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[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 15 points 4 months ago

I successfully peed in the woods like a girl bridget-vibe

[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 14 points 4 months ago (1 children)

i love hats, but i hate shopping for them boohoo "fits most" OH YEAH WELL MY HEAD IS FREAKISHLY LARGE oooaaaaaaauhhh

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 14 points 4 months ago

Okay so the Ada Rook game is like this and it fucks tbh. Ooooof that feels good, I would read a fucking novel if she wrote one tbh.

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 14 points 4 months ago

Decided to buy a new foil head for my electric razor to use for my private area.
It seems to work pretty good.


I am gonna save so much money on razors.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 14 points 4 months ago (4 children)

whiningWaaah I'm so burned out and emotionally desolate late at night! I need to lean on my wife like a crying child and put on the Tactics Ogre ost for comfort! Weh witness how hard my life is! Etc

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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 14 points 4 months ago (5 children)

alcoholi had a drink again... woke up with 60% of a footlong sandwich on my desk. it's been out for like 6 hours and i don't care

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[–] IzyaKatzmann@hexbear.net 14 points 4 months ago

Keep winning comrades, news mega ain't got nothing on y'all

[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 14 points 4 months ago (1 children)

thinking of buying some swimwear lea-breakdown

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[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 14 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Watching an anti-transmed vid and then getting recced β€œneopronoun cringe” stuff.

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[–] magic_smoke@links.hackliberty.org 14 points 4 months ago (23 children)

cw:PISS

Is it weird that I still stand to pee? Like sitting is nice and all, but its just so damn convenient. Also I'm still boymoding, so its not like I'm pulling that shit in the ladies room.

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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 14 points 4 months ago (3 children)

this game called me a zionist, meow-tableflip and then after I did some cool things it starting to call me a commie meow-tankie

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[–] SnowySkyes@hexbear.net 14 points 4 months ago

Just had the final all hands on board before the convention next week as I'm staffing it. Asked about COVID once and got ignored. Asked a second time and had the con president answer me. No policies aside from "We recommend and suggest people wear a mask, but we're not going to enforce it" aka we're not doing anything aside from feckless measures that we're not even going to do anything about. Like, I still wanna go cause I wanna be there for my friend, but holy hells what is wrong with people these days? People are just willingly crippling themselves with COVID. Gods.

[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 14 points 4 months ago (27 children)

after this morning, i am reluctantly accepting my current role as the toilet fixing kind of gay woman. i'm taking steps to transition out of this role socially but i don't know where to start

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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 14 points 4 months ago (5 children)
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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 14 points 4 months ago

One of my lower lashes got caught on some leftover eyelash glue and for a moment I thought I had fucking glued my eyes shut kitty-cri-screm

[–] Anvil_Lavigne@hexbear.net 14 points 4 months ago (2 children)

drugs, downstairs stuff

living my best lesbian life in a stone house in the hills of spain. two cats, x-files & a lot of weed. risperidon withdrawal can't keep me down soviet-huff

it's crazy how my cock only actually feels like a part of my body now that i'm transitioning. enjoying every second hehe


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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 14 points 4 months ago

reveling in the weird gender euphoria of the discomfort i get not wearing a bralette while boymoding

[–] Yor@hexbear.net 14 points 4 months ago (6 children)

damn I missed a horny ass night in this thread

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[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 14 points 4 months ago (5 children)

cw: sexthe switchy desire to blindfold someone and pass them around with some real body worship warring with the desire to be the one being passed around aubrey-embarassed

choices choices thinking-about-it

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[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 14 points 4 months ago (6 children)

I wonder if I could get my πŸŽ€ working on a hexbear account πŸ€”

Ah but I like being a hipster too much, I should stick to grad

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[–] Bat@hexbear.net 14 points 4 months ago (3 children)

CW
spoiler suicide mention Getting more side effects from my meds. Last night I almost fainted when laughing and had to lay on the floor for a bit, this morning I got a nose bleed which used to regularly happen to me but hasn't in years. Now I just have this vague sense of unwellness, like something bad is going to happen but I don't know what. On top of all of that I feel like the Wellbutrin is becoming less effective in combating my depression

First I had the whole manic episode, then the sleeping problems, now this. Goddammit I just want to to live life without wanting to blow my brains out. Still dealing with all of this shit is better than being suicidal, I just wish I could be happy without medical intervention

I take fucking 9 pills a day just to make life bearable, this shit sucks :::

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 14 points 4 months ago (5 children)

idk if I am gonna go to the makeup store.
The idea of going by myself feels too daunting, but I can't bring myself to ask anybody to go with me.
Even if I did idk if I'd have enough time to get the hang of it before I have to get my passport picture taken.

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 14 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children)

fashionposting #2 (musings about sewing)idk if this is a common misconception, but before I started to learn how to sew I was under the impression that the actual sewing was the main time-consuming part of the process? but that idea died pretty quickly once I actually started. in reality, making a garment from start to finish is like, 20% sewing At Most and actually mainly about cutting, pinning, and ironing. If trying to self-draft patterns, that's another thing on top of everything else; even if using a ready-made pattern, many people end up having to make adjustments so that the pattern better fits their proportions and their desires.

I'm under no impression that my clothes look "professional", there's still am amateurish quality about them because despite having been at this for about two years, I haven't actually made many full projects during that time (for various reasons β€” mostly I've been preoccupied by other stuff, and I also do a lot of modifying clothing which is very different from making clothing from scratch.) I do think that I'll get a lot better at garment construction the more I do it, but something I think is fun is that with a little bit of "idc what people think" energy even the messy, amateurish results of beginning sewing can be worn out and look cute! I've mentioned this before, but I made a pair of strappy plaid pants and I messed them up a lot, including in some fairly visible ways; but nobody noticed the messy parts, they just saw cool pants and I got a shit ton of compliments on them. I dress for myself and myself alone, so I really don't care that much what other people think of my clothes, which helps me go out in my imperfect pieces with basically zero self-consciousness.

That being said garment construction is an incredible skill, and it boils my blood when people imply that ready-to-wear clothes are put together poorly or without skill or whatever. I do not possess the skills of a seamstress of ready-to-wear clothes, and the vast majority of people doing this kind of complaining don't either. When I see people being snobby and elitist about cheap clothing, implying it all falls apart quickly, I actually want to shake them because like β€” the problem with cheap clothing is not that the clothes are poorly put together, it's the labor exploitation of the incredibly skilled garment workers, many of whom are located in the global south.

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[–] Wake@hexbear.net 14 points 4 months ago (2 children)

So I ordered a new shirt and I absolutely love it. At first I was worried about it because it's tight and usually I would be mortified at the idea of wearing tight fitting clothes. But then I decided to try it as part of an outfit and it turns out that I looooove it. It's also a kind of shirt that I would have never worn. It's a woman's (duh) "muscle tee" that shows off a fair bit of side boob. It says "Born to dilly dally, forced to pick up the pace ". I tried it out with one of my favorite hippie skirts, and I think it looks so cute as an outfit.

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