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(i ripped this off wikipedia real fast so sorry if it's lib)

In October 1776, the Public Universal Friend contracted an epidemic disease and was bedridden and near death with a high fever. Their family summoned a doctor from Attleboro, six miles away, and neighbors kept up a death-watch at night. The fever broke after several days. The Friend later reported that [deadname redacted] had died, receiving revelations from God through two archangels who proclaimed there was "Room, Room, Room, in the many Mansions of eternal glory for Thee and for everyone". The Friend further said that [deadname redacted]'s soul had ascended to heaven and the body had been reanimated with a new spirit charged by God with preaching his word, that of the "Publick Universal Friend", describing that name in the words of Isaiah 62:2 as "a new name which the mouth of the Lord hath named".

From that time on, the Friend refused to answer to their deadname, ignoring or chastising those who insisted on using it. When visitors asked if it was the name of the person they were addressing, the Friend simply quoted Luke 23:3 ("thou sayest it").β€Š Identifying as neither male nor female, the Friend asked not to be referred to with gendered pronouns. Followers respected these wishes; they referred only to "the Public Universal Friend" or short forms such as "the Friend" or "P.U.F.", and many avoided gender-specific pronouns even in private diaries. When someone asked if the Friend was male or female, the preacher replied "I am that I am", saying the same thing to a man who criticized the Friend's manner of dress (adding, in the latter case, "there is nothing indecent or improper in my dress or appearance; I am not accountable to mortals").

editorial note: I think this is a very cool story and I really love hearing it. We've been around forever and we've been doing variations of this forever. It's really beautiful


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[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (2 children)

it was really foggy this morning, and my wife sent me a bunch of pictures of the thick fog from her commute making London look like fucking Silent Hill. fog is cool

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[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (6 children)
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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (4 children)

I like to lick up individual popcorns with my tongue doggirl-smug

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Ugh, pushed myself too hard too soon yesterday postop and paying for it today. omori-miserable

A lot of my people are going thru shit rn, and I want to be there for them when they reach out, but I really feel like I can’t at the moment. blob-on-fire

Ugh, gonna try and go back to sleep.

[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (21 children)

What is happening today in gender, ya’ll? leslie-feinberg

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (9 children)

idk what I am gonna do with my surplus of estrogen pills when I leave.doggirl-sweat

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (3 children)

This gender incongruence thing sucks.

Who invented this shit? Why do I keep drinking it??

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[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

working on american cars is the worst. you chose imperial so stick with it. dont fucking use both metric and imperial in the same fucking car ugh

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[–] naom3@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago

I feel like I’ve won the lottery with my current schoolwork becoming one of my hyperfixations because I don’t know how I’d be able to sustain this level of work otherwise. Caught between trying to ride this wave for all it’s worth and pacing myself so I don’t get burnt out

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (4 children)

I'm shopping for gender affirming clothes tomorrow 😳 . Going with a friend. Ughghgh I can't wait

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I feel so wide all the time, but I think everyone might just be wider than I think and I have BDD doggirl-gloom

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[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

cw: angry (but important) dysphoria rant thing, kink (but not kink actually) talk, transphobiaplease dont call therian identity "a kink" like seriously wtf,,,,, das not okay

please actually educate yourself on stuff and dont decide what is a kink for someone else (das pretty weird)

just because you think something is a kink doesnt mean it is to everyone, and that honestly sounds a lot like transphobic rhetoric "oh its just a kink" like no

going to maul the next person who calls it a kink *grrrrrrrr*

(this is not to say it or at least stuff adjacent to it cant be a kink, or that you cant be therian and have a petplay kink of somekind, but that you shouldnt just assume)

edit: also this mightve been a slight overreaction to a comment we misinterpreted but we are gonna keep it up anyway because we wanted to say this and its important!!!

edit2: also dont call therian identity just being a furry either, also not the same thing, at all

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[–] DeathToBritain@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (4 children)

my wife has never seen shrek and I still can't get over it. no, she does not want to watch it

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago

health and academics ventingi feel like i don't really have much of a choice but to withdraw from one of my classes due to my health issues, which will place me on their version of an academic warning. it's incredibly frustrating because i was working hard at all my classes and i feel like i'm just getting punished by my school for things that were completely out of my control.

[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (7 children)

I wish Comrade Cromalin was still posting with us. see-you-space-cowboy

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

No work, it's cold and grey outside and i'm huddling under a blanket with my shark reading a fantasy book blahaj top tier day so far

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (2 children)

mental health, it's fine now but aaaaaaAlmost had a little meltdown because this

lil' stinker found a cardboard box in my closet to hide in and then fell asleep and couldn't hear me looking for him everywhere thinking that he got out somehow and ran awayboohoo

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πŸ“¦meow-bug

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (5 children)
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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (4 children)

I wrote all of my emotions out in a clear and concise way over multiple paragraphs following the narrative I intended to explain

that deserves an energy drink imo

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I want a wheelchair so bad but it's probably going to be a while until I can get one...

[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Bought a door-hanging mirror so I could properly evaluate outfits, and the cats are immediately messing with it.

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[–] belligerentkitten@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (10 children)

i'm completely dead and still in shock i think. we spent the entire day bailing water out of our flooding house. this rain was like an order of magnitude worse than anything i've ever seen. the landscape has changed, so much soil eroded. not to mention the new person who is just incredibly toxic.

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (2 children)

hormone updates from ten years in, also dysphoria?I have little tiny black hairs growing on the bottom third of my upper arms now. I do not know how to feel about this, has 12.5mg cyproterone acetate betrayed me? Should I start scarfing 50mg again to try to defeat this probably very natural part of aging???

Beautiful goblin says it's just soft and downy and part of getting older but like, I am comfortable with the body hair I have now. I do not really want more...

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[–] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Who the fuck goes to Japan and buys shit from H&M? Brand brain must be destroyed

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago (2 children)

damn. i regret my choice of girl name today after realizing i could have named myself Ligma

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