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Never felt so called out...
Smack dab in the midst of autism town which makes sense. I've probably explicitly done a few things to cope better (i.e. not end up stuck and irritated with a project for hours) that harm my score slightly, fwiw.
You mean you quit rather than torture yourself? So often do I quit doing things way after I should or it hurts. Whether itβs something socially regrettable I will later regret, or exercise until I collapse, or just forcing myself through a book.
The main thing that makes me less monotropic than others is that Iβm anxious and conscious enough of time to rarely hyperfocus or forget about my needs (though I will be incapable of fulfilling them because they are demands).
I quit if I'm not enjoying something, have little interest or feel I'm not getting anything out of it, but I can be engaged and hyperfocused if I do. I can engage with things I have little interest in but really depends on why I would get engaged in the first place. I always say what I mean, and I flat won't talk to someone I don't want to, I will verbally shut down if I feel that I don't want to talk.
I don't regret anything socially unless I upset someone by accident. Which I try to avoid. But I don't worry about what other people think.
I will not engage with things where I can lose track of time if I get engaged.
I've learned how to work around how my brain works.
Absolutely! Just like me fr.
I wouldn't be rude and just drop a conversation, I would take my leave. But I don't engage if I don't feel I need to talk. I only talk when I feel compelled to or when spoken to.