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If you're not looking for ideas, and you just want to commiserate, you can ignore the next part
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Is there a friend you could come out to, and you could store the clothes at their place? Wear them there?You could also get a storage space for pretty cheap. Although, I don't know how fun it would be if you aren't confident enough to wear the clothes outside. Girlmoding alone in a storage unit doesn't sound like a great vibe lmao
Oh yeah a friend of mine did that when she was in high-school, it's a classic. Change after you leave the house into your actual clothes
No I appreciate the ideas, and just talking.
No. My one irl friend has some weird views, and I'm guessing transphobia is in their somewhere. Maybe I'll try poking the issue next time I see them but I really doubt they have good takes unfortunately. Need more and better local friends.
The issue is mostly actually being able to go out and get them, and then bringing them back into my space. I have plenty of privacy once I'm there. And yea, lol girlmoding in a storage unit sounds really grim. Made me chuckle though.
So this is an issue of you taking boxes inside the house and your parents or whoever being like, "what's in the box?"
I guess that really is the issue. Probably need to just tell them I have a box coming and to leave it for me to deal with. When I explain it maybe its not as impossible as I was thinking. I do have a gift card and want it really bad.
Yeah, there's also putting it in a backpack or something so then they don't even know you're bringing stuff in.
That's if you can do pick up somewhere. I think a lot of stores, you can order online and do pickup there.
"This dress is for my girlfriend <3 I love her so much and she's coincidentally my size"