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[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 5 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

And then they tell you things that you were not there to witness. That is literally how communication works.

You just seem to think that people you meet in real life are less likely to lie to you than people in an article that shows that a huge amount of research was done and I'm not sure why.

[–] big_fat_fluffy@leminal.space -2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

In real life you can talk to people that you know and see things with your own eyes. This is better than essays written by anonymous people on the internet.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

And those people could be lying to you. Every single one of them. How do you know they aren't? Why do you trust them?

[–] big_fat_fluffy@leminal.space -2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Surely you are familiar with the difference between real life and social media.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Social media is part of real life. Humans are not more honest just because you can look them in the eye.

[–] big_fat_fluffy@leminal.space 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

Actually they are more honest. It's harder to lie. And easier to detect lies. And the repercussions for lying are greater. This makes for less lying.

And that's without bringing actual firsthand experience into the argument.

No, social media is good for many things, but it is ultimately just a child's cartoon. A ghostworld.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

It’s harder to lie. And easier to detect lies.

That is an hilariously naïve thing to say.

Also, I have met many real friends over the internet who I have only interacted with over the internet. I have a friend in Turkey I have never met in person but we feel like family to each other.

Just because you can't make personal connections here doesn't mean no one can.

[–] big_fat_fluffy@leminal.space 0 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

There is infinitely more to human interaction than a stream of symbols and images. Trust me on this.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 2 points 56 minutes ago (1 children)

No, I won't "trust you" on that because you are wrong.

People for centuries have developed extremely deep and personal friendships through the mail.

Furthermore, we now have decades of people in long-term stable relationships where they fell in love over the internet.

Even before the internet, I met a girlfriend from another school via BBSes in high school. We didn't meet in person for months and it was no different when we met in person in terms of how we felt about each other.

Again, just because you can't make personal connections on the internet doesn't mean no one can.

[–] big_fat_fluffy@leminal.space 0 points 53 minutes ago* (last edited 53 minutes ago) (1 children)

I'm sure it was deeply fulfilling. Or some relative equivalent thereof.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 1 points 51 minutes ago* (last edited 51 minutes ago) (1 children)

How could you possibly know one way or the other? Are you psychic? Are your needs everyone's needs?

[–] big_fat_fluffy@leminal.space 0 points 34 minutes ago (1 children)

I know because I know what the medium is like. I have that perspective.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 1 points 3 minutes ago

Again- are your needs everyone's needs?