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hi so i forgot to message the person who was next (sorry HelltakerHomosexual) so i'm just gonna talk about a thing i like

Shadow the Hedgehog is a character that appears in the Sonic the Hedgehog series. Characterized by his sharp wit and strong sense of purpose, Shadow is a recurrent arch-rival of Sonic the Hedgehog, whom he resembles and shares many abilities. He is a major supporter of trans people, as evidenced by his catchphrase, "Trans people are cool!"

^ this is all from the wiki btw

I like Shadow a lot. His first appearance in the series is in a game where him and Sonic are both fighting the government and destroying these multi-million dollar gunships. Sonic is doing it because he loves communism but Shadow is doing it because he has a blood feud against G.U.N., who are like the global government death squads because they killed this girl, Maria, who he was best friends with.

Maria basically had an incurable illness that Eggman's grandpa was trying to cure by creating an immortal lifeform, which is actually how Shadow was born. Also, Shadow has a copy of Maria's soul I guess? Seriously, look it up. I'm reading all this shit for the first time right now and that sounds kinda trans to me.

Anyway, she gets shot by the troops and despite Maria telling Shadow to be normal and happy, Eggman's grandpa is pissed off about it so he starts psyopping Shadow into wanting to kill everyone on Earth. Eggman's grandpa successfully does the psyop and locks Shadow away until Eggman finds and releases him.

With his newfound power, Shadow starts being evil and helping Eggman find the Chaos Emeralds because he sees him piss on the moon or something. This goes on for a while until he gets back on the space station and remembers what Maria said, deciding to finally be normal and happy.

He switches up, goes Hyper Shadow and helps Sonic defeat the Biolizard which is basically what it sounds like: a giant lizard who wears the space station like a little jacket and shoots lasers from his mouth. Also, that thing was the prototype Ultimate Lifeform before they decided on the optimal form of existence: a little bipedal anthro hedgehog.

So they beat this lizard up, I guess it dies and then the space station is hurtling toward the Earth. Shadow takes a Chaos Emerald and, with the help of Sonic, does one last Chaos Control on the space station, returning it to a stable altitude. Sonic finds himself back on the space station as he flies into the atmosphere. After this, a big semi-translucent Shadow appears on top of the Earth and everyone can see it.

Why would I lie about that? Here it is.

Anyway, a bunch of shit happens after that but I don't care about it. If someone else wants to talk about Shadow the Hedgehog (2005) feel free. What I really wrote this out to justify talking about is the moon in Sonic games. Like I said before, the moon gets pissed on and destroyed with the help of Shadow,

and then in the next game it's just fine but evil now(???)

and after THAT it's not evil anymore but it's fully intact:

What the fuck? Why? How? I watched it get blown up. Who put the moon back together? Anyway, we're getting in the weeds here. Welcome to the mega.


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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 9 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

I don't remember seeing a bastion and nether fortress intersecting like this before:

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Your nether portal spawns right above the bastion, was neat to see last night when I was practicing. Ended up losing this run to not enough food iirc, you spawn in a mesa so not a ton of animals. Just thought this was neat world gen. seed: 2029358003872644754

[โ€“] hexbee@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

:o what kinda runs are you doing?

I'm doing the 1.16.1 filtered seed glitchless run. Its a random seed that I haven't played before, but taken from a pool of good seeds. The filter I'm using right now gives me a ruined portal with enough iron for a pick and a looting sword, and close bastion/forts. I'm running this category because random seed runs need a lot of resets for good worlds, I just want to play. Plus I'm not good yet, so even if I get a good seed I'd waste it anyway. Once I get better at it I'll use a less restrictive filter/do random seed runs.

[โ€“] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 22 points 3 days ago (3 children)

okay, i have decided to say something:

bragging about feelings i guessi have been so happy these past few weeks. i'm back in letter writing mode and it's because of one very special person. it is genuinely so fulfilling to have something like a mind-meld with someone who sees me so clearly and respects me so deeply. i didn't expect this at all and i feel so so lucky to have it. lol i'm pretty sure fae is going to read this at some point actually... it makes me happy to imagine that. ๐Ÿ’œ๐ŸŒน

[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 12 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[โ€“] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 12 points 3 days ago

speaking of, please go pet your wife

[โ€“] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 12 points 3 days ago

This is so cute. I'm happy for you!

[โ€“] 0x2640@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago

derail valley updated yey

[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 20 points 3 days ago

i was talking with my voice therapist today and he was talking about one client he had who, on the day she finally realized she was a trans girl, scheduled an HRT appointment, laser hair removal appointment, AND a professional voice therapist.

