traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns
Welcome to /c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns, an anti-capitalist meme community for transgender and gender diverse people.
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Selfies are not permitted for the personal safety of users.
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Stay on topic (trans/gender stuff).
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Bring a trans friend!
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Posts about dysphoria/trauma/transphobia should be NSFW tagged for community health purposes.
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Arguing in favor of transmedicalism is unacceptable. This is an inclusive and intersectional community.
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1 year of HRT, let's fucking goooo!!!
Might write a bit about it later, but the short and sweet is that estrogen fucking rocks and idk how I ever lived without it
congrats!!!!!
Aghhhhghghhghgghg just sent a text asking someone on a date. Hhhhhhgggggggg I'm not good at this
I tried speed dating and this is about how it went:
Them: Says some presumably interesting anecdote about themselves but I can't hear them
Me: "WHAT?"
repeat for two hours
Boobs are growing again. Also probably more important than size for me is that they're getting a lot rounder and less awkwardly shaped
Death to the reactionary egg prime directive! Long live the revolutionary zone of proximal transgender development!
what's up ladies? today I'm single yet completely and utterly unprepared to mingle
My fuckin bottom surgery application was rejected because I faxed it the same day as my doctors did his half ๐. And it took a few months for them to reject me, now I'll just have to do it again I guess
unlimited death to bureauocracy
i thought i was really gonna miss having gargantuan pockets when i moved to more femme clothing, but honestly i love having a silly little handbag so much.
Inside of you are two wolves:
One of them wants to form a big cuddle pile with all your trans cuties and make animal noises
the other wants to wave a giant red banner in front of a burning skyline while calling the masses to the barricades
CW: Extreme depression, dysphoria
My brain is screaming out in agony tonight. I was watching GDQ and a lot of donations started to come in about how trans folks families were so accepting and supportive. What a stark difference between them and myself where I lost literally everyone except for my mother. I even lost my fucking husband. It's so painful. I'm so happy others had it better than me, but gods it's killing me on the inside and I just want to cry. It hurts so much. Sometimes I wish I wasn't trans and this is one of those moments. I fucking hate everything right now.
Wearing swords should come back in fashion. My outfit would look much more complete with a smallsword.
Had to remind an ex that we will remain exes for the foreseeable future, that sucks.
dysmorphia
Oh God I reeeeealllly hate the way I look so much. I got a look at my side profile today and I just hate the way I look, I can't believe I appear to other people like this. I have way too much fat on my face, my neck is too wide so my face just looks like a blob. I'm also overweight and just fucking hate the way my body looks
internalized transphobia
Every time I go outside and see a cis woman my age I become jealous and sad. I feel so inferior to them. They're born with the right body, while I have to spend a huge amount of time, effort and money in order to change mine. I have to be on HRT for the rest of my life, do voice training and go through several major surgeries, and even then there's no guarantee that cis people will perceive me as a woman.
And will I ever feel like a real woman? Even if I reach the point where I fully pass, that won't change the fact that I've spent several decades living as the wrong gender, and that I'll never have periods or the ability to give birth
I'm missing out on formative years by not having an ex by now, all the ex jokes I could be making as a jaded 30 something year old ๐
My parents and immediate family keep asking me "when are you bringing home a girlfriend?" every time I visit and I have no idea how to tell them that sooner or latter the "girlfriend" that will come home might just be me.
s*x
I went to a dance class with my partner last night and as it was getting near the end they whispered in my ear, "How about we continue this with just the two of us and more tongue?"
Then we went back to my place and we made love for two hours and I even got a little time. I'm feeling exhausted in the best way right now.
I've been touching obscene amounts of grass lately and have been neglecting what's most important in life - posting in the trans mega
Still feel self conscious enough to stop my self from using feminine mannerisms around other people, but now it comes with guilt over not asserting myself ๐ซ