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[–] MargotRobbie@lemmy.world 26 points 1 year ago (5 children)

If this backlash kills off tipping in America forever, good.

Employers should be paying their employee a living wage anyways, instead of shifting the responsibility to the customers.

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[–] fubo@lemmy.world 20 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Where I live, there are plenty of restaurants with tipflation.

And then there are the worker-owned pizza joint and coffee shop, which do not even have a tip jar on the counter. They don't ask for — or make room for — tips. They pay their worker-owners well enough that they don't have to beg.

That's what tipping culture is. It's putting the worker in the position of begging from the customer instead of being assured a fair wage by the employer. And now, the management even wants to tax the receipts of this mandatory panhandling.

Now, I understand that authoritarians love this. When I was a kid, I was explicitly told that tips were necessary; otherwise the waiter might spit in your food. That is, as a child of the professional class, I was instructed that service workers must be appeased with donations to keep them from committing crimes against us.

Yeah. That's pretty messed up.

But the worker-owned venues make it clear: the restaurant doesn't need tips to attract capable & honest workers; they just need to give a fair deal.

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[–] KuroJ@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I’m American but lived in Japan for a couple of years. I was so shocked by the amazing customer service the Japanese workers gave me but never asked or expected a tip.

I was so confused coming back here and seeing all of stores implementing an option to tip and I’m trying to figure out… for what? Most of the workers hardly acknowledge me when I’m there and it feels as if I’m bothering them coming to order something, and then they turn the iPad around asking for a tip.

This honestly needs to stop.

[–] Naryn@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I was so shocked by the amazing customer service the Japanese workers gave me but never asked or expected a tip.

That's how the entire world works outside of NA.

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[–] Protegee9850@lemmy.world 15 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Yet another thing that has been eye opening about living in Europe is how fucked and terrible tipping is in the states. Twenty percent AS A MINIMUM? When I’m picking up food at the counter??? AYFKM?

[–] C3ltic@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

If a business can't afford to pay its workers a living wage that business should not exist. If we all stopped going to these places they'll be forced to fix it.

But Reddit Vs Lemmy is like a microcosm of this issue. Most people will stay on Reddit because god forbid they get inconvenienced or have to do something differently.

The same way people won't leave twitter, won't stop getting food at McDonalds or shopping at Wal-Mart, etc...

[–] jonne@infosec.pub 4 points 1 year ago

Not to mention, you can't have a percentage go up and blame it on inflation.

[–] AnotherPerson@lemmy.world 15 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I just wish jobs payed livable wages.

[–] kat@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I had no idea until recently that coffee shops are allowed to pay tipped wages instead of regular minimum wage. Right now, I am reading up on my state (Florida)'s minimum wage laws, and apparently any employee who receives tips can be considered a tipped employee, meaning if your workplace has a square POS, congrats, they are allowed to pay you $5.44/hr! The tip credit explanation is also absolutely blowing my mind with a combination of confusion and corporate greed. The fact that there is an under-20 minimum wage of $4.25/hr is absolutely mind-boggling. I could MAYBE understand this for people under 18, but people from 18-20 are adults and plenty of them have already moved out of their parents' homes. How is this okay?!?

[–] AnotherPerson@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

In some places it's $2.13/hr. It's not ok. It's never been ok. We need to change.

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[–] guyman@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago

I don't support tipping culture.

[–] ghost_of_snowflake@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I just don't like tipping as an expectation. If you genuinely want to tip, you'll know and you won't need to be asked. There's nothing wrong with the idea of giving someone a tenner if they go out of their way for you, but being guilted into making a voluntary donation because someone did their job is an example of completely losing the plot. Of course tipped minimum wage shouldn't be lower either.

I also don't like the recent trend of being asked to tip before even receiving the service. Uhh... I dunno how much to tip you, you haven't done anything yet. In the context of delivery apps, it also incentivizes blackmail.

Last thing I'll point out - tipping is associated with racial and sex-based discrimination, and managers often pocket tips even though it's technically illegal in most places. So even if you don't mind it for any other reason, that alone should be enough to discourage it.

