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Do you have a criteria for what qualifies as block-worthy offence or are you just doing it when you feel like it?

Bonus question: how long is your block list?

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[–] thelsim@sh.itjust.works 4 points 3 hours ago

I’m blocking a couple of bots but no actual people.
Though I guess I would block someone if they were being persistently trying to harass me. I can take offensive internet behavior, but not if you’re coming after me as a person.

[–] sik0fewl@lemmy.ca 3 points 4 hours ago

I would rather block every shitty post or comment I see. So based on post and not person.

[–] Microplasticbrain@lemm.ee 3 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I once blocked someone who gave me unsolicited advice on how to cook a chicken.

[–] ContrarianTrail@lemm.ee 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I like to put some soy sauce and lemon juice on mine and let them sit for a while after frying

[–] Microplasticbrain@lemm.ee 4 points 4 hours ago

Looks like you're bok bok blocked 😎

[–] Noodle07@lemmy.world 2 points 4 hours ago

It's for the church baby, blocked!

[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 5 points 10 hours ago

I haven’t yet blocked anyone.

My opinions are formed by choosing the things that survive the gauntlet of disagreement, so that’s one “reason” down. And I haven’t yet encountered anyone who has any other way of hurting me with words, so I haven’t needed to block anyone.

I guess there’s mentioning poop while I’m eating, but those people tend to be family and I can’t block them.

[–] Professorozone@lemmy.world 3 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

You can block people? Well that changes things.

[–] Draconic_NEO@lemmy.world 2 points 7 hours ago

Heads up, Lemmy's block system is more like muting. I wouldn't really recommend it's use non-discriminately. This is because blocking simply hides users it doesn't prevent interaction on posts or comments, it doesn't deal with them if they are actually problematic users.

So if you see people being trolls, harassing others, or making bad faith arguments I highly recommend reporting them, as it can be helpful to alert admins and moderators of bad people and take care of them.

[–] Draconic_NEO@lemmy.world 3 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

I don't on Lemmy because it doesn't really do anything besides hiding their posts. On Mastodon I block people who are AI trolls, political trolls, reactionaries, and in general people who are hostile. People who are objectively horrible people, sometimes it's because I see them doing it, but other times because they lashed out directly at me. Most blocks on Mastodon are preceded by reports to server admins but I still block them because it usually takes time for people to be moderated.

[–] ContrarianTrail@lemm.ee 1 points 5 hours ago

it doesn’t really do anything besides hiding their posts.

That's what I need it to do. Out of my sight. Doesn't matter if they can still see my posts. I hope they write me a lot of long and nasty messages that I never see.

[–] dalekcaan@lemm.ee 6 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (1 children)

I haven't blocked anyone individually, but I found blocking hexbear and lemmygrad made an immediate vast improvement.

[–] SynopsisTantilize@lemm.ee 1 points 4 hours ago

Is kemmygrad a problem? I've had my fair share of reasons to block hexbear

[–] Snowpix@lemmy.ca 7 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

I usually tag problematic users (usually those who constantly discuss in bad faith, are needlessly hostile or rude towards other users, or push dis/misinformation and propaganda) so I know who are repeat offenders with consistent bad behaviour, but I rarely block people unless it's very clear that they have no interest in participating in good faith or are so irritating that I can't deal with them anymore. A lot of problematic users still have valuable things to say and I'd rather not make my feed an echo chamber, even if those people often piss me off with their nonsense. But with some of them it sure is tempting.

[–] OutrageousUmpire@lemmy.world 1 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Disagreeing with me in a comment.

[–] grozzle@lemm.ee 1 points 3 hours ago

No, that's not why.

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 2 points 12 hours ago

I block people when I see the porn posts from the same account like every one or two posts in new.

I don't why lemmy.world has so much porn

[–] Anticorp@lemmy.world 7 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

People that are needlessly hostile, and persistent on continuing their hostility get blocked. I've only needed to do that 1 or 2 times on Lemmy since I already blocked the most overtly hostile instances.

[–] Draconic_NEO@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago

I wish that more people would report the users who behave like this, that type of behavior is against many Community rules and also many instance rules.

