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actix-web

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Bevy is a code first game engine for rust, based on the ECS paradigm. It's incredibly refreshing and different from most other engines. It is also unbelievably modular, in fact, just about every part of the engine cam be removed or added as you please! If you are every looking for something simple to play around, try bevy!

Tokio

The backbone of most asynchronous rust. It provides everything needed to build reliable, fast web applications!

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A neat little crate for sending http(s) requests! It's also used in Lemmy, and just about anywhere else where someone needs to do get some thing from an http(s) endpoint!

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[–] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 15 points 2 days ago

It's been a good day in gender for me, folks. I'm upping my estradiol and spiro doses and got a referral for a tracheal shave.

[–] nightshade@hexbear.net 17 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] Ciel@lemmygrad.ml 5 points 2 days ago

ferris friend

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 16 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Why do I already need to shave my arms again kitty-cri-potato and shower... and shave the rest of me... catgirl-flop

[–] Siobhan@hexbear.net 29 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Loving this site. Got misgendered on a comment and hot damn if someone didn't show up point two seconds later to correct them . Think I have a new hero

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 28 points 2 days ago

Fastest mods in the west brace-cowboy

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[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 23 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

went and took a concealed carry class yesterday and was apprehensive because i dressed full femme. It was hosted at a local pistol range. It ended up being lovely. The instructor was extra friendly to me (I sat in the front row). A cute little queer person (Pretty sure) was there and complimented my earrings. I love my town. I love being a woman!

[–] nemmybun@hexbear.net 19 points 2 days ago

Approval for the actual surgery part of my FFS went through today, all that's left now is to schedule it and start counting down. And if that wasn't amazing enough, I also finally got a refund check I've been expecting (but was told it could have come as late as 2028 lol) and it's more than I thought it was gonna be. Truly a fantastic day.

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 21 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Me when my wife is cuddling me: doggirl-sleep
Me when I wake up and can’t get back to sleep: doggirl-cry

[–] hexbee@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago

So true sigh

[–] Tayphix@hexbear.net 11 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

CW: injectionJust did injection after only an hour of overthinking and now I have hiccups. Soooo, now anxiety is in overdrive and I'm worried I did something wrong.

Maybe I should have just spent more money on another from of estrogen instead, but this is the price to pay for being broke I guess.

EDIT: its been an around an hour and im still suffering from hiccups. nothing is helping. existence is pain.

EDIT 2: yay they seem to be gone now. Please no jinx.

EDIT 3: I jinxed it :'( and now it feels stronger and hurts a bit

[–] Chronicon@hexbear.net 4 points 1 day ago

I used to get bad painful hiccups when I was younger, so I feel for you

congrats on the injection though, it's really the best way to go if you can stomach it! Some worry is normal but hopefully hiccups are a one-time thing trans-heart

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 11 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I don’t think doing your injection β€œwrong” would cause hiccups.

[–] Tayphix@hexbear.net 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)
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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 17 points 2 days ago (3 children)

rewatching I saw the tv glow and god damn they perfectly managed to capture the vibe of a deeply repressed egg in Owen. I'm genuinely stunned at just how perfectly they managed to capture the look and feel of a repressed trans woman in her

[–] char_deferred@hexbear.net 10 points 2 days ago

That movie is so good. I need to rewatch itβ€”-haven’t yet though because I was in tears almost the whole movie the first time. The movie brought back memories of my pre transition self.

[–] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

It's real egg-cracker and Justice Smith is a hell of an actor. I cried so much after it ended the way it did. It was the last push I needed to start HRT.

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[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 22 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 16 points 2 days ago

::: spoiler socializing is weird

I have a friend who i just cannot pin down, and its really frustrating. She said last night that she thinks im scared of her, to which i replied "sometimes"; in my introspection on that theres like 3 different processes at play.

I find myself wary and ready to deal with tough feelings when im with her in one on one situations, because she tends to talk about her personal growth and especially her ex, which is a situation similar enough to my longest relationship that it brings up a bunch of shit that ive mostly processed but is still difficult feelings, so I end up wary and readying myself to deal with them.

Then i also just suck at group interactions. So one on one its hard, and in groups its hard. So i am kinda scared, not of her but of my own shit and finding myself being extra alert and hypervigilant when we all hang out.

Doesnt help that she uses social cues to indicate when shes teasing/poking fun with me that i struggle to pick up on (and she does that a lot). So even when its good interactions it takes a lot of energycatgirl-flop

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 32 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I'm gonna go antagonise the salvation army this morning, on account of fuck 'em.

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[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 12 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

i'm finally starting to mess around with more eye makeup than just mascara and oh my do i loves it. i wish it was easier to put on but i suppose that's the barrier to entry. Will be excited when it doesn't take me an hour + to get all glammed up!

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 24 points 2 days ago (3 children)
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[–] Edie@hexbear.net 13 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Looking at myself in the mirror is so weird

[–] Edie@hexbear.net 8 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

I think it is partially that I don't recognize myself, but there might be more to it than just that. Difficult to put into words, but its β€œweird”

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[–] MoonElf@hexbear.net 11 points 2 days ago (2 children)

guess i'm going to learn Rust!

[–] Ciel@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 2 days ago

welcome to the cult!

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 8 points 2 days ago

Incredibly based

[–] Edie@hexbear.net 12 points 2 days ago

I was wondering why things had suddenly changed. Today and yesterday (at least) I have been... different. Wanting to get out and socialize, bunch of new thoughts on gender. Wonder if not taking ADHD meds for some time and then starting back up might have been the cause.

[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 13 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Why does the hawk tuah girl have a podcast and a crypto scam? catgirl-huh Wasn't it just a random street interview? Is this just what you do if you go viral now?

[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 14 points 2 days ago (2 children)

long story short she's a proxy for jake paul scamming people

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 16 points 2 days ago (3 children)
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[–] space_comrade@hexbear.net 13 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Rust is fucking amazing anybody that hates Rust is just a pissy little baby that doesn't have the attention span to learn how to deal with the borrow checker and some of the async quirks and is jealous of the people that can. I will absolutely die on this hill, Rust is light itself.

Compile times suck if you don't have a powerful workstation/laptop tho.

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 24 points 3 days ago (6 children)

Boymoding in a pink hoodie today.
I will be dammed if I get sir’d doggirl-smart

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