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[โ€“] magi@hexbear.net 11 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

I use comrade/them because there is no other pronoun choice I'm comfortable with. I don't use it off the the bearsite. I would just put null/void because I'm agender but there is no option for that. They/Them has been used to try to misgender but They has been a non gendered word used in English language for a very long time too. she/her is aesthetic part of me or jiust old remnant or I'd use it so I don't have to talk about myself to third parties.

I default to they/them for most people until I know their pronouns and adjust accordingly.

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 8 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Would you rather none/use name?

Would you rather I start using magi instead?

[โ€“] magi@hexbear.net 10 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I dunno, Null/void would be my own choice but devoid of my own choice I don't really care anymore.

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 8 points 4 months ago (1 children)

You... aren't devoid of a choice though? If I'm talking with someone about you, how should I do that?

____ is/are always someone who is honest with me

Pick something to go in that blank meow-knife-trans Or are you saying you would literally like me to say

void is always someone who is honest with me

? Whatever you want, it is simply important to me. I have been using she (because that's what I see Ash do), but I genuinely just want to use what makes you feel best/hate the least.

[โ€“] magi@hexbear.net 8 points 4 months ago

Honestly it is more when I have to look at it when it bothers me. My stickler would be English grammar denotes a name there in the blank but it's also because I don't think of gender too. I don't use she/her that much bar specifics.

Honestly I don't care use whatever is easy for you, it doesn't matter it's a label and so is ny username.