Very relatable, I hope therapy helps you!
BountifulEggnog
joined 2 years ago
misgendering
Was in a good mood last night, so I decided to play some warframe with a friend (I don't really like warframe, but he does).
Got called a man multiple times. Its kinda my fault, I haven't told him I'm a girl, but I have told him to use they/them. I don't think he was being malicious or anything but it still stings. I think if I ask him to stop he will. idk, might do that. I've never been good about sticking up for myself.
It is actually so frustrating not being able to smile in a natural looking way.
This is a really hard story to insert myself in. But I'm easy going and I while I'd be surprised, yaknow we go with the flow, its fine.
I appreciate your straightforwardness and hope you continue to be with her.
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Even this comment is too much, but I would like/think I'd get something out of reading such a discussion OP.
Very real, I wish I could try girl clothes on with trans people irl. But online hugs are almost as good :3
I found out that "are you hungry" actually means "will you eat with me"
Oh I just realized this one too, a few seconds ago. I wonder how many times I've said not really when I should have said yes??
Oh I definitely don't participate in this one. Sometimes I'll ask someone if they're sure, but if I want something you offer I'm sayin' so.
Honestly I just keep all of it, interesting/cursed to look back.
I always just force smiles.
I need lots of affirmation