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[–] powerofm@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 year ago

I definitely agree, but you can use dating apps with the goal of just meeting new people. Reorient a "first date" into a more casual hangout to get to know this new friend and potential partner. I treated dating almost like interviewing and looked for incompatibilities or irreconcilable differences within the first few conversations. Not saying it's easy (and organic meetings are much better), but it can be done.

Source: went on several dates with people through Bumble and Hinge until I found my partner.