BountifulEggnog

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

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It really feels like they're saying "it feels weird to call this man she, but I can compromise with a they so that he doesn't get on my case about it."

In my opinion, you're right on the money. fwiw I don't hate being they/them'd by people I know are cool, but it definitely can be bad and invalidating. Sorry you're dealing with that, I wish I had advice cat-trans

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 2 months ago

I love fog, fantastic weather phenomenon.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago

Thank you :) proud of myself too.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 25 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (13 children)

Really shook up the status quo tonight, came out to a long time friend. First time telling someone other then you all.

It went well, he is supportive and reminded me he's my friend. Asked what pronouns I'd want around other friends too, which I forgot to bring up.

I never like change, I am very fearful about this one, but it is actually going okay so far. Thank you to all the mega posters, I would not be where I am without you cat-trans

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 5 points 2 months ago

Thank you, and yes it is very normalized :/

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago

Can't wait to never see those people again.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago

Incredibly relatable, I hope you're able to do little stuff at least. Helps me. :meow-hug:

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I should confirm what is being thought of, I'm thinking just normal transition stuff as I ask for/need it. Unlimited revolution against kkkhristianity absolutely qin-shi-huangdi-fireball

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 8 points 2 months ago

I definitely don't have to follow their other beliefs, any sort of issue would literally just be because I'm trans.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 8 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

This something my therapist has said multiple times, almost every session lately tbh. Asking like, how I'd feel if that's what my parents said. I mean I guess anything would be better then nothing, but I'm still not a fan of that.

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