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[–] brsrklf@jlai.lu 101 points 5 months ago (4 children)

Obligatory what the fuck is wrong with how the US pays service people.

Tipping is for special appreciation, not basic sustenance.

[–] Etterra@lemmy.world 41 points 5 months ago

We live in hell, that's what.

[–] bionicjoey@lemmy.ca 16 points 5 months ago (2 children)

The US made it legal to pay tipped employees basically no wage (like pennies an hour). Tipping is stupid but if you don't do it the employee is basically unpaid.

I'd split the difference by just paying them based on my estimation of the time and effort they spent. The cost of the thing I bought should have no bearing. This notion that the tip should be 15/18/20% or whatever of your final bill is idiotic.

[–] gamermanh@lemmy.dbzer0.com 20 points 5 months ago (1 children)

The US made it legal to pay tipped employees basically no wage

Not everywhere anymore, California made that shit illegal a year ago and it's fucking great to slap that in the face of every fucking cunt trying to clap me an asshole for not tipping 20% on an $80 bill for someone who couldn't keep my drink filled

[–] bionicjoey@lemmy.ca 10 points 5 months ago

That is awesome. Good job California

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[–] StaticFalconar@lemmy.world 4 points 5 months ago

There's a history lesson filled with sexism and racism there.

[–] Hubi@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

This case is not US specific. In Germany delivery drivers usually get tipped too.

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[–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 55 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

I like how all stores even the shady ones like dollar general now want you to give money to some 'charity' at check out. Like I'm going to help them with some tax dodging scam they are running. I no longer tip anywhere I go. I don't go to the places that force a tip on you.

[–] DaBabyAteMaDingo@lemmy.world 15 points 5 months ago (3 children)

I used to think this way until someone on lemmy told me it wasn't the case. Those donations are nontaxable - it goes directly to those charities.

See for yourself

[–] Kichae@lemmy.ca 17 points 5 months ago

And you don't get the tax receipt for them

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[–] nifty@lemmy.world 12 points 5 months ago

The peer pressure based donation for enabling corporate tax evasion is BS. It should be disallowed because all it’s doing is letting big corps not pay their due taxes

[–] Draegur@lemm.ee 50 points 5 months ago (2 children)

on the one hand, tipping is toxic and enables exploitation
on the other hand, i respect the grind and understand life is hard out there for people just trying to get by

I'll usually tip 20% for delivery drivers because going literal MILES to bring me my food is objectively more daunting than crossing a room.

[–] KISSmyOSFeddit@lemmy.world 13 points 5 months ago (2 children)

I always tip my pizza delivery driver, but he's also the owner of the business and the guy making the pizza, and the pizza is fucking awesome.

[–] Draegur@lemm.ee 4 points 5 months ago (1 children)

local pizza joints are a t r e a s u r e .

My favorite place, i love their pasta dishes even more than their pies. THEY get the big tips!

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[–] FrostyTheDoo@lemmy.world 4 points 5 months ago (1 children)

What does he do when multiple people order for delivery at once?

[–] KISSmyOSFeddit@lemmy.world 6 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

Make as many as'll fit in the oven and then deliver those. He only delivers locally and it usually takes 60 to 90 minutes to arrive, so it's better to pre-order.

[–] FrostyTheDoo@lemmy.world 4 points 5 months ago

Badass, sounds like it's worth the wait

[–] nifty@lemmy.world 5 points 5 months ago

, i respect the grind and understand life is hard out there for people just trying to get by

Exactly, if appropriate I would tip someone even if they’re adequately paid by their employer. Though I think it would make more sense if the minimum wage is raised instead. I also get why some cultures dislike tipping, so I just treat it on a case by case basis

[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 30 points 5 months ago (3 children)

$29.75

10% - Move the decimal. $2.975
Round up - $3.00
Half that for 5% - $1.50
15% - $4.50
Double for 20% - $6.00

[–] callouscomic@lemm.ee 33 points 5 months ago (1 children)
[–] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 5 months ago (1 children)

That's a completely separate situation.

Yes, tipping culture is out of control and needs to be abolished. But screwing over the wait staff or delivery driver currently providing you service will never have any impact on the big wigs that made the decision to play them less than minimum wage.

Why is this so difficult for people?

Pay reasonable tips for reasonable service people paid under minimum wage. Also work with your local politicians to eliminate tipping. Do not withold tips from people working under minimum wage unless you just want to be part of the boot stepping on them.

[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 5 months ago (5 children)

Why is this so difficult for people?

Because, for the people who refuse to "get it," it isn't actually about exploitation or whatever other lip service they give to make themselves seem magnanimous for not tipping, it's about the fact that they don't want to give the delivery driver a penny and have to lie to you and themselves so they think they're good people. They're not, though. If they were they'd see it like you do, they're just selfish and deep down they know it so they concoct their lies to defer blame from their conscience.