[–] dystop@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I also don’t like the recent trend of being asked to tip before even receiving the service. Uhh… I dunno how much to tip you, you haven’t done anything yet. In the context of delivery apps, it also incentivizes blackmail.

Yeah that's not a tip, that's straight up bribery. Fuck doordash.

[–] ghost_of_snowflake@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Fuck doordash for so many reasons outside of that, but yeah, fuck doordash.

It's worth noting for anyone who does tip on delivery apps - don't. Part of your tip is a direct donation to DD. They're not technically lying when they say it "goes to the driver", but they can sure as hell lower base pay accordingly. If you can't fight the urge to tip, then tip cash.

[–] Th4tGuyII@kbin.social 12 points 1 year ago

The other day I went to a pub, and the machine at checkout suggested a 10%. You mean you expect me to tip 10% to this person whose contribution to my life was literally just putting my glass to a tap, pulling on the lever, then putting the price into the machine??

How about instead you just pay the person a proper wage to do that alongside all the other non-customer facing stuff they already have to do instead of making us top-up their wages.

Tipping culture was meant to be a bonus for exceptional service, not an expectation for all bloody services!

[–] Zebov@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I don't really think it's caused backlash in me - just the ending of feeling bad for not tipping. Do I want to tip for you handing me something? Do I want to tip for self checkout? Do I want to tip for you checking me out?

You make a normal wage and haven't done anything outside of the norm. Why on earth do you deserve a tip?

Pretty soon there's going to be tip options on the self checkouts.

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[–] onionbaggage@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

I'll tip for sit down service or delivery.... Anything else you can fuck right off.

[–] AlexanderTheGreat@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago (3 children)

It always amazes me that that tipping is still a thing. If your business can't survive paying a proper wage to your employees without the need for supplemental income from the customer your business isn't meant to survive. Isn't that the capitalism they're always on about?

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[–] lp0101@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

May be? I was at a sandwich place here that had the minimum tip option at 18%.

It's getting fucking stupid

[–] RuckusTraveler@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] darkangelazuarl@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (2 children)

My general guide for tipping

  1. traditional service industry where their employer pays them $2/hr. YES, but I wish your employer would just pay you. I'm still tipping not going to punish their employer for that but seriously try not to even go to these places anymore.
  2. Other traditional services industries, barbor, nail salon,etc. Yes as appreciation. They personally took care of me so yeah.
  3. Baristas, it any other ipad station. NO. They are paid a standard wage. I might drop my change in a tip jar every now and then when paying cash but that's it.
  4. Food trucks and other independently owned stores. Generally No. Food trucks are independently owned and not service industry. If they need more money charge more for the food.
[–] TurboDiesel@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

charge more for the food

Yes! Just do this! I promise you seeing more expensive prices on the menu will annoy me FAR less than getting the check and seeing a surprise 18% "service fee."

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[–] misterchief117@kbin.social 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm curious how many of these POS (Point-of-Sale, not Piece of Shit) systems have the default settings to ask for tips. If so, I wonder how many of these places are committing wage theft by not actually paying tips out to the employees.

[–] Trebach@kbin.social 8 points 1 year ago

Given their reliability, both are accurate.

[–] LetMeEatCake@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm fine with tipping in the places where it's already expected. Wait staff and delivery and such. There those people live on the tips being given. Yeah the system is shit and we should pay them appropriately from the start, but refusing to tip doesn't fight the system; it just stiffs a worker.

I don't like it when a bakery or ice cream stand sale terminal prompts me to leave a tip. It makes me feel awkward for hitting no, even though not tipping for ice cream has been and still is standard.

[–] dystop@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (4 children)

You gotta learn to get past the guilt. Just hit zero. They're relying on your guilt to extract more money from you.

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[–] hihusio@kbin.social 7 points 1 year ago

if a business cannot pay their workers a living wage without having customers subsidize their wage with tips, then that business shouldn't exist.

