Miss Murderface
Melbourne
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β€οΈ the white bits!
Cat - You smell bad.
"These are my pegs and I have claws so they're not your pegs".
So the rash is subsiding through my using cortisone cream and calmoseptineπ My test results are in, so I can see my doctor on Thursday πOne of my kids are going to school today π Mr P has an appointment at Peter Mac, so I have to pick her up from school.
It's all coming up PeelerSheila!!! ππΌπ
Fuck yessssss!!!!
Good news. π
My sister's asked me to help her move some stuff out of her storage unit and I'm happy to help and I will shut up and do as I'm told and i will not lose my temper and throw something at her and I will not question her even though she does things the wrong way and I will pray.
When I was helping my bro and SIL move their shit recently they did fuck all and I'm still bitter. They didn't even prepare things for moving. I rocked up to a complete mess and was expected to both organise their shit and move it.
They just stood around watching. When I was carrying their (heavy) chair from the truck, bro said "oh can you just put it in the lounge room" which was the straw that broke the camel's back. The audacity. I said fuck off. That felt good.
You should've thrown a "What's wrong with your fucking legs?".
My biggest fear is we will get half way through moving boxes for her to decide maybe they should've gone on the otherside.
I'm also gonna hear a lot of "this is what I want" with unnecessary explanations. As my husband says " just shut up and deliver the baby".
βWhatβs wrong with you~~r fucking legs~~?β
:)
Send them an invoice - at $100 per hour minimum. Plus travel costs. Add danger money if they get rude.
I used to be a removalist.
I feel your pain lol
Lol just woke up from a stupid nightmare in which my LL sent me a message on reddit and she was dumb enough to have not used a burner account; she was saying all kinds of horrible things about me on landlord subs (with people goading her on) but also complaining about burnout and her partner stressing her out. I started screenshotting everything but the anxiety eventually woke me up. I really can't wait to put her in the past (and someday put all landlords in the past...)
Things I'm particularly grateful for today:
- a job where I feel safe and supported, wanted and not alone
- a good friend I could call and mutually share what's troubling us, someone who totally understands anxiety and is honest and genuinely shows up when asked
- having the motivation to cook from scratch and relieve some of the bodily anxiety
Yep, it's another big batch of Hoppin' John tonight, healthy, cheap and delicious. I'm going to eat dinner in bed now with the OMITB finale on. I'm going to be OK...
Pumpkins are carved. Hopefully they last till Thursday cause we've got no time to do them between now and then.
Friendly reminder if you already put the kettle on: Dont forget to pour your tea/take the teabag out/leave the tea on the bench.
Also- remember to drink the tea.
New workplace takes absences seriously. Needed med cert for my single day off (needed for one day off if absence is Monday or Friday). Also had a "RTW" chat with manager who asked why I was off, am I okay now, any ongoing issue, anything they can do to help, etc. Quite invasive and definitely serves to dissuade me from future sick leave where it's not absolutely needed - which I suppose is why they do it.
Ayup. Welcome to the wonderful world of corporate 'care'. Jobs not done till the paperwork has been filed.
Do you have a workplace agreement or something in place that details exactly what you need to do and when if you need a sick day or carer's leave?
While this isn't quite the same my workplace is majority female. I once told a story that when a manager here was being quite full on with asking why someone was away they got a detailed recount of the menstrual cycle and their period.
That manager stopped asking people why they were off sick.
It's even more fun trying to communicate the full breadth of menopause to a 30 something male manager.
In our latest EBA they asked for menopause leave, government said no π.
comPOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOST
giant bed dug out, time to fill it with rotting veggies and compost soil and half rotted wood and old shredded mulch and worms hit and chicken poop and humus plus and all sorts of wonderful things so I can stuff my banananananna plant in
If my sister can grow banananananas in Jacana, then you can too where you are. Hers even ripened and were edible if not quite as good as Qld ones. That was last summer, which wasn't ideal weatherwise. Best of fortune for your banananananas.
I want to go to bed, put the doona over my head and pretend I'm somewhere else
I actually did that yesterday (WFH). Told them I'm taking an hour for lunch (I worked back), put my headphones on with some trippy lofi and a blanket over me and a towel over my eyes and just disappeared for a bit. It did help. Hope you get to burrito yourself soon
You ok man?
Thanks for checking :) Just a shit day all round. It's OK, it's over now.
I fall in love with every broken hearted,
Black-haired singer, poet, artist,
I'll never be the muse that inspires that rush,
Of a cascading all-consuming star crossed crush,
I'll just remain a stereotypical poetic trope;
A smoker, a toker, a poet without hope.
This is rather good. So much so, that I googled it looking for what these lyrics were from. Since I couldn't place the song.
Colour me impressed:
No results found for "i'll never be the muse that inspires that rush".
Good night everyone. Think a happy thought when you close your eyes and have sweet dreams π
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Bath, cat brushies, some music and bed.
Goodnight everyone, and here's to a better day tomorrow β€οΈ
Today was one of those "if everyone is an asshole, you're the asshole" kind of days.
I'm glad I realised.
I keep listening to podcasts to help me fall asleep. Then I wake up in the middle of the night with an earbud either in my ear or underneath me. Good times!
I had a nice morning getting some weeding done in the front yard - having the cloud cover and not having to work in full sun was definitely nice.
I have quite a few patches of self-seeded poppies coming up which is nice, they have been flowering solidly for months and the red works really well with the primarily blue/purple flowers I have in the garden. They work particulalry well with a volunteer borage that is in full flower at the moment too.
HD aint shit these days. Everyone wants 4k!
Congrats though.
pfft 4K. gimme 8 or gimme death.
and thank you :)
Cut lots of hair off, hair springs up and is curly and unruly again , argh . Still better than it was tho.
also, it was the gummy vitamins that were def making me feel weird and tingly, they are loaded with sulfites π
New glasses day. It will be nice to not have a perpetual headache!
Housework fretting
Inspection in a few daysβ¦ And because I didnβt see the letter quick enough and have stuff going on I have less time and will be doing it all myself.
Iβll manage. Do what I can.
[snipped out irrelevant stuff]
On the ride home on Sunday we also saw an echidna. It was climbing into a flower bed next to the footpath, not even anywhere native looking. Another bonus for bike commuting
Valaris 107 is already leaving the bay, I wish I hadnβt come into the office for this afternoon. I find them so fascinating (on a purely what the fuck can humans build?! kinda way) and always want to get as close as I can, but itβs a bit difficult. I figured watching it go through the heads would be the best way.