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Warning: We have a tendency to post things that may at times come from a self-deprecating perspective or things that are funny coming from another queer person. This space will always be a safe place for transfems, non-binary people, people with a feminine gender expression (GNC or otherwise) or anybody else in the LGBT Community to come together and share about our experiences but we truly feel that laughing about the sometimes silly and embarrassing parts the queer experience can help bring us together. We never mean offense or harm in anything posted but rather they are satirical takes coming from queer people.
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As you may know, I moved to using my blahaj.zone account almost exclusively, as I kinda disliked the vibe I was getting from .world. At the same time, I also want to gage the feelings people have about the migration. Will you continue to use 196 on lemmy.world? Are you happy with the change? I want to hear from you:
Regarding 196: has it been different on Lemmy vs how it was on reddit? I'm on beehaw so I don't see .world posts or communities, but at least on reddit I saw a bunch of edgy shit being posted when I still used the site a few years back
Regarding Dragon rider: drag uses drag/drag pronouns iirc and has expressed previously that they/them pronouns aren't suitable for drag, so you may want to edit your wording just a tad. Still haven't been able to figure out if drag is a troll or not, but as you say even if drag is a troll drag still has a right to identity. If Ada's brilliant stance is why 196 moved, good riddance IMHO
Regarding your mental health: perhaps its worth blocking the communities or users that are bringing the majority of the drama/doomposting/etc? I absolutely empathise with the drain on mental health that can be, and I've been very very liberal with the block feature for exactly that reason. Its totally worthwhile to curate the space you inhabit online. I hope, whatever path forward you take, that you're able to find yourself feeling better and better.
Dunno, didn't really use it on reddit tbh. That's why I associate it strongly with blahaj.zone.
Sigh You're right, I fixed it. In my defense, I was actually trying to avoid directly referencing drag and drag's pronouns not because I think drag is invalid but because I didn't want to distract from the fact that people were intentionally misgendering drag because they believed drag's gender/pronouns were invalid and that drag's dickish behavior excused them from having to use drag's pronouns. I was concerned that using drag's neopronouns would cause people to have a knee-jerk reaction, which was why I was referring to drag as "the troll".
Honestly, that'd kinda kill half the reason I use Lemmy: as a news aggregate. Furthermore, people here have too much time on their hands and find drama wherever they can. I used to think blåhaj.zone would be fairly free from drama in a generally leftist space; after all leftists should understand that queer instances and communities are generally best left to queer people, right? Yet that hasn't stopped people from trying to start drama regarding the main queer instance.
Tbh theres been some real nasty/sketchy crap from Drag (multiple account harassment), id lean towards troll myself.