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[–] magic_smoke@links.hackliberty.org 14 points 4 months ago (11 children)

cw:PISS

Is it weird that I still stand to pee? Like sitting is nice and all, but its just so damn convenient. Also I'm still boymoding, so its not like I'm pulling that shit in the ladies room.

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 12 points 4 months ago (1 children)

spoilerNot weird imo, I've heard multiple cis women say they wish they could sometimes going camping or if a public restroom is gross

If I were rich and owned my own house I'd probably get a really girly looking urinal for my bathroom with like, rose gold plated fixtures in it as a bit and tell any guys that came over that they aren't allowed to use it because it's a ladies' urinal sicko-fem

[–] magic_smoke@links.hackliberty.org 6 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

spoila

Ladies urinal! <3

Gotta get some sort of projector so there's always a rainbow in the waterfall of the flush.

[–] Bat@hexbear.net 8 points 4 months ago (1 children)

spoilerI can't do it, it gives me too much dysphoria to do so I just sit. Plus it's been so long idk if I could without getting piss on myself and that's not something I'm going to test

[–] magic_smoke@links.hackliberty.org 6 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

spoila

I'll admit it does feel nice to sit. Especially right after shaving my legs :p

[–] magi@hexbear.net 8 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

not weirdNot weird, everyone can do what they want. You do you and all that c:

I've always sat to pee

What is weird is that it is a societal behaviour that is taught specifically to boys. I've heard of children being stigmatised for sitting to pee. Why have urinals when you could just make more cubicals.

Standing while urinating doesn’t allow your pelvic floor to relax and does not fully relieve the bladder. This can lead to issues later in life. Peeing sitting down ia also faster.

[–] magic_smoke@links.hackliberty.org 6 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children)

spoila

Didn't know sitting was actually healthier. Neat! BTW, since I'm new to skirts, is it normal to pull it up around your waist or drop it like pants?

I figure really tight skirts you probably have to drop, but flowy ones?

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 8 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Please refer to this infographic! power-genius

[–] magic_smoke@links.hackliberty.org 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Unrelated but I love the pink hair with the heart clip. I want hair clips now :p

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[–] magi@hexbear.net 5 points 4 months ago

It depends on lengrh, if its a short skirt you can pull it up, longer I would drop. It can really depend on the style.

I frequently do. Tis convenient if you have clothes that make it more convenient. Urinals are less convenient when you aren't wearing underwear that make it convenient.

[–] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 7 points 4 months ago

spoiler

Standing up to piss in a bathroom is wrong, but a woman standing up to piss is no more wrong than a man standing up to piss. power-genius

[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 7 points 4 months ago

I don’t even stand in the woods at this point lol, but respect.

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 7 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I personally hate doing it, maybe a sign of not having much bottom dysphoria? Maybe something to explore

spoila

Yeah my junk doesn't really bug me. Certainly not enough to go through the pain and trouble of bottom surgery. Maybe if we ever got to the point where I could hot-swap my genitals at-will like a drill attatchment, maybe then.

[–] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

yeah I do it all the time. doesn't give me dysphoria and it's more convenient, also find touching toilets gross especially public ones

[–] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 5 points 4 months ago

I feel contaminated by so many things, but for some reason not that.

[–] naom3@hexbear.net 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I usually stand just cause it’s more convenient. Weirdly enough though, I almost never use urinals, it’s just too uncomfortable knowing people can see me

[–] magic_smoke@links.hackliberty.org 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

As a boymoder I do it because its what I've always done.

As a woman, I hope to one day to it to strike fear into the cishets around me.