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Becoming increasingly nervous about my sister’s wedding.
I thought I’d be happier with where I would be in my transition by the time it arrived, but it’s a month away and I’m just as mentally ill as ever.
Idk what I am going to wear, or how I will possibly show up in girl clothes without feeling like a total joke.
My sister just informed me we are doing some stupid shit with my mom and all our siblings where it’s just us in the middle of the dance floor for like a minute, which just adds to the pressure.
I’m coming to your wedding to be supportive not to perform!
It should be illegal to just include this kind of shit in your wedding without other people’s consent I didn’t sign up for this!
That's so insensitive by your family, no one should be forced to be the center of attention if they don't want to.
Something like formal trousers and a button up can look really cute and feminine with the right cut, but imo feels less intimidating to wear than skirts and blouses when you're with family who aren't that used to you being trans yet, so maybe something like that could be an option?
Between my one cousins wedding and my brothers wedding, I came out. It wasn't as big a deal for them I thought it'd be, cause I had been out. I was a little hurt that my brother didn't include me in the wedding party, but... he had to pick his oldest brother which wasn't me so I took it as him accepting me.