I know nothing else about this girl but I absolutely love her and she's fucking great

[โ€“] Tommasi@hexbear.net 15 points 2 days ago

Gonna go online and complain about woke (being woke up early on a saturday)

painted nails, picked partner up from the airport, both got our brows done, 6th laser session done (brandon). feeling like a bad bitch ngl

[โ€“] Yukiko@hexbear.net 17 points 3 days ago

I somewhat feel comfortable posting in here again. Maybe. We'll give it a small trial.

My top surgery is in 4 days. I'm hoping it doesn't look awkward. No lift, which is something I absolutely need, but the implants will likely be big enough to mitigate that issue. idk, we will see. Will be down for a while from it since I'm getting bottom revision as well.

[โ€“] morte@hexbear.net 17 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Arrrrrrgh i am so painfully socially awkward

I dont really do well in unfamiliar social situations where i dont know other ppl

Jus sit there with my phone n fidget spinner k-pain

[โ€“] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 12 points 3 days ago (1 children)

hey, i dont remember posting this comment. What gives? catgirl-huh

spoilermeow-hug

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[โ€“] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 13 points 3 days ago (2 children)

blog, sadposting, crush, dysphoria progress I guess?Didn't see crush today, kept thinking about them and made myself sad

Took a selfie in the gym changing room? I never take pictures of myself

Not really happy with it but I guess I'm less unhappy with my appearance than I usually am? I liked my outfit and I looked alright I guess? Idk

I feel like I'm making a lot of progress, but in a way that just makes me more acutely aware of the things about myself I hate and can't really do anything to change

I dunno, big bittersweet feels today

Beats being severely depressed but I've been pretty bummed out lately thinking about how elated I'd be to have just a pretty mundane neurotypical cishet person's unremarkable suburban life instead of (gestures at self) this

I wish I was as self aware and determined as I am now like 14 years ago

I've wasted so much of my life just being depressed and have so little to show for it

Now that I'm doing better, it just makes me angry at myself and shitty circumstances I had to deal with for leaving me with such a deep hole to try to climb out of

Idk I'm exhausted and really, really lonely and I feel like I've missed a ton of windows for lives I could have led that would've left me a lot happier with myself than where I am now

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[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 18 points 3 days ago (5 children)

i'm so fucking tired of being single but i have no idea how to manage the dreaded dating apps as a trans girl. anyone got any good apps/online dating tips for a bi trans girl unsure about what gender she feels like dating more?

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[โ€“] LeylaLove@hexbear.net 24 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Finally sharing about that hitler-detector experience I had at work yesterday,

CW: Nuclear transphobia, dysphoria (dysphoria isn't the main focus, but this situation has made dysphoria manifest)

So I got asked to stop using the women's restroom at work yesterday. This is already transphobic, but with where I live I was expecting this honestly. I'm also not very far in my transition so wearing typical work clothes just makes me look like a dude with long hair. Really getting depressed by those twink death memes I've seen rn because I was so much cuter when I came out.

Anyways, the point where it goes from uncomfortable but bearable to pissing me off to the absolute extreme is when the manager said "We have minors that work here so we have certain liabilities". I straight up responded saying "You just implied that I'm a threat around minors and I don't appreciate that". Instantly backpedaled and gave all the normal lib platitudes. I'm still fucking pissed, because why else mention the minors in that conversation? Unless you think I'm unsafe around minors, you wouldn't mention minors. I don't even work with the minors of the restaurant, they're all in school while I work the mornings on mostly weekdays.

I also know that certain staff don't like me now based off this, because it was some staff complaining. I'm gonna start being the person I want to be at work, and I'll just fucking deal with it. I'm going to lose my shit at these people next time they're blocking my station doing jack shit because I know it was them. They won't even look at me. I was super nice this whole time, but I'm done being nice to people that secretly hate me all while depending on my labor.

[โ€“] Thallo@hexbear.net 18 points 3 days ago

spoiler

"We have minors that work here so we have certain liabilities".

Death to cis

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[โ€“] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 13 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Went to buy dresses finally and all the sizes are either one too small or one too big :( like the store I'm shopping at for some reason only has sizes randomly. Like they will have a small, medium, and xxl as the only sizes available. Gonna check hoy topic instead of this tiny alt/both store to see if they have more stock on my size

[โ€“] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 10 points 3 days ago

Try thrift stores and vintage shops if there are any in your area

CW: Family, transphobiaWell, my (transphobe) sister got in a car accident today. She's okay. It was a low velocity collision and she was rear-ended. She was able to get home okay. I took her out for dinner after she was done talking to insurance.

It sucks, because she complemented my skin/face, and even offered to do a "curly girl" hairstyle for me. I'm not out to anyone in the family, and it kinda hurts as I think she would 180 on all that if I came out.

Since she's a bit rattled, she's going to be staying in town for Thanksgiving. I was also staying in town due to work. I wanted to be nice, so I offered to do Thanksgiving with her. At least we're doing it at her place this year, so I don't have to stash anything.

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