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Welcome to femcel memes. A place where anybody can post memes that fit the vibe.

Warning: We have a tendency to post things that may at times come from a self-deprecating perspective or things that are funny coming from another queer person. This space will always be a safe place for transfems, non-binary people, people with a feminine gender expression (GNC or otherwise) or anybody else in the LGBT Community to come together and share about our experiences but we truly feel that laughing about the sometimes silly and embarrassing parts the queer experience can help bring us together. We never mean offense or harm in anything posted but rather they are satirical takes coming from queer people.

A note about 'Egging': Our community is mostly made up of transfem individuals, and as such most memes posted will be posted with the intention of having a transfem perspective. However, regardless of gender identity, all feminine presenting individuals are welcome here. Whether that means you're NB, GNC, transmasc, or any other identity, you are welcome here. It is not our intention or goal to invalidate these identities. If something makes you uncomfortable, please feel free to report the post and I will address your concerns on an individual level. For more information regarding the problems with 'Egg-culture', please see Here.

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As you may know, I moved to using my blahaj.zone account almost exclusively, as I kinda disliked the vibe I was getting from .world. At the same time, I also want to gage the feelings people have about the migration. Will you continue to use 196 on lemmy.world? Are you happy with the change? I want to hear from you:

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[–] MossyFeathers@pawb.social 1 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Regarding 196:

Dunno, didn't really use it on reddit tbh. That's why I associate it strongly with blahaj.zone.

Regarding Dragon rider:

Sigh You're right, I fixed it. In my defense, I was actually trying to avoid directly referencing drag and drag's pronouns not because I think drag is invalid but because I didn't want to distract from the fact that people were intentionally misgendering drag because they believed drag's gender/pronouns were invalid and that drag's dickish behavior excused them from having to use drag's pronouns. I was concerned that using drag's neopronouns would cause people to have a knee-jerk reaction, which was why I was referring to drag as "the troll".

Regarding your mental health:

Honestly, that'd kinda kill half the reason I use Lemmy: as a news aggregate. Furthermore, people here have too much time on their hands and find drama wherever they can. I used to think blåhaj.zone would be fairly free from drama in a generally leftist space; after all leftists should understand that queer instances and communities are generally best left to queer people, right? Yet that hasn't stopped people from trying to start drama regarding the main queer instance.

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 1 points 1 hour ago

Mm, totally see what you were going for with the pronouns. I think as soon as you mentioned "dragon" the ship had likely sailed for most of "suspension of knowledge of the individual in question"

I understand the dilemma regarding reducing the amount/variety of content you are served :/ to be honest, this is one of the main reasons I enjoy Beehaw so much, I used to be on a different instance and moved here because they federate with mostly high quality instances and the local content is of very high standard. The mods are also very good with cleaning up harmful or unsuitable content/posts/comments/users whilst not (to my mind) silencing differing opinions (when the opinions in question are not the aforementioned harmful content). I get my news feed, with much less... Mental drain