[–] FlagonOfMe@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I did takeout at a Dominos the other day, and it took the idiot a full minute to figure out how to bring my order up on the computer. He's tap, tap, tapping away at the computer with no idea what he's doing. Probably high as hell. And then he's like, "It's going to ask you a question", and I was actually angry that it even gave me the option. WTF! And I still felt slightly guilty for hitting "no tip". Fuck tipping!

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[–] omni@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My girlfriend and I went to a retail store one time and at checkout the cashier turned the iPad around and showed us a tip screen……

[–] dystop@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

We need a competition for "most ridiculous place to ask for tips".

[–] omni@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Someone in this thread said that their self-checkout asked for a tip. I don’t know how one could top that!

[–] TurboDiesel@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Airport grab'n'go kiosk, I thought I saw. For that extra spicy fuck you.

[–] teamevil@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

One time at the Starbucks drive thru, waiting several minutes for a cold brew, only a cold brew, I was irritated to see a very obvious tip cup on the drive through. After waiting much longer than it should have taken to pour a cold brew, the guy tried to solicit a tip on my card... seriously....It is absolutely irritating to have them not only provide slow service but then aggressively demand a tip for shitty service. I'll tip when it's appropriate, bartenders, waiters (20+%) and straight food delivery (fuck Uber eats, door dash etc, I won't pay 50.00 for 30.00 in food and then tip, that's stupid, so I don't use it.)

Edit(I don't use the food delivery services, I am not going to stiff their folks delivering food. )

[–] seeCseas@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

Tip culture is ridiculous. Places like self-serve froyo shops shouldn't even have tips as an option. Unless the cashier is helping me make the froyo and holding it for me while I lick it, there's no way to justify tipping.

[–] Nytelock@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Typing culture needs to die. Pay your damn employees a living wage.

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[–] WassupDoc@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

The problem with tipping culture is that it works.

I read an article the other day about airlines moving toward cheaper air fares, but charging more and more fees for basic things that should be part of the air fare. That trend is accelerating because customers reward it, period.

People only look at the base price of things, and shop around the best base price. Mentally, humans are mostly awful at factoring in extras and comparing one place's apples to another place's oranges. The company with the lower base price wins, and shifting prices over toward fees and extras doesn't seem to hurt them as much as just including those costs in the base price does.

Same story with tipping. If a Moe's burrito costs $10 but you're asked to leave a $2 tip, while a Joe's burrito simply costs $12, then I'm pretty sure the average consumer is only going to look at that $10 vs. $12 comparison and favor Moe's. It's dumb. It's awful. We all say on social media and chat forums that we don't think that way. But most of us kinda sorta DO, unfortunately.

The result is that generous people end up accommodating the increased tip culture, while less generous people just stop tipping altogether. So instead of employer paying their workers fairly, and spreading the costs among their customers fairly... we get an awful system where the employers still make the same profit, but the workers and customers are negatively impacted. For the employees, the dignity of honest work erodes, as they shift toward being part worker and part panhandler. For the customers, generosity is punished and a selfish mindset is rewarded. It's an extremely toxic cultural trend, all around.

I don't know what the solutions are. I fear that there really IS no solution other than changes to law and regulation, but our culture is too fragmented and government too broken for that.

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[–] _MoveSwiftly@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Fucking Starbucks is asking for tips.

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[–] 0913@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I went for a beer at a local brewery the other day and their point of sale tips started at 25%. Just to pour beer!

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[–] MargotRobbie@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

If I know owners of a particular restaurant don't take care of their employees or treat them badly, then I probably won't want to eat there anyways.

[–] TPMJB@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Yeah, whenever I see a fast food restaurant ask for tips before I receive my food, I give them nothing. Is this a threat? Will my food have boogers in it if I don't tip?

[–] Matharl@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I still can't understand why americans still tolerate tip culture.

We don't have mandatory tips in Europe and still have people working at McDonald's or similar restaurants : In France, it's even one of the biggest employer of the country.

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[–] queermunist@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

If you don't want to pay a tip, don't do business at a place that underpays their staff.

If you go out to a restaurant and deprive the servers of tips, you aren't hurting the restaurant. If you want to make a principled stance against tipping, then you have to stop giving those businesses your money.

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