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[–] KatGirl@hexbear.net 4 points 29 minutes ago

Been wanting to get into drawing so I can draw my own Yuri, just annoying breaking past my perfectionism to actually draw stuff

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 3 points 33 minutes ago (1 children)

What should my new account name be when I stop tomboymoding? doggirl-hi

[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 4 points 15 minutes ago

If you're staying on-brand, @puppygirlmoder or @doggirlmoder

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 1 points 3 minutes ago

I'm unhealthily addicted to sweaters and cardigans

[–] Yukiko@hexbear.net 3 points 48 minutes ago

Work was hell on nearly no sleep. I go eep eep now. =w=

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 3 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (2 children)

I got 3/4 of my wisdom teeth pulled today and this is the most physical pain I have ever been in

Also I don't think I can do the aftercare ("irrigation") which I have to, god.

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 2 points 47 minutes ago

How dumb do you feel?

[–] peanutbuttercupola@hexbear.net 2 points 59 minutes ago (1 children)

Do the irrigation, meow-knife-trans you really do not want a dry socket.

[–] sictransitgloria@hexbear.net 2 points 52 minutes ago

+1 THAT shit hurts.

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 5 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

People on r/mtf really feel so comfortable talking about being in the military/vets and so many people are happy to engage with it. There's a special level of disgust I have for queer people in the military.

It's reddit, so no surprise of course.

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 4 points 47 minutes ago (1 children)

I’m glad I grew out of my immature β€œCOD and the military are so cool” phase and realized I was a wimp and a trxnny and that the US kinda sucks before turning 18.

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 2 points 33 minutes ago

Too bad that first realization doesn't always lead to the second haha

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 7 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

bit idea: Terf who keeps deadnaming cities and other geographic locations

Nieuw Amsterdam, or sorry, """New York""" or whatever it's going by these days πŸ™„

[–] WhoaSlowDownMaurice@hexbear.net 7 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

This makes istanbul not constantinople a pro trans song in this bit I think

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 5 points 3 hours ago

TERF voice: "IT'S BYZANTION"

[–] WhoaSlowDownMaurice@hexbear.net 4 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

That's right, we have to go back in time to the first gender reveal party to take being cis off the menu!

[–] Babs@hexbear.net 11 points 5 hours ago

Welp it's official, my queer culturally-specific worksite isn't anymore. The county has taken over our intake process and are just gonna start sending us cishet people now with no screening process. Also our budget is getting cut and I'm being given strict monthly quotas to house people (none of my clients have an income, and there's fewer housing vouchers than ever).

It's been a good run I guess.

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 12 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

hot take but. i really love my wife

[–] Kuori@hexbear.net 6 points 7 hours ago

cw: drug usefeeling like i picked a good week to stop smoking weed agony-4horsemen

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 7 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

crazy cars truly lead you nowhere

[–] Khlo@hexbear.net 12 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (2 children)

stupid sarcastic rhetorical about the state of the US CWSo since the federal govt says we don't exist, we don't pay taxes anymore, right?

blob-on-fire

[–] Yukiko@hexbear.net 4 points 48 minutes ago

spoilerWe're all sovereign citizens on this day.

[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 8 points 8 hours ago

spoilerΒ‘No taxation without representation!

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 10 points 10 hours ago

i feel like it's no longer a microtransaction when it's Β£45

[–] omenmis@hexbear.net 4 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

any himejin have some good recs?

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 3 points 7 hours ago

after hours, crescent moon and doughnuts, hanamonogatari, and trying out love with my female friend stalin-approval

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 3 points 7 hours ago

huh. never heard that name, always himejoshi

i guess himejin is gender neutral

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 11 points 10 hours ago

I painted my nails and I wasn't sure I liked it, and then I put on girlclothes and all of a sudden I really like it

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 15 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

TIL I’m too weak to work at a bakery doggirl-sweat

[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 15 points 11 hours ago

wouldn't you just get dog hair all over the food anyway

[–] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 4 points 8 hours ago

I'm waking up at 5am on Monday to drive two hours to get a nice cassette player/recorder that actually records in stereo to make a Valentine's mixtape for my partner. The things I do for love catgirl-flop

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 9 points 11 hours ago

cracked out my dumbbells

gonna look like overwatch zarya by the end of the month :arm-L:comfy-cool:arm-R:

[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 8 points 11 hours ago

My mom made me a knit cardigan and it looks so great doggirl-happy

[–] KrupskayaPraxis@lemmygrad.ml 10 points 12 hours ago

I want to be friends with cis lesbians who can teach me how to be like them. I was in contact with two classmates who are cis lesbians but now that class is over I have no contact with them and we sadly didn't become friends.

*Trans lesbians who are far along in their transition are okay too.

[–] ComradeMonotreme@hexbear.net 16 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (4 children)

The sincere posting zone, earlier this week I saw a doctor about starting informed consent HRT. I figure if I don't like it I'll stop. If I like it sooner is better than later.

As an omen as I was driving I got stuck behind this Ute covered in bumper stickers and chalk writing, talking about covid19, government tyranny and globalism, etc. To crown it all it had a Eureka Stockade flag mounted and flying. But on the rear bumper in pastel blue chalk in the fruitiest handwriting it simply said "Stop feminising our men”. And I felt well shit if that wasn't a sign from the universe to do the opposite as what this driver wanted.

The consult went fine and I'm catching up at the end of the month to finalize consent check baseline bloods etc. They were very nice. But also doctors don't really understand when you say "If I end up not liking breasts I can have a breast reduction and get some cool as fuck scars".

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 12 points 14 hours ago

Much earlier in my transition after starting hormones and growing boobs, I do remember the distinct thought of "well great even if I detransition I'll always have boobs now!" As in I honestly thought I'd be happier with them, and I was right but it's because I was in NO DANGER of detransitioning and was a woman lol

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