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external motivation, not understanding
Idk. For me it's a practical thing of feeling no motivation to transition because nobody is actively helping me? Like am I just supposed to do this?I apparently fooled everyone into thinking I'm a sad straight male who gave up on his life 4 years ago. I wish I could do anything on purpose as well as I've done that on accident.
The fact that nobody in my life suspected that I was queer or autistic or struggled at all feels like an indictment of my ability to communicate and build relationships. It feels like my support system lost track of me. That's where the shame comes from. The fact that nobody checks in on me is a sign that they've given up, it's certainly not a sign that they're still here.
A lot of times I feel like a Muppet that needs a human character to be their straight person, ground them in reality. I'm being forced to imply and discover a LOT of information that I'd rather simply be told by someone I can trust. It's tiring.
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That hits hard for me :meow-hug: