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The dating pool (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 10 months ago by Early_To_Risa@sh.itjust.works to c/4chan@lemmy.world

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[–] jackoneill@lemmy.world 17 points 10 months ago (1 children)

uhhh, yeah, my wife and i try to be the best therapist we can be for each other. not wanting to do that for the person you love seems weird to me.

[–] Keeponstalin@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago

I'm talking about an unhealthy codependency that can happen when someone with a developed fight-response pairs with someone with a developed fawn-response. It sounds like you two have a healthy relationship where you can discuss each other's problems with each other freely. Which is good.

Personally, no I wouldn't expect my partner to unravel my own personal cPTSD for me. I would work on it myself and with a therapist need be. Discussing my progress and thoughts on my own cPTSD and hearing my partner's is a healthy thing to do.