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[–] ComradeMonotreme@hexbear.net 6 points 16 hours ago (10 children)

Lord help me I’m thinking of playing Skyrim again. TBF it has been like 7 years since I last played it.

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 5 points 15 hours ago

jason mantzoukas on taskmaster season 19 πŸ‘€

[–] TheSpectreOfGay@hexbear.net 17 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

my doctor: please take the medicine that gives u periods, pls u have pcos and it can't be treated any other way

me: hehe no period and facial hair go brrrr

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 4 points 15 hours ago
[–] shallot@hexbear.net 15 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (1 children)

Bit idea: getting kicked out of a topless bar for not being a bottom

[–] TheSpectreOfGay@hexbear.net 9 points 21 hours ago (2 children)

this happened to me the other day :(

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 7 points 18 hours ago

bottom move

[–] shallot@hexbear.net 9 points 21 hours ago
[–] amy_jmayday@hexbear.net 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

i think the fact i managed to mostly keep up femme voice while deeply crying during therapy means that i'm fucking crushing it out here catgirl-smug

[–] bolshevikLovelace@hexbear.net 5 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

waow-based voice goals

(extra points if it was before midday, i can't for the life of me get my voice to be femme in the morning)

[–] amy_jmayday@hexbear.net 4 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

it wasn't, i gotta have my therapy pretty late in the day or the whole day is shot for me :x

i... don't actually know if i've really talked at all in the morning since i started voice training, haha. not much of a talker.

[–] bolshevikLovelace@hexbear.net 3 points 19 hours ago

lol yeah my psych appointments are always around 4pm for the same reason

i've got meetings in the morning but it gets easier as the day goes on. congrats on the voice progress! xi-clap

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 14 points 1 day ago

I'M THEM

I'VE BEEN THEM

I WILL CONTINUE TO BE THEM

dracula-flow flag-non-binary-pride

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 11 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

sick kidsApparently our pediatrics unit isn't the only place getting overloaded, it's the whole hospital and every hospital in the health zone I'm in. We're only just now getting our big wave of peds patients on top of everything else. I dunno how many calls from desperate parents I've had to tell to either get in their pediatricians office, a walk in or if they think it's a true emergency to go to the ER. There's no secret back door to get your kid in to our unit, I know it's a long wait and they might send you home without much, there's literally no spac, for example, for your kid with 3 months of chronic diarrhea because there's 3 emergency appys, there's 4 kids on oxygen, two on airvo, one with epiglottis, three to be admitted from other rural emergencies including one who should've been sent to the big city but they're full too etc etc. We don't have room unless your kid absolutely needs 24/7 nursing care. It's so frustrating, I'm used to a higher standard of care for the community.

And it sounds like it's like this every unit in every hospital. And we're due for strike after February. Good luck

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 9 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago)

Also super frustrating that my coworkers aren't picking up for sick calls. We have 5 casuals, I don't think one of them has picked up since the summer

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 10 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

born to passenger princess

forced to drive myself everywhere

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 9 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Every group of queer friends needs the one who can drive

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 10 points 21 hours ago

why can't it be someone else 😭

[–] Beetle@hexbear.net 8 points 22 hours ago

I don’t know if I’m put together enough to deal with the facial hair I’ll get from hrt.

[–] Luna@hexbear.net 18 points 1 day ago

Just shaved and I think this is the best I have ever looked. Honestly really surprised with just how far I've come along! Comparing new photos to old ones is like looking at a new person doggirl-happy

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago

Had a very productive day and decluttered and took recycling to the dump that they don't take on the street pickup, went to the gym, did my grocery shopping and took Rosie and Goggles to their first vet appointment and got their shots and microchips (they did really well! Goggles wanted to hold onto my shoulder and grumbled a little bit they were very good in the car and didn't scratch or anything) meow-bounce

mental health, positive mostly but ahhh stressCan tell I'm on the verge of being really burned out though

Almost road raged at slow distracted dipshits multiple times today and have been really irritable and got really overwhelmed shopping today

Lately I've felt more competent and grown up overall than I ever have before but holy shit I'm exhausted.

I'd do reprehensible things to have a competent sibling to help me take care of my parents

I'm pretty much a lone wolf and it's taking a toll

two-wolves-1

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 13 points 1 day ago

Dming people on Redbook asking them if they like sonic until someone replies no-copyright

spoilerIt worked and I made a friend 😎

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 18 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

autistic marxist leninist bottoms be like: "oh my god someone please tell me what the fuck to do" and it's me i'm autistic marxist leninist bottoms

[–] TheGenderWitch@hexbear.net 4 points 16 hours ago

how did you steal a thought i didn't even know i had

[–] KatGirl@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Please I beg of you, stop calling me out

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

you will not be spared me posting right in the feels. none will be spared

[–] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago

timmy-pray praying that you find your top soon

[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 15 points 1 day ago

They really made her go :3

[–] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 18 points 1 day ago (1 children)

society if HRT made you look sort of like your mom instead of sort of like your dad if he transitioned 45 years ago

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 4 points 1 day ago

Tfw mixed race and so I look more like my aunt's and cousins than my mom

It's a weird kinda feel but I guess it's whatever?

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The glow in the dark nail polish I got is cool but don't quite like the snot like color it leaves on my nails

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 7 points 1 day ago (2 children)

The snot is what makes it glow

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 2 points 15 hours ago

I think it was the third night I had them that I forgot about them and freaked out a bit in the middle of my night when I woke up for water.

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 3 points 1 day ago

Glow is stored in the snot very-smart

[–] Kiagz@hexbear.net 16 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

Trying to have a more positive mindset by acknowledging all the progress I've made so far with my faceMy face really isn't that bad, I just have this habit of hyperfocusing on the few remaining features I don't like and ignoring all the features I like or feel neutral about. 1,4 years of HRT, lots of laser hair removal sessions, growing my hair long and eyebrow shaping have made a huge difference. Depending on the angle, lighting and hair style my face can actually pass. I'm not satisified with that, but it means that I've gotten a lot closer to my goal of having my face pass in all or at least most circumstances. The huge amount of time and money spent, all this effort has not been in vain. Things have actually gotten better for me, and will continue to get better if I keep at it! aubrey-happy

[–] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Remember that there are plenty of cis women who wouldn't "pass" to transphobes. I'm sure you look great. Kill the transphobe in your head

[–] NotLuigi@hexbear.net 6 points 1 day ago

TikTok has proven that. It’s full of cis women complaining because the β€œwe can always tell” crowd won’t leave them alone

[–] KatGirl@hexbear.net 18 points 1 day ago

Wtf is this bullshit. Why do I have to go to work? Why can't I just be cute, snuggle up to someone and be called pet names?

[–] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 13 points 1 day ago

Depressed people finding friends is a trope invented by Bojack Horseman

[–] Luna@hexbear.net 13 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Does anybody here have any ideas for styling hair while growing it out? I've kind of just let it be (other than trimming the ends once), but I want to go for something more explicitly feminine. My hair now is about down to just below my ears, although the back is at my neck.

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