I tend to eat pretty fast but that’s because I lack restraint. I like eating.