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Children of Time is a 2015 science fiction novel by Adrian Tchaikovsky.

In the distant future, humanity seeks to create new habitats for itself on distant planets, terraforming them and seeding them with life. Dr. Avrana Kern is heading one such project, orbiting the tentatively named "Kern's World", where the plan is to release monkeys le-monke infected with a nanovirus that will accelerate their evolution. Through an act of sabotage from an anti-technology group that has also destroyed much of Earth, the monkeys are never released, and the virus instead infects a species of spider, Portia labiata. The book follows the evolution of the spiders and their eventual civilisation, as well as a remnant of humanity that fled to Kern's World hoping to find paradise.


also children of ruin and children of memory, the sequels, are really good


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[โ€“] President_Obama@hexbear.net 34 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Met an autistic trans girl who programs for a railway company

catgirl-salute

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[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 29 points 1 week ago (2 children)
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[โ€“] Tommasi@hexbear.net 27 points 1 week ago (3 children)

1 year of HRT, let's fucking goooo!!! transshork-happy

Might write a bit about it later, but the short and sweet is that estrogen fucking rocks and idk how I ever lived without it catgirl-peace

[โ€“] MoonElf@hexbear.net 2 points 6 days ago

congrats!!!!!

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[โ€“] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 27 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Quite frankly, I'm a woman because I said so.

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[โ€“] Moss@hexbear.net 24 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Aghhhhghghhghgghg just sent a text asking someone on a date. Hhhhhhgggggggg I'm not good at this

[โ€“] Moss@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Update: they are not interested in me like that

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[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 24 points 1 week ago (11 children)

I tried speed dating and this is about how it went:

Them: Says some presumably interesting anecdote about themselves but I can't hear them

Me: "WHAT?"

repeat for two hours

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[โ€“] Tommasi@hexbear.net 23 points 1 week ago

Boobs are growing again. Also probably more important than size for me is that they're getting a lot rounder and less awkwardly shaped catgirl-heart

[โ€“] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 23 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Death to the reactionary egg prime directive! Long live the revolutionary zone of proximal transgender development!

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[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 23 points 1 week ago (2 children)

what's up ladies? today I'm single yet completely and utterly unprepared to mingle

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[โ€“] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 22 points 1 week ago (9 children)

Havin' a real rough time today catgirl-flop

Finally got an avatar though

kirby-wave

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[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 22 points 1 week ago (3 children)

My fuckin bottom surgery application was rejected because I faxed it the same day as my doctors did his half ๐Ÿ™„. And it took a few months for them to reject me, now I'll just have to do it again I guess

[โ€“] Kuori@hexbear.net 4 points 6 days ago

unlimited death to bureauocracy

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[โ€“] amy_jmayday@hexbear.net 22 points 1 week ago

i thought i was really gonna miss having gargantuan pockets when i moved to more femme clothing, but honestly i love having a silly little handbag so much.

[โ€“] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 22 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Inside of you are two wolves:

two-wolves-1 One of them wants to form a big cuddle pile with all your trans cuties and make animal noises

the other wants to wave a giant red banner in front of a burning skyline while calling the masses to the barricades two-wolves-2

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[โ€“] Yukiko@hexbear.net 22 points 1 week ago (1 children)

CW: Extreme depression, dysphoriaMy brain is screaming out in agony tonight. I was watching GDQ and a lot of donations started to come in about how trans folks families were so accepting and supportive. What a stark difference between them and myself where I lost literally everyone except for my mother. I even lost my fucking husband. It's so painful. I'm so happy others had it better than me, but gods it's killing me on the inside and I just want to cry. It hurts so much. Sometimes I wish I wasn't trans and this is one of those moments. I fucking hate everything right now.

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[โ€“] Babs@hexbear.net 21 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Wearing swords should come back in fashion. My outfit would look much more complete with a smallsword.

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[โ€“] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 21 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The only centrists I support are androgynous people

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[โ€“] bolshevikLovelace@hexbear.net 21 points 1 week ago (2 children)

THEY'RE TURNING THEIR FRIGGIN' KEYBOARDS TRANSalex-aware

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Had to remind an ex that we will remain exes for the foreseeable future, that sucks.

[โ€“] Moss@hexbear.net 20 points 1 week ago

dysmorphiaOh God I reeeeealllly hate the way I look so much. I got a look at my side profile today and I just hate the way I look, I can't believe I appear to other people like this. I have way too much fat on my face, my neck is too wide so my face just looks like a blob. I'm also overweight and just fucking hate the way my body looks

[โ€“] Kiagz@hexbear.net 20 points 1 week ago (4 children)

internalized transphobiaEvery time I go outside and see a cis woman my age I become jealous and sad. I feel so inferior to them. They're born with the right body, while I have to spend a huge amount of time, effort and money in order to change mine. I have to be on HRT for the rest of my life, do voice training and go through several major surgeries, and even then there's no guarantee that cis people will perceive me as a woman.

And will I ever feel like a real woman? Even if I reach the point where I fully pass, that won't change the fact that I've spent several decades living as the wrong gender, and that I'll never have periods or the ability to give birth distress

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[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

I'm missing out on formative years by not having an ex by now, all the ex jokes I could be making as a jaded 30 something year old ๐Ÿ˜”

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[โ€“] Sodium_nitride@lemmygrad.ml 19 points 1 week ago (5 children)

My parents and immediate family keep asking me "when are you bringing home a girlfriend?" every time I visit and I have no idea how to tell them that sooner or latter the "girlfriend" that will come home might just be me.

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[โ€“] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago

s*xI went to a dance class with my partner last night and as it was getting near the end they whispered in my ear, "How about we continue this with just the two of us and more tongue?" panting

Then we went back to my place and we made love for two hours and I even got a little bottom-speak time. I'm feeling exhausted in the best way right now.

[โ€“] nemmybun@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I've been touching obscene amounts of grass lately and have been neglecting what's most important in life - posting in the trans mega

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[โ€“] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago (3 children)

happy January 6th to all who celebrate

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[โ€“] buh@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago

Still feel self conscious enough to stop my self from using feminine mannerisms around other people, but now it comes with guilt over not asserting myself ๐Ÿซ 

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