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"I was so offended when I saw the clip - it honestly floored me”

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[–] JadenSmith@sh.itjust.works 7 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

I don't think this person understands Black Comedy, which is what Ricky focuses on. That's what he's known for, and chances are that's why her 13 year old kid liked him too.

[–] flamingarms 6 points 11 months ago

I agree. When I've gone through terrible times, black comedy was such a relief. I would've felt worse if everyone was scared to make jokes for fear of offending me. Laughing at something takes some of the power away from it. "Why didn't you wish to get better?" comes across to me as a wink: of course you're wishing to get better and it sucks it's not that easy.

[–] i_am_not_a_robot 6 points 11 months ago (1 children)

There seems to be some Ricky Gervais fan downvoting all the comments in this thread.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 4 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

More than one apparently.

Edit: Interesting that none of these downvoters actually have the courage to defend a guy making fun of kids with cancer.

[–] Pratai@lemmy.world 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Plenty do. I suggest you read the comments.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

They didn't when I wrote that. And none of them replied to me until now. And that was one person who didn't really justify mocking kids with cancer who you made Make-a-Wish videos for.

[–] kromem@lemmy.world 4 points 11 months ago

Looks like Netflix is starting their standup marketing cycle early for this one.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Wait he’s actually started going after kids with cancer? I thought we were just making fun of him because of his insistence on punching down because he’s not supposed to

[–] FooBarrington@lemmy.world 5 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

You know the old saying - those you're not allowed to criticize are the ones with the real power. It's about time somebody speaks truth to children with cancer!

[–] Sorgan71@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago

bro this was funny

[–] eatthecake@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago

In the video clip featuring the joke, Ricky Gervais – who is well known for making offensive jokes – goes on to say: “These are all jokes, right? I don't even use that word in real life, the R word. 'You just used it, Rick'. Yeah. In a joke. That's not real life, is it? I'm playing a role."

Jokes are not real life now? Is that the excuse for being offensive for fun?

[–] PlasmaDistortion@lemm.ee 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

This guy is not even remotely funny to begin with. People need to stop giving him a platform.

[–] Pratai@lemmy.world 0 points 11 months ago
[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world -2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I guess I learned today that he's not just an asshole, he's an ableist asshole. So that's new.

[–] Emperor 8 points 11 months ago (1 children)

And it's not funny, just trying to be edgy.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, I'm really not getting what the "joke" is. Ha ha, kids with cancer are stupid? Netflix is so desperate for content.

[–] Emperor 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

It's getting a shocked laugh out of the audience by saying things he "shouldn't" say and then excusing it by saying it's a character or (as is often in Jimmy Carr's case) trying to deconstruct it as a meta commentary on what is acceptable in humour. Carr, at least, is a skilled joke technician and very knowledgeable about comedy (my Dad wasn't his biggest fan but thought his book was excellent and used it as a reference in his MA on the linguistics of humour) but it's still a fig leaf being deployed to tell the same punching down jokes that were being told in working men's clubs and the New Wave of British Comedy swept aside.

Taste is subjective but I'm not a fan - it's an excuse for pretty lazy comedy. Frankie Boyle was much funnier (IMHO) when punching up than he was when he was making jokes about Jordan's son.

[–] DoneItDuncan 4 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

It's also stale - we've no shortage of edgy comedians saying things for shock value. Sometimes a joke is just not funny because every other one has basically made the same joke. And if it's not funny all that's left is an insult.