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[–] KISSmyOSFeddit@lemmy.world 20 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

Euro version:

service was OK - round up to 30€
service was good - give 2€ extra
service was exceptional - give 5€ extra
(doesn't scale with the price of the food)

Italian version:

Pay exactly €29,75 and guard the receipt with your life, or you're in trouble.

[–] Klear@lemmy.world 7 points 5 months ago

I always saw tipping mostly as a way to avoid dealing with change, so now that I pay with card almost everywhere and change is no longer relevant, I like to round it up to neat numbers like 333 or 456 to make it tiny bit easier to enter on the terminal.

[–] QuarterSwede@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

For me it’s do the 10% quick math then double. I never tip less than 20% even if someone is not great just because people have shit days in customer service (my field). If they’re great I go up from there and leave a nice message of appreciation. They never hear praise enough.

Plus if you end up going back they won’t forget stellar tips and you will get priority/better seating/treated more like a friend which is always nice. Ex. For work we frequent a great local BBQ place that also serves a rotating selection of local brews. One waitress is amazing and always treats us well. Can’t say the good tips we leave are the reason but I’m sure it doesn’t hurt.

[–] HootinNHollerin@lemmy.world 24 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

Fuck people that expect and pressure for tips. It’s literally optional.

Pressure your manager instead

[–] nifty@lemmy.world 4 points 5 months ago (1 children)

In my experience, no one has ever pressured me for a tip. But again, that’s just me so I feel bad if you’ve experienced that

[–] HootinNHollerin@lemmy.world 10 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Countless times. I’ve even had a server ask me for a tip before giving me my food.

[–] ohwhatfollyisman@lemmy.world 15 points 5 months ago (1 children)

why is the customer made the butt of the joke here?

[–] nifty@lemmy.world 30 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (20 children)

Because they took forever to add a $1 tip to the total (as they indicate by saying it takes them a while to do the math)

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[–] Anticorp@lemmy.world 9 points 5 months ago (3 children)

People tip pizza guys a dollar? Man, we were tipping $5 back in the 90's. I tip $10-$12 now. The dude just drove to my house and brought me pizza, he deserves some compensation.

[–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world 17 points 5 months ago (2 children)

compensation... for doing the job he is paid to do... right.

look, if you live at the end of a long shitty dirt road, or maybe the last apartment on the top floor of a 6 story walk up - then they're going above and beyond. Hell yeah, tip more.

Tip to be nice, because times are tough and you have some extra cash.

But don't tip because someone did the bare minimum that they get paid to do anyway.

Don't tip because it's expected. Don't tip if you can't afford it.

you, by simply spending what little you have and can, are helping pay their wage already. You're doing your part. That is: don't feel guilty if you can't or don't tip.

Do feel warm and fuzzy if you can and do tip, though. it's still nice to do :)

[–] Hobbes_Dent@lemmy.world 4 points 5 months ago

Not that I agree with it, but in no time in the 90s did I know of pizza delivery that wasn’t tips-dependent, like restaurants in places. No gas reimbursement or anything at minimum. And this was in Canada where tip culture is dampened compared to the US.

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[–] storcholus@feddit.de 14 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Don't they get paid by the service that decided to be in the food delivery business?

[–] domdanial@reddthat.com 8 points 5 months ago (2 children)

At Domino's about 7 years ago, we got paid minimum wage, plus I think a dollar per delivery item, (multiple houses on some trips when we were busy counted each order) and then tips on top. That per order bonus I think has gone up since then.

They charged the customer a $3.50 delivery fee though.

There was also a class action suit that showed that the per delivery bonus didn't cover the wear and tear and gas for the delivery, and could push the driver under minimum wage if they didn't get tips.

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[–] Anticorp@lemmy.world 5 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

They usually get paid minimum wage, and people delivering pizzas for a living typically don't have a whole lot of choices for what they do to make ends meet.

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[–] nifty@lemmy.world 5 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

Agreed, people got mad at me for suggesting literally the same hah ¯_ (ツ)_/¯

Edit: in their defense, I think they objected more to the idea that a delivery person should avoid anyone who doesn’t tip. I get why they’d feel that way, it’s understandable

[–] Tachikoma741@lemmy.today 2 points 5 months ago

Gotta pay for wear and tear for one's car. It's just a business decision. Nothing personal.

[–] iegod@lemm.ee 3 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Tipping culture aside, how is the US so behind the times on payment systems? Everywhere else you tap on a machine, and if tip is needed you can enter the percent or dollar amount. What is this paper signing bull shit from the 60s?

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