In my opinion I'd rather report people than block them since when they get banned they get banned for everyone. Blocking is like pretending to ban them while letting them run wild, it's a great idea for places like Nostr but it's not a great idea for Lemmy since the whole idea of fediverse is interconnection with moderation.

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 2 points 16 hours ago

Same. I probably won’t even notice if I keep running into them making the place toxic, but if they just want to argue or be offensive and won’t stop, yeah I’ve blocked a couple

[–] i_dont_want_to@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

My block list has I think 7 people on it. I only block if someone makes my Lemmy experience worse any time I see something from them. Disagreement I am fine with. It's healthy to see other viewpoints, even if I don't agree. (Or if it's an issue of morality, like not viewing minorities as people, a grim reminder that people think like that. Fortunately by the time I see those, someone else has replied on the matter.) Being inflammatory and adding no value to any discussions is what gets you blocked for me. I know I have blocked several spammers, but it appears that their accounts got deleted.

I have blocked many communities though. It's mostly porn. Furry porn, not for me. Anime porn where the subjects look too young... Just don't want to see that. Porn that just isn't my taste. I would just block NSFW but there is some NSFW that isn't necessarily porn that I want to see. (Ex: frank discussions about anatomy)The stuff that isn't porn is just communities that are inflammatory echo chambers.

I browse all because I don't have many subscriptions that are active, so that is why I have so many communities blocked.

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[–] otherbarry@lemmy.zip 3 points 16 hours ago

I rarely block people. I find it better just to leave Lemmy communities with problematic/annoying users.. lemmy.world communities are the worst in that sense.

e.g. it might be me commenting in a non-political community about something random and then people jumping in and politicizing the thread and/or anything I wrote there. If I wanted to talk politics I'd join a politics sub, dealing with people that turn each and every post into something political gets old fast. And if the community moderators aren't interested in moderating that shit then what's the point sticking around in that community? So rather than block people I just leave those communities entirely & move on.

[–] Roflmasterbigpimp@lemmy.world 23 points 1 day ago

Tankies go straight to the Shadow Realm

[–] MagicShel@programming.dev 10 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

I have 85 people blocked. Most of them for spamming, probably. The rest for harshing my mellow by aggressively being assholes to others or just because I've realized my personal experience is more pleasant with their absence.

I don't owe my attention to anyone. I see lots of comments here about refusing to censor alternate points of view, but that's not it. I can enjoy healthy disagreement, but some folks make some agenda their entire identity and I just get tired of them constantly injecting it into every conversation.

On the other hand there've been many people I've disagreed with, engaged with, found some common ground, and continue to enjoy their presence even knowing we don't see eye to eye. Or, if they post about other things, I just ignore the rants I disagree with. It's not filtering out points of view, it's filtering out people whose presence makes Lemmy a source of stress rather than an interesting, vibrant community. That's obviously very subjective, but it's my block list and my peace of mind.

[–] Snowpix@lemmy.ca 5 points 16 hours ago

The people who constantly post about Gaza in every single thread are the worst in this regard. While yes, the genocide isn't okay and it should be discussed, there's a time and place and it doesn't need to be brought up everywhere in every discussion. Many of them are needlessly hostile when this is brought up to them and you just get labeled a genocide supporter. Sometimes I just want to scroll and read threads without hearing about children dying all the time. Gaza is their entire personality and it seems like nothing else matters to them in their lives.

[–] TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world 7 points 22 hours ago

Blocked bots or blatant ads

[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 16 points 1 day ago (7 children)

I block assholes. It drives me up the wall when someone is disrespectful for no reason. I also dislike those who get unnecessarily aggressive on the first message because the previous comment doesn't align with their views. I'll usually set a boundary and let people correct their attitude. After that, I'll block.

I'm also considering blocking those who make a hobby of subverting the previous comment by twisting people's words and overloading them with something the person did not mean to say, but those are trickier.

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[–] VinesNFluff@pawb.social 5 points 21 hours ago

Annoying me

If it sounds subjective as shit, that's because it is. It follows my vibe for that day.

[–] carl_dungeon@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

Posting/commenting right wing garbage or tankie “North Korea is a great place” bullshit. Also flat earther crap. Pretty much any insane, out of touch with reality stuff.

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