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I don't get some of these comments. You can want to avoid random nudity without bring a prude or jealous.
I'd argue that a LOT of people are not interested in seeing 99.9% of the population naked, and there should be nothing wrong with that. I don't care what they look like. Sometimes people just don't want to look at rectums.
The mindset of "you have to be happy about unexpectedly seeing a stranger naked or you're a prude" also doesn't sit right with me.
I would have just stopped using twitch, personally.
It's the internet post-2014. If you have simply never heard of someone's particular flavour of BDSM kink before, they take it like you're attacking them.
Maybe growing up in a warm, costal area makes it more common, but young women just wear similar outfits to most feminine streamers where I'm from. They usually aren't making a statement about it, it's just hot outside and they don't mind showing off. It's normal.
Some streamers do embody the meme. Some focus cameras on their ass. However, feminine streamers aren't the majority, and most of them aren't even that sexual. On a whole, men have more viewers, with almost every top streamer being male.
Part of why the discourse around sexual streamers seems so prudish is that they don't dominate on twitch. There are a few popular ones, but women don't even dominate the site; there's just more of them than in the past. Most feminine streamers aren't sexual. People see what they want to see.
The only male streamer ever suspended for showing his bare chest was crossdresser. Masculinity is normalized, so femininity is othered.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not about telling other people how to dress or what to wear. Not at all.
To be honest with you, I don't really go on twitch. When I made my comment, I had some of my earlier experiences with lemmy on my mind. I just turned off nsfw in my app settings though.
My main reasoning was so that certain things didn't show up when I was showing something else to family, or if a coworker saw my phone over my shoulder. There are some jobs where you really don't want your boss to see certain things, but most other forms of slacking off are ok.
For me, it wasn't even about anyone's chest. It was not wanting furry porn haha. They really should have thought about this before instating it.
Now people will be upset regardless of what they do.
dude, i'm just saying that there other places for noon-gaming stuff and those people are invading a site that was born for videogames. but then, i'm not using twitch for quite a while now since the homepage was taken over by IRL streams. I just opened twitch.tv (not logged in) a minute ago and in the homepage there's a dude sleeping (with the name of the stream "i'm only sleeping" wtf??), one deejay, someone cooking and a saxophonist...
that's 4 streams out of 8 in the homepage that have nothing to do with gaming.
Non gaming streams have their own categories, and they certainly add value. Everyone loved the Bob Ross stream when it started, but now there's something wrong with cooking or musicians? Some people who come for the sax player might get into games. Twitch has problems, but adding variety to their streaming platform isn't one of them.
There aren't less gamers on twitch because of non gamers. I don't even think game streams have suffered much as a whole.