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Maybe? Payment could be a pain, and whether I order it to my house or a friend's either my family or my friend is probably going to think its some weird sex thing. I don't really have any trusted people to shop with sadly.
Do your parents monitor your packages or purchases? Most online shopping can be done fairly discretely. If they do though, I'm sorry that's shitty of them.
They just usually open stuff (I don't think its even malicious, maybe more of a habit thing), and most of the time when I want something I just have them order it (they have amazon prime so may as well) so it would stick out. Doubt they'd even read the label before opening. Unless I say something, and I feel like that would draw attention/maybe questions.
idk, maybe. Ordering online might be my best bet tbh and just deal with the awkwardness.
Do you think it may be possible for you to get to the package before them? Like, get ahead of them and pick up the mail yourself on the day you know it will arrive?
Very unlikely, unless I'm able to guarantee a date. There's always someone home.
Hmm, maybe you can look into getting a PO box for until you move out? You will have to pay a monthly fee, but I'm looking at the rates for USPS and it doesn't look too bad.
Honestly, might just bite the bullet on the awkwardness and give them a heads up. I wonder if there's a way to make sure they put everything in one box
I will be investigating my options for ordering though.
That's cool too. I sympathize with the struggle w/ parents though, it's what's held me back from starting T for over a year. Good on you for making the choice.
If you order from one place they probably will ship everything together, especially with clothes because clothes don't take up a lot of space shipping-wise. If you order from multiple stores there will be multiple packages, though.
Well I just have so much I want to get
But yea probably will just be one.
I've been in a very similar situation of waiting. Thankfully I have an end date to my waiting, and it's in sight (about a month left) but yeah, the trans wait is hell.
Wishing you good luck on getting something pretty and